I'm a total fool

[Energizer]

I understand what you are saying mate. Experience is the key here, with experience comes composure, more confidence & so forth.

I'll try the business card thing and see how that gets on. Either that or I could just grow a pair ask for their phones and type in my number and then ring my number from their phone, saving their contact details and call them another time.

As for this woman, I probably won't bother unless I see her sometime in a social setting away from her work, then I'll try it, but I'm gonna stick with meeting girls anywhere other than her workplace, my workplace or our workplace.

 

[Joe Stud]

I wear davidoffs cool water, mixed with preferred stock. but they also seem to love the cheapie from walmart "bod"... black bottle. and the only people who say it's too strong are men, and old ladies. thanks energizer for the kind words, but i dont have half the game that you have. you are a great advisor!

 

[Atom Smasher]

You demonstrated to her that you are a weakling (I'm saying that this is what you clearly conveyed to her). She has completely lost respect for you, trust me.

You should have told her, "Id like to continue this conversation later. Write down your number here and we'll grab a cup of coffee sometime". Notice this is a command, not a request. Even if she refused, she would have respected you because women instinctively want a male to be a dominant force. Your move was so passive that it is the antithesis of manhood.

Not to worry, though. We're all learning here and the great thing is that this is a craft that can be honed and improved upon. You're out there trying, bro, and I respect that.

 

[Energizer]

Yeah, I agree Atom Smasher.

I'm past caring about this incident, its happened, I made an error of judgement and have been given fantastic advice from people on here as to how to better deal with situations like this in the future.

The way I see it? Her loss.

 

[huanic]

There are no prerequisites to having one nor should you think anyone handing them out is some one of any significance. Yes people of high business standards have them but it is in no nyc asian escort way a right of nyc asian escorts passage or nyc escort achievement. They have them nyc escorts because it makes it easy for them to pass their business along from one person to another. Try to think along those lines. Nothing pretentious about it, it's just a passage of formal information.behaviour, but it appears to have arisen again. To cut to the chase, I fancy this woman. Well tonight, I came into the store she works in, I bumped into her and we exchanged the usual "hello", "how are you" chit chat and then as the conversation was drawing on, I decide to give her my number on a piece of paper (I always keep my digits down on a bit of paper as I cannot remember my number) and I just handed it to her and said bye.

 

[trent81]

You didn't do much wrong, **** them if they think you did.next time ask for her number. In fact, go in there and say something like "I gave you my number last time but I know you won't call, no girl calls a guy, so give me yours and lets go out for drinks sometime."

 

[trent81]

It's not her loss, go back in there and try again, make fun of yourself. Be aggressive. She won't call you even if she loved you, it's not a woman's postion to call a man.

 

[MKS82]

Im not saying this is right or anything but from what Ive experienced giving a girl attention like you are putting her on pedestool actually gives you the power. AfC is fine just as long as you dont become a push over. Its good because you give her good feelings and she thinks she has you. you have the power to make her feel that way so you have the powere to take it away. Just play both sides.

 

[Energizer]

It's not her loss, go back in there and try again, make fun of yourself. Be aggressive. She won't call you even if she loved you, it's not a woman's postion to call a man.

You sir are a legend.

I followed your advice earlier on, I was on my way to check out some HDTV's and happened to be near the shop she works in. I head into the shop. She notices me and she seemed pleased to see me, all smiles and I walk over to her, we exchange chit chat. I'm feeling a bit brazen here and somewhat nervous. After some small talk for a few minutes, I pretend that I have to be somewhere, and ask her for her number, she takes my mobile out of my hand (I had in my hand when I walked into the shop) and punches in her number. She then said "I see you finally grew some balls" with a cheeky grin, I smile and say my goodbyes and then leave the shop feeling extremely smug.

I was nervous the whole way through, but I seem to have managed to remain composed and finally have enough about me to ask for her number. I'll be phoning her up tomorrow to arrange a meet up.