Im 27 how many women should i have been with by this age?

[bigjohnson]

.... I spent more time banging hotter girls, lol, like most of us probably do. But when you're young you tend to be an opportunist.

Ya agree w/ that. I don't and never have understood this obsession with a count. Call me a selfish prick but I've always been more about what makes me happy not some imaginary scorecard.

 

[BeyondCharm]

I agree, and at some point you really just stop counting and that's when you just enjoy yourself, live your life and don't bother with tallying everything.

A scorecard and counter is for one reason: FEEDING THE EGO.

 

[mikeraw]

I'm past the 50 mark. Every time I count I forget some and then remember others... Quality? Both extremes... I've probably gone down to a 3 as my worst. Most have been ONS.

 

[J Roc]

100+ is crazy. I don't even think I'd want to sleep with that many women. It seems to me it would be statistically impossible not to contract an STD with those numbers, even with a condom.

I've been with around 22-24 girls, and honestly if I were to get married I wouldn't feel like I've "missed out" on pvssy. The only thing I'd wish is that I spent more time banging hotter girls, lol, like most of us probably do. But when you're young you tend to be an opportunist.

of course he probably has an std and so do you. its called HPV

 

[STR8UP]

Who the F cares?

I learned awhile ago that once you've been with 5 or 6 girls it's pretty much more of the same with the rest.

 

[STR8UP]

Up to a point. Some are better or less inhibited but mostly the differences come into play when she's not doing the nasty in my experience. As for the old ladies claim they are "more experienced" ... so what? All they need to do is shut up and do as I ask. How much experience can it take?

A chick is about as good as she's gonna get in the sack by the time she's fukked a few dozen times.

Experienced woman? Bullsh!t IMO. For a woman, you are either good or you're not so good. Most are not so good. Men on the other hand, I believe that some of us "hit our stride" after having been with enough women enough times to learn what makes them cvm. In my 20's I didn't get women saying how "good" I was except maybe the passing ego booster bone tossed my way. When I hit my 30's I started getting quite a reputation.

I guess that's what happens when you pay attention in class

 

[Luveno]

Quality over quantity.

Sex is easy to get.

Good sex with good looking women, now that's a commodity.

I'd rather have good sex with one hot girl per year than bad sex with ugly women every day.

 

[slaog]

The average man in the US has sex with 8 partners in his life.

In surveys like ths I'd say men like to stretch the truth a bit. So it could be lower.

 

[socialdj]

Hey Mr_Schlong since ive lost my virginity ive been with about 70-80 chicks total, i guess we are on the same boat. How did i do it? well, i did lower my standards, i partied 3 times a week and got 3 numbers every time i would go out. I made sure i called all of the girls and I tried to have sex with them within 3 hours of going out with them. It worked about 70% of the time. Every once in a while i would get a dime piece in there. I even fell in love a couple of times. But i would move on really quickly.

My last ex girlfriend was a 9 out of 10 and really liked me but i cheated on her 3 times and I ended up breaking up with her because i didnt want to get caught. She hates me, but i deserved it. No women deserves a jerk. Although they sure do like them.

Now sex is like working out. I tend to count my reps and sets for every position that i do and it really turns the girl on but to me its just like a work out, all i am concentrating on is finishing the reps...

So now i am back in the scene. I turned down sex twice in the last month or so, concentration on some more innocent/traditional women. However, i realize innocence comes hand in hand with young age so im sticking with women between 19 - 23. They can sure smell a guy like me from a mile away. The problem is now the wingman. My friends are married, so i am going out solo. Its ok though It keeps my on my mission.

 

[BeyondCharm]

Hey Mr_Schlong since ive lost my virginity ive been with about 70-80 chicks total, i guess we are on the same boat. How did i do it? well, i did lower my standards, i partied 3 times a week and got 3 numbers every time i would go out. I made sure i called all of the girls and I tried to have sex with them within 3 hours of going out with them. It worked about 70% of the time. Every once in a while i would get a dime piece in there. I even fell in love a couple of times. But i would move on really quickly.

I can relate to your story a lot and although I wasn't meeting women at parties, the mentality shared was almost identical. It became a "science" like working out and I would quickly move on if either they or I started having feelings.

I have in the last three months largely felt a shift in my ideals and have actually passed up sex and and left a relationship where ideals did not meet my own. I have raised my standards, both for my partner and for myself and am no longer searching out purely sexual relationships. I am interested in sex, don't get me wrong, but I am also looking for substance and quality in the other person and an individual who can hold my respect with grace, elegance and class.

 

[Vulpine]

I have raised my standards, both for my partner and for myself and am no longer searching out purely sexual relationships. I am interested in sex, don't get me wrong, but I am also looking for substance and quality in the other person and an individual who can hold my respect with grace, elegance and class.

Well, don't be surprised when you feel like running up the numbers in a year or two. It's nice to "get some exercise" once in a while. I've found that I go in a cycle... I'll be all "cozy" and let the plates spin down while I chill with a girl. Then, that gets old and I go on a rampage banging many women. Of course, one will stand out and I'll get "cozy" with them for a while, then go on another rampage again.

The cycle usually coordinates with other things going on in my life. If my life is somewhat calm, I'll have the capacity to indulge in women. When my life gets turbulent, I focus on my life and cozy up with a chick until things calm down. If things get super crazy, I won't bother with women at all, I just hide out and handle my business. I'm far from afraid of being alone.

Women are like a hobby that way. If I don't have time, energy, or resources to direct towards a particular hobby, I just don't do it. If a hobby gets to be a chore and not a pleasure, I take a break from it until it is fun again.

Besides, I'm not "on top of my game" when life is hectic anyway. I know myself well enough through experience to avoid something I wouldn't be good at. If I'm not "smiling", I'm not going to try to smile at women. I'll smile at women when I'm actually smiling anyway.

Numbers? How about, "more than one"?

 

[BeyondCharm]

Wow... It's scary how much alike we are in the respect to your post. You actually summed up a pattern that I have definitely exhibited. For example lately, things were getting so crazy that I have just been handling my own business, I've been working 12-hour days 7 days a week, traveling constantly and have had little to no free-time gaps.

When things settle down, I have all these time slots to fill and guess what? I go on those rampages... I went on one earlier this year.

So are you not interested in monogamous dating or it's simply not happened? I'm personally open to the possibility of a LTR but have not found a partner to be in one with that matched well. I've been pursued by some dates to be in one. Thoughts?

Well, don't be surprised when you feel like running up the numbers in a year or two. It's nice to "get some exercise" once in a while. I've found that I go in a cycle... I'll be all "cozy" and let the plates spin down while I chill with a girl. Then, that gets old and I go on a rampage banging many women. Of course, one will stand out and I'll get "cozy" with them for a while, then go on another rampage again.

The cycle usually coordinates with other things going on in my life. If my life is somewhat calm, I'll have the capacity to indulge in women. When my life gets turbulent, I focus on my life and cozy up with a chick until things calm down. If things get super crazy, I won't bother with women at all, I just hide out and handle my business. I'm far from afraid of being alone.

Women are like a hobby that way. If I don't have time, energy, or resources to direct towards a particular hobby, I just don't do it. If a hobby gets to be a chore and not a pleasure, I take a break from it until it is fun again.

Besides, I'm not "on top of my game" when life is hectic anyway. I know myself well enough through experience to avoid something I wouldn't be good at. If I'm not "smiling", I'm not going to try to smile at women. I'll smile at women when I'm actually smiling anyway.

Numbers? How about, "more than one"?

 

[socialdj]

Yeah I agree with Vulpine I usually run up my numbers in cycles. There is also another kind of cycle which i like to call the "mojo" cycle. When it happens women naturally come and present themselves and it is very easy since they pick up on your "mojo". This is a good time to go out and socialize with women and get dates. However, on the other hand there are dry spell cycles when It can get difficult to tune in to the "mojo" frequency and get women. Usually this happens when there is something else on your mind.

 

[Peterpack]

I'm just over 30 and am well over 100 , probably over 130. It sounds like a lot but really is only 10 a year since age 17. Oh yeah and i'm really really fussy so it's never been about numbers for me.

 

[Voyager75024]

Other considerations..

Although I agree with you guys that the number doesn't matter as long as you are happy, it is good to know what the average guy is doing so you can calibrate how to present things in the context of a LTR..

For the highest quality women when it comes to LTRs, they often will want to know what your dating experience is. Diseases, ability to commit, maturity, and other things are all indirectly indicated by such information. Men with extremely high or extremely low numbers can be a turnoff (player/ child).

Like any other aspect of your life, you should be comfortable with it, but you should also be socially aware enough to know when to carefully present something.

Truthfully the last major real survey was the Kinsey report, but social changes since then render those numbers highly unreliable.

The best approach is to use the number of 2/ year since 18 (shows good mix of one nighters and LTRs and cap it at 20).

If your number is smaller, emphasize the numner of LTRs and how special each woman was. If it is more, I found best thing to say is "I've been with about.. x women." She probably will know your number is higher but it allows her to absolve the responsibility of being a little reckless with you by considering you for a LTR.

Just a little something I came across myself. This is a late post, but hope it helps

 

[imaginemypotential]

am 19 and am at 40+ , kinda wierd through doesnt seem like it

 

[Trader]

Sexually. Just out of curiosity whats the average number of partners by 27.

Wrong question

You should not care about measuring up to some societal standard. That is girl thinking.

You should simply be concerned about improving every day and enjoying life. That's what counts.

 

[bigmil]

numbers do build confidence but quality is really what matters. If you're a decent looking guy with a personality you can get laid pretty easy so what does it really matter? It's not really all that important in the grand scheme of things.

 

[darkstarrr]

(your age - 16 ) ÷ 2.75 = ~#