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tennisbuck12

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Yo,

What do you guys do, when a chick ignores your text about an second date. Just drop it?
 

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You put the offer out there, why would you pursue after she ignored it?
 

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Speaking from personal experience, definitely move on and delete her number too.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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it usually means she's trying to tell you that things aren't going aswell as you think they are

in my experiences once a woman's interested in me she will make virtually 100% of the effort to initate contact
 

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Low interest... move on. Although highly unlikely, it is possible that your text got lost in the mountain of text messages she's been getting through the day. She might have overlooked it... in cases like this, she will eventually reach out to you with some kind of apology... when she does... go ahead and ask her out again if she doesn't counter on the spot. If she answers with anything other than a 'yes' or a legitimate counter-offer because of other plans she might have. Then you need to let this one go and keep on fishing.

DO NOT keep texting her. ASSUME she got your message and she is intentionally ignoring it, when this happens you ignore back. This is just like if you called a woman and asked her out and instead of saying yes or no she just hung up on you... are you going to call her back after such disrespect? No, you are going to be surprised, laugh it off and forget about it. DO NOT get mad... anger is unproductive, and gets you nowhere.
 

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Yo,

What do you guys do, when a chick ignores your text about an second date. Just drop it?
You got to be careful with texts like that. She could use it to show her boyfriend to get more goodies from him.

You are left vulnerable and now you feel nervous. Friday night dinner? I hope you are having sex with this girl. Would have just asked for a coffee near your place.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It means no, yo.
 

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Guys,

Here's what she sent me last night. I thought it was funny, but can any of you think of a reply that would be in my favor. I'm not going to setup date more then 4-5 days in advance.

Hey! Thanks hope your week is gong well too!! This weekend is packed for me:( I have my best friend coming into town. So probably can't;( Hopefully you have a great fourth.
 

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I was thinking about not even responding, I already had deleted her number. I just want to play games with her, more then anything
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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She is not interested in you NOW, that is for sure.

Anyway, you never know what may happen in the future...so, I would either not reply at all, or just a brief text like:
you: ok, have fun. See you.
And you cease conversations with her unless she initiates.
 

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Guys,

Here's what she sent me last night. I thought it was funny, but can any of you think of a reply that would be in my favor. I'm not going to setup date more then 4-5 days in advance.

Hey! Thanks hope your week is gong well too!! This weekend is packed for me:( I have my best friend coming into town. So probably can't;( Hopefully you have a great fourth.
Wait for about 2 weeks then reply with , "hey sorry who is this?" Then permanently ignore from that moment on.
 

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"No problem, let me know when you're free to catch up"

Then move onto the next girl/s.. If she initiates, great, if not its her loss right.

I also like Roissys style of sending her the birthday cat emoji in situations like this.
 

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As a general rule, you should reach out at least one more time. I sometimes miss text messages or forget to respond when I get busy.

Remember that attractive women live in a different reality than most of us. They are constantly bombarded with attention from girlfriends and thirsty faggots pretty much around the clock. Until I got a high level job and started spinning more plates than ever, I didn't really understand what this was like. Its easy for things to get lost in the shuffle. Very easy.

Just send her a question mark (?) to bump your original message to the top. If she ignores that move on.
 
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