I'll call you.

[becker]

Originally posted by TylerDurden
This is really the point that I am getting at. Well said Becker. Why are we NEXTING girls who don't call back so quickly? Maybe she is shy. Maybe she feels that calling a man is too forward. I am not trying to turn a no into a yes. I am questioning the rule that if a girl does not call back that she is not interested.

She could be shy about calling guys. After all, even if a girl has high IL don't you still have to date and pursue her?

It's definitely not a good move to next a girl because she didn't call. I told this story, but I'll tell it again since it's relevant to this thread.

There's a girl that I am pursuing that told me that she used to be scared to death to even call 411 for information. She's just incredibly shy, and for all you guys out there who have been shy before, you know how it feels. I used to be that way in grade school, but for some reason, I became more outgoing once high school began. Anyways, it's not always easy to pick up the phone and call someone in such situations. It really depends on the girl.

For example, if you're dealing with a girl who is the type that is always on the phone, and you know it, then if she doesn't call you, chances are, she has low IL. However, if she is the very shy type of girl, I can bet you a million bucks that she would like to call you but has trouble doing it. If you call her and reach her, she will likely be happy to hear from you. Do it case-by-case, don't make blanket statements about this, because that's not the way it works in reality.

I'd call her if I were you, TylerDuren, until you reach her. The worst thing that can happen is that she's not interested and you'll know.

 

[MysteryWoman]

Originally posted by TylerDurden
What do you guys think about a girl who says that they will call you and then they don't.

How do you really know that she has low interest?

Don't worry about this too much, many guys have done it in the past to me and I just move on.

Did you ask for her number and she asked for yours instead?

This may be a polite form of rejection.

Did you keep persisting when she really wasn't interested? (lots of guys do this when they are drunk)

Did you offer her your number or did she ask for it?

Maybe she is too shy and lost the confidence to phone. Maybe she wasn't that attracted to you in the first place, or she may have simply lost your number (it does happen).

 

[becker]

Re: Re: I'll call you.

Originally posted by MysteryWoman
Don't worry about this too much, many guys have done it in the past to me and I just move on.

Did you ask for her number and she asked for yours instead?

This may be a polite form of rejection.

Did you keep persisting when she really wasn't interested? (lots of guys do this when they are drunk)

Did you offer her your number or did she ask for it?

Maybe she is too shy and lost the confidence to phone. Maybe she wasn't that attracted to you in the first place, or she may have simply lost your number (it does happen).

MysteryWoman, from a woman's point of view, do you agree that there are some women out there who are too shy to call up a guy, and if he doesn't call, she may never call him, even though she may be very interested? It seems to me like some girls are so shy that she'd rather move on than call the guy up.