If you've ever been dumped, Why?

[juaneo]

So here's the deal. I was talking with friend at work today who is a natural DJ, and he was saying how his current girlfriend has a very high IL in him, yet he isn't overly nice to her and at times he is a down right jerk.

He also commented that in the past when he treated girls right and did the usuall AFC things they would dump him. To which I said 'have you ever been dumped for being a jerk?' to which he was like 'hell no!!'

So my question to you guys is how many of you guys have ever been dumped for being a jerk and how many for being AFC. Now when I say jerk I don't mean sleeping behind her back or being abusive, I mean just by a guy who stands up for his self which an AFC would regard as being a jerk.

If I think about it I have never been dumped for being a jerk or being a DJ, but every time I have been dumped in the past was for carrying on like a AFC!

 

[Chewy Bagel]

I think very few guys who have been dumped were told the truth as to why the girl broke it off. Also, women's motives vary - maybe something better came along, maybe she's planning on cheating and broke it off before she did, etc.

A guy could be doing everything right, but sometimes that's not enough.

 

[Starman]

I think if you are extreme AFC or Extreme Jerk..you wind up in the same place..DUmpsville

because the extreme AFC is just too damn easy and boring

The extreme Jerk(which I have been before) finally gets to the girls nerves..she starts to feel that being with the jerk..makes her feel bad about herself..then she wisens up and moves on

WHo can hold on to the girl the longest?? Obviously the Jerk..because he jilts alot of insecurities in the girl..that she spends her entire days trying to prove her worth to him..

 

[Bill]

Three letters: A F C. Simple huh?
Peace.

 

[Sir Shags Alot]

I didn't pay enough attention to her.....She was a attention ***** anyways...

 

[lynx]

I acted needy, clingy, and mushy. I'm sure she got sick of it. Typical AFC stuff. My best relationships have been the ones where I have stayed calm and relaxed at all times. Chicks don't like guys who are more mushy or emotional than they are, at least in my experience.

 

[Player_Supreme]

I had a girlfriend a few years ago. We dated for 8 years. I cheated on her ever single year of those 8 years. I got caught. she left. I paid the price end of story.


****oh note to Helter Skeezer*****
Yah I just made this one up too. I made up the pain in my heart and all that I felt cause I was a low down dirty lying cheatin player...Oh and she wasn't a M. A. C. make up artist either. Nor was she a 10...in fact M.A.C. make up doesn't even exist...I made up the whole line....

If any other playa's wanna stop me from teaching this young punk a lesson...Don't!!! he was disrespectful and deserves it. This site needs to come down on punks like him...people who read others words and then quote them to start something...thats real bootsy....This site should be a place of learning and education not you guys constantly trying to slam each other...In the black culture when older players speak the younger ones listen. I was just schooled in a resturant by an older black player in his 60's on some game. I politely listened to him. So I will continute teaching this young fool a lesson until I get tired of it...end of story...oh yeah it's time devoted to negative stuff but I'm kinda having fun with it...he is a funny individual who needs his hat pulled down around his hears...so I will continue

 

[Ronin I]

Originally posted by Sir Shags Alot
I didn't pay enough attention to her.....She was a attention ***** anyways...

Yup - same here. I was actually more of a DJ than anything else and then she dumped me for an AFC chump. I couldn't figure it out - until I realized she was nothing but an attention wh0re who wasn't worth my time (but getting dumped by her really through me for a loop at first - until I found this site and learned the way of the attention wh0re).