I'm a troll, ban me

[flippinfreak]

Here is what I'm gonna do:

Because the internet can actualy be usefull I can't really give it up completely like I did with the computer games by deleting them, so I'm gonna take it out of my system gradualy starting from now.

Im gonna turn it off after I finish this post and wont turn it on until monday.

I'm gonna post some ideeas about this "weekend away from the computer" on monday.

Cheers!

I'm in, after I finish work today I won't post again until monday.

 

[Vulpine]

www.spudtech.com

Craziness.

 

[I love Hyori Lee]

This website is addicting. I'll give you that.

 

[Bible_Belt]

About the forgetting to eat, I read about a guy who died that way. It seems possible. The Internet can be addicting.

If it is at all possible, I recommend outdoor physical labor in sunny weather. It helps me a lot. I get muscles and a tan without paying a gym or a salon.

Also if possible, get three friends and set up a volley ball court in your yard. That is what I am going away to do this minute, because the Internet can be addicting...

 

[three12]

Your an idiot. You've figured it out. People are saying 'thats great!'

WRONG!

Your an idiot. You've figured it out. Act on it. Then I'll tell ya 'thats great!'

Its easy as hell to use this site to become a man.

I've been here for 3 and a half - 4 years. Everyday I am a little bit more of who I want to be.

I haven't even left my comfort zone. I've developed what I'm comfortable with.

I didn't dive head first into cold appraoches by saying 'hi' to 50 people each day.

Don't get me wrong - that sort of stuff would work. It would be the fastest way.

But there is no 'right' way of becomming a man.

You know what needs to be done. Do it.

It can be done without leaving your comfort zone. It just takes longer.

This is just another excuse.

"I can't be a man because I'm weird and addicted to the internet."

Total ****en cop out.

You can be a man.

You choose to be a woman. So you come up with some retarded reason to justify it.

three12.

 

[thefonz]

You remind me of Mystery, Mystery was a complete male-attention ***** but is one of the greatest pick-up artists to ever live.....you like being the center of attention and should try to see that as a positive thing.

Me, I hate being the center of attention and wish to god I could be more outgoing like yourself to improve my dj skills. Try to gain some control over this desire and I think it could be a valuable tool in your dj arsenal. Good luck finding what you're looking for. We all are but we're not as vocal about it.

 

[RedPill]

this post could apply to many

FLIPPINFREAK, you lack what most others lack - discipline. You know what to do but you won't take action. You resist change, you fear the unfamiliar. Like most, you do what's easy, not what's right, and you are reaping what you sow.

Anyone who says discipline is easy is full of sh1t. It requires that you summon the energy to block out the noise around you. It requires that you alter years of old familiars, bad habits, and faulty mental schemas. Unless you were lucky enough to be brought into this world and groomed for success, which 99% of the population is not, you will have to be self-made. Rising above your background to win at the game of life is a challenge of the highest order. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Have you ever stopped, for even a moment, to seriously consider the truly difficult questions? What drives you? What do you want out of life? I doubt you have. All your other "problems" stem from here. You have no direction, no vision, no ambition. Sosuave gives you an outlet to fantasize about your potential. Whether or not you take any of your potential and capitalize on it in the physical realm - REALITY as it's better known - comes down to how disciplined you are.

Most are content to stew in fantasyland because they are driven by fear:

The fear of failure.
The fear of rejection.
The fear of eternal damnation.
The fear of losing it all.
The fear of loneliness.
The fear of aging.
The fear of a life unfulfilled.

Does fear adequately define your paradigm? I'd say so. But I'm only basing this assumption on your words. I don't know you, nor do I know anyone else here, as far as I'm aware. You expect OTHERS to provide for you for your lack of discipline. You feel you are in some way entitled to the grooming for success you were never given. I've got news for ya pal, it ain't never gonna happen!

So how does one become disciplined? First you must answer the difficult questions. What's important about life to you? You must have that conversation with yourself. You must keep having that conversation until you start answering the damn questions. You must review your answers frequently. Albert Einstein once said there have been no great men since men stopped keeping journals. Write down your thoughts in private, with no agenda to make an impression on anyone else with your words. Write down your ideas. If you haven't already done so, hone the skill of articulating your thoughts. When you know what you want, when you know what is motivating you, you have created an incentive to become disciplined. That is the first step. Most humans end up dying one day as an aged pile of diseased flesh without ever having taken the first step toward realizing their potential.

Now, I could go on and about the virtues of becoming self-made, but that would be a waste of time as most people haven't even taken the first step. The bottom line is that only YOU can make the choice to become self-disciplined. Nobody will give that to you. There's another term that I like to use as a catchy substitute for discipline. That is BALLS. My main point restated, only YOU can make the choice to GROW SOME BALLS!

Now, what ACTIONS will you take TODAY to get closer to realizing and achieving your potential? If the answer is none, get the hell away from me and stop asking for handouts.

RedPill

 

[Taviii]

Sh!t I couldn't do it. I spent about 2 hours surfing the net Saturday and 5 Sunday playing The Godfather so although I didn't do what I had in mind I drastically cut down from what would have been probably 20 hours in the whole weekend to 7 hours.

My mind was constantly pushing me to open the computer.

Anyways it was a good experience because I realised how many things you can do in the time you are away from the computer, so my new short term goal: spend maximum 1 hour a day in front of the monitor.

Where's flippinfreak?

 

[flippinfreak]

LOL I rejected the computer the entire weekend. I got caught up instead thinking about my twinitis, and watched more TV in a day than I have in over a month... didn't write down a single word, didn't talk to asingle person about my aspirations, and didn't make plans with anybody.

Went downtown, and kept bumping into girls who had oneitis. Ran a few boyfriend destroyers while being goofy and they all talked about giving him one more chance, so next time I see them I can run game a little more. Makes me feel bad because it's the way I USED to run my game, just now it has a name.

Smo0ked a bunch of weed on Saturday, got toally burnt out because it was crap, I started zoning out, and I had no desire to actually say a damned thing.

Got tons of IOI's, but didn't have the ambition to do anything about them since all the girls that I noticed giving them to me were involved with friends. I've come to think that being friends with many many people is damaging to my self since love connections between friends are something I am unwilling to break... Bros befores hoes, even though I don't think any of them are hoes.

Goals to set. Spend a maximum of one hour a day reiterating goals online. They are much better iterated in the real world, in real time, where people can give real advice, and real criticism.

 

[flippinfreak]

Goal# 2: Limit my time in front of the TV. Watch Two programs maximum.

Tavii, you should limit your time playing video games. Myself, I ruined my life years ago like Vulpine did, flunked out of University because I played a turn based MMOG. Kicked some serious ass, made a lot of online friends, met some awesome women, none of whom I've ever met, and generaly lived online... probably the same thing I'm doing here. I haven't played more than 5 minutes of any video game without becoming sick of myself... Next time somebody brings up playing games I'll bring up what my life was like and see if I can get some new friends to take the DJ path with me

I didn't take up any new hobbies over the weekend. Sucks. Think I'll make some time for myself and swing over to some of the construction sites and the dump and see if I can salvage some materials to make myself a potato gun, seems like some real fun from what I've seen in videos

I'll catch you guys later. I'm going to write myself a journal. Going to go home, since it IS a holiday, and just spend some time away from distractions. The weekend was full of them when I was away from home. I followed other peoples trains of thought.... surprisingly, we talked about how much fun weddings were and related life to wedding movies(more following, trends nevert the less). It was weird though, very fun to follow trends and rev up the bandwagon, perhaps I should plan a few days just pushing people to think about things I am interested in...

Goal# 3: write myself a journal. Think of things I can do in my life that are simple and progressive.

 

[flippinfreak]

I've been here for 3 and a half - 4 years. Everyday I am a little bit more of who I want to be.

I haven't even left my comfort zone. I've developed what I'm comfortable with.

I didn't dive head first into cold appraoches by saying 'hi' to 50 people each day.

Don't get me wrong - that sort of stuff would work. It would be the fastest way.

But there is no 'right' way of becomming a man.

You know what needs to be done. Do it.

This is just another excuse.

"I can't be a man because I'm weird and addicted to the internet."

three12.

That's a long time. Did you only start posting now? I've been here since last August... I have only developed my thinking skills, a little too much though, I get wrapped up thinking about what other people have begun to get bored with when I speak with them.

I've stayed in my comfort zone, making new friends through introductions, and associating fun with being drunk. I can introduce myself to 50 new people in a single night, and keep the conversations going whenever the next time I meet them. I've got no problem with meeting new people. Well I guess I do, I have no desire to do so when I am not drunk.

Online, this site, my current life, I am obsessed with finding the BEST way to live life, but rarely taking action to live my life the way I want to.

Thanks for writing, it's mostly just trying to kick me when I am down, telling me to get up and live life. Nothing I can really grasp... at least not from my viewpoint.

I can't think of anyway to make any goal out of this. I can't think of anything to live up to from what you said. I can totally rip into it and insult the thinking processes to reach there... really, I can't think of ANYTHING good to think about or do from what you said

 

[flippinfreak]

Does fear adequately define your paradigm? I'd say so. But I'm only basing this assumption on your words. I don't know you, nor do I know anyone else here, as far as I'm aware. You expect OTHERS to provide for you for your lack of discipline. You feel you are in some way entitled to the grooming for success you were never given. I've got news for ya pal, it ain't never gonna happen!

So how does one become disciplined? First you must answer the difficult questions. What's important about life to you? You must have that conversation with yourself. You must keep having that conversation until you start answering the damn questions. You must review your answers frequently. Albert Einstein once said there have been no great men since men stopped keeping journals. Write down your thoughts in private, with no agenda to make an impression on anyone else with your words. Write down your ideas. If you haven't already done so, hone the skill of articulating your thoughts. When you know what you want, when you know what is motivating you, you have created an incentive to become disciplined. That is the first step. Most humans end up dying one day as an aged pile of diseased flesh without ever having taken the first step toward realizing their potential.

Now, what ACTIONS will you take TODAY to get closer to realizing and achieving your potential? If the answer is none, get the hell away from me and stop asking for handouts.

RedPill

The only fear I can think of, is fearing to look back on my life, and fear of taking action about my past. "Why does the past haunt me" That's a question that came to my mind. There are so many things that people associate with my past, those things affect people's reactions of my.

I have built up crazy social proof in my life. I've got 50 year old politicians cutting through lines to shake my hand. I've got 10 year old kids who knock on my door in the morning asking if I want to come outside to play at the playground. I've got HB8.5 girls I've never met before saying "yeah I've heard of you"

All my proof does't mean sh!t though, if women I have FWB relationships with start saying they asked somebody about me, and the people laugh "why did they laugh when I said your name?" I have no answer, and it totally ruins every vibee I have going for me. I've been on this site looking for excuses and answers to some of the questions the girls bring up so I can appear more in control of my life. The other day my little brother was out playing some cards and the kid took his money "a mug is a mug" My brother tried to get the money, but some bigger kids pushed him around, "your brother is nice, he's not going to do anything" After I heard of this, I took off downtown asked around and found the kids house. Asked his parents to send him over to me, and I took his cap in front of them, "tell him he can get it back after he stops being a little punk" his dad gave me the money he stole. I know it's rarely going to be that easy, and I have to begin changing those things.

Goal# 4: Stop fearing my past, start bringing up the past, don't be afraid of being too aggressive against change. Start challenging past assumptions people have made about me. I don't want my past to hold me back any longer.

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

Or do what I did.... build a spud gun! A bag of potatoes and a can of hairspray can cure boredom quite nicely

I'm not sure if you should be encouraging a guy who's obviously depressed/delusional on some level to construct something potentially dangerous.

The strange thing is, he actually sounds intelligent. Perhaps if he could channel that energy into something more positive, his circumstances would change.

Either way, good luck bro, but go easy on the "spud-gun".

 

[Skel]

Wierd is a point of view.

 

[three12]

That's a long time. Did you only start posting now? I've been here since last August... I have only developed my thinking skills, a little too much though, I get wrapped up thinking about what other people have begun to get bored with when I speak with them.

I've stayed in my comfort zone, making new friends through introductions, and associating fun with being drunk. I can introduce myself to 50 new people in a single night, and keep the conversations going whenever the next time I meet them. I've got no problem with meeting new people. Well I guess I do, I have no desire to do so when I am not drunk.

Online, this site, my current life, I am obsessed with finding the BEST way to live life, but rarely taking action to live my life the way I want to.

Thanks for writing, it's mostly just trying to kick me when I am down, telling me to get up and live life. Nothing I can really grasp... at least not from my viewpoint.

I can't think of anyway to make any goal out of this. I can't think of anything to live up to from what you said. I can totally rip into it and insult the thinking processes to reach there... really, I can't think of ANYTHING good to think about or do from what you said

Cool.

No one here wants the responsibility of saving you from your life.

Thats your job.

You've got a world of awesome information at your feet, and your chosing to walk right past it. Or worse, acknowledge it, then walk right past it.

Its SOOOOO hard to go to the gym a bit each day.

Its SOOOOO hard to study a bit each night.

It is so easy to hide from reality in TV, videogames, movies, the internet.

Have fun with that.

Stop wasting bandwidth on your depressed life. Someone who is actually prepared to take action might come along and miss out on good advice because you're selfish.

Save yourself.

Let me know how that goes.

three12.

 

[I love Hyori Lee]

FLIPPINFREAK, you lack what most others lack - discipline. You know what to do but you won't take action. You resist change, you fear the unfamiliar. Like most, you do what's easy, not what's right, and you are reaping what you sow.

Anyone who says discipline is easy is full of sh1t. It requires that you summon the energy to block out the noise around you. It requires that you alter years of old familiars, bad habits, and faulty mental schemas. Unless you were lucky enough to be brought into this world and groomed for success, which 99% of the population is not, you will have to be self-made. Rising above your background to win at the game of life is a challenge of the highest order. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Have you ever stopped, for even a moment, to seriously consider the truly difficult questions? What drives you? What do you want out of life? I doubt you have. All your other "problems" stem from here. You have no direction, no vision, no ambition. Sosuave gives you an outlet to fantasize about your potential. Whether or not you take any of your potential and capitalize on it in the physical realm - REALITY as it's better known - comes down to how disciplined you are.

Most are content to stew in fantasyland because they are driven by fear:

The fear of failure.
The fear of rejection.
The fear of eternal damnation.
The fear of losing it all.
The fear of loneliness.
The fear of aging.
The fear of a life unfulfilled.

Does fear adequately define your paradigm? I'd say so. But I'm only basing this assumption on your words. I don't know you, nor do I know anyone else here, as far as I'm aware. You expect OTHERS to provide for you for your lack of discipline. You feel you are in some way entitled to the grooming for success you were never given. I've got news for ya pal, it ain't never gonna happen!

So how does one become disciplined? First you must answer the difficult questions. What's important about life to you? You must have that conversation with yourself. You must keep having that conversation until you start answering the damn questions. You must review your answers frequently. Albert Einstein once said there have been no great men since men stopped keeping journals. Write down your thoughts in private, with no agenda to make an impression on anyone else with your words. Write down your ideas. If you haven't already done so, hone the skill of articulating your thoughts. When you know what you want, when you know what is motivating you, you have created an incentive to become disciplined. That is the first step. Most humans end up dying one day as an aged pile of diseased flesh without ever having taken the first step toward realizing their potential.

Now, I could go on and about the virtues of becoming self-made, but that would be a waste of time as most people haven't even taken the first step. The bottom line is that only YOU can make the choice to become self-disciplined. Nobody will give that to you. There's another term that I like to use as a catchy substitute for discipline. That is BALLS. My main point restated, only YOU can make the choice to GROW SOME BALLS!

Now, what ACTIONS will you take TODAY to get closer to realizing and achieving your potential? If the answer is none, get the hell away from me and stop asking for handouts.

RedPill

This is almost DJ Bible material.

 

[flippinfreak]

Wierd is a point of view.

Man, yesterday I got the weird treatment to the max.

Everybody I talked to either gave me the "your a weirdo" look or actually said it in words.

I don't know what thell it is, or I would change it right away.

Only one person I asked could give me an answer other than "I don't know" the answer she gave to to "why do people think I'm weird?" was "It's because you think diffeent from other people" "you react differently in social situations" "It's like you think backwards"

In all my classes I always worked backwards. My answers were correct, but my work was wrong, or I missed steps so I'd lose marks. I honestly believe that I think backwards.

Anybody have any idea what that is all about?

 

[Stackthestyles]

MWAHAHHAHAHAHAHAH!!!

Bump

 

[spider_007]

Man, yesterday I got the weird treatment to the max.
Everybody I talked to either gave me the "your a weirdo" look or actually said it in words.

I hang out with a guy like that once in a while. He had some "DIFFERENT" ideas. In his room apperently he has shelfs with computers that "he want's to see running while he sleeps". When he bought a house that he was fixing up, he was talking about putting blue neon lights around doors and windows...and that "dico floor" through out the house (you know, the squares that lightup....).

Don't get me wrong, the guy is loads of fun, he just thinks a little out of the box (like way out sometimes:yes: )

oh ya, and he doesn't dring (socially) because he is afraid he'll get addicted to it (did i mention he was 25)

 

[djbr]

Dude... one thing I can give you. I still feel I am the weirdo when I'm around people. What motivates me is simple: I'm not EVER going to let them win. I DEFINE WHAT I WANT TO BE.

Simple.