TheNewStyle123
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 10, 2020
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Matched with an HB8 on the apps 2 days ago. She messages me saying "you had me with that picture (references one of my photos). Also, my instagram is ____."
I don't add her on instagram (not trying to orbit) and cont. to proceed with small talk. Before I ask, she ends up offering her number within 2 messages. We text a little throughout the day and I invite her to grab a drink Thursday night. She does not respond for 24 hours until 7PM today and says "I'm free!"
I give her the location and time and she replies "I have to be up at 6AM on Friday. I like to go to bed by 930 most nights. Would you be open to going somewhere around here?"
She lives about 20 min from me. The travel isn't the issue to me. My question to the group is: although we haven't met and I'm literally nothing to this girl at this point, is taking 24 hours to respond as well as requesting me to come to her so she can essentially go to bed and cut the date short too low of IL to pursue?
My gut is telling me to just say "Hey, let's reschedule to next week for a day when I don't get out of work late and you don't get up for work early. How does Monday night sound?" or to just never message this girl again as there are too many rules to meet up with her for date #1
Thanks boys.
I don't add her on instagram (not trying to orbit) and cont. to proceed with small talk. Before I ask, she ends up offering her number within 2 messages. We text a little throughout the day and I invite her to grab a drink Thursday night. She does not respond for 24 hours until 7PM today and says "I'm free!"
I give her the location and time and she replies "I have to be up at 6AM on Friday. I like to go to bed by 930 most nights. Would you be open to going somewhere around here?"
She lives about 20 min from me. The travel isn't the issue to me. My question to the group is: although we haven't met and I'm literally nothing to this girl at this point, is taking 24 hours to respond as well as requesting me to come to her so she can essentially go to bed and cut the date short too low of IL to pursue?
My gut is telling me to just say "Hey, let's reschedule to next week for a day when I don't get out of work late and you don't get up for work early. How does Monday night sound?" or to just never message this girl again as there are too many rules to meet up with her for date #1
Thanks boys.