I'm a late bloomer in life

Dhoulmagus

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Anybody else the same? I was pretty much nothing in hs. Now, I am about to graduate college and I can confidently say that I am in a better position than most of my graduating class. I guess being independent payed off. I also learned a lot of stuff later in life too.
 

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It might seem like a big deal to you at your age, but HS doesn't mean jack. I wouldn't even consider that "late bloomer" territory. I actually think you are fortunate to learn this stuff in college or the end of college.
 

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High school doesn't mean sh!t dude. I discovered this place the summer after sophomore year and honestly it barely made a difference because first impressions count WAY more than I ever would have thought, at least in my area anyway (although, school dances were the easiest sh!t in the world after that..... :D)

The main thing that helped was the self-improvement advice and that's cuz it's your intrapersonal relationship, not interpersonal.
 

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I'm in grad school getting my M.ed and when researching development theory the general rule is the people who were most developed in HS burn out quickly but the late bloomers just keep developing skills and even though they are kinda like the tortoise in tortoise and the hare, they eventually win the race so no worries man!
 

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I'm 27 years old and only just getting this stuff. You aren't late imo
 

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You are fortunate enough to have a sh1t load of material and resources to have in front of you. 10 years ago when many guys were 20 the best they could hope for was the book The Game and some grainy videos of the Mystery method.
 

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Started getting this stuff at 28, love learning something new every day.
 

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I was a virgin until i was 18. Was really shy in high school. I cut that **** out after I graduated and started getting out more. In the past 8 years I've managed to bang around 30 chicks and have had quite a few relationships. It happens. I just wish I knew what I know now back then.
 
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