superstorm250
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Like the title says, I'm 24 and never had a girlfriend and I have no dating/relationship experience. I've only been on 1 date and have had sex once back when I was 21, but I don't think that's enough to count as dating experience. I got into this situation because I have very low confidence when it comes to getting girls and I've had that my whole life, even back as early as 1st grade I was like this and I even foresaw the situation I'm in now happening even all the way back then. I just feel like I'm screwed, I work by myself as an independent contractor right now, so I'm not around any other people at work, and school is all other guys in the classes because my classes are about working in a brewery.
So one big problem that I've had since graduating high school 5 years ago is that I'm never around any girls, except for a month and a half out of the year when I go work at my summer job. This past work season there, I actually met a girl and there was mutual attraction but I fuked it up when I tried to text her (dodged a bullet with her though, saw her liking some really dark sh*t about abusing animals and other messed up things on Facebook). But I can never pull the trigger and ask a girl out even if she's giving me clear signals, I still always assume she's gonna say no, or that I'll just mess things up some other way (like by her being turned off by learning that I've never dated before) even if she does say yes. It really holds me back, and I need to try and move past this mindset. I've never used dating apps, but I'm really considering them now even though I still have doubts about how successful guys are on them. I would probably start with Tinder and Match.com and hope for the best.
So one big problem that I've had since graduating high school 5 years ago is that I'm never around any girls, except for a month and a half out of the year when I go work at my summer job. This past work season there, I actually met a girl and there was mutual attraction but I fuked it up when I tried to text her (dodged a bullet with her though, saw her liking some really dark sh*t about abusing animals and other messed up things on Facebook). But I can never pull the trigger and ask a girl out even if she's giving me clear signals, I still always assume she's gonna say no, or that I'll just mess things up some other way (like by her being turned off by learning that I've never dated before) even if she does say yes. It really holds me back, and I need to try and move past this mindset. I've never used dating apps, but I'm really considering them now even though I still have doubts about how successful guys are on them. I would probably start with Tinder and Match.com and hope for the best.