If you're having a bad day...

[tHe KInG93]

Last week made eight months of me not having sex (of any kind). I went out with a girl Saturday morning, exchanged a few texts with her this morning to check in and told her I enjoyed hanging out with her and we should do it again sometime, no response. I was DMing another girl Friday night through Saturday evening on a social media outlet and asked for her number and my DM has been sitting unread since then. I also have another DM sitting unread as we speak and I tried to FaceTime another girl this evening and she didn't answer nor send me a text why she didn't but watched my story on Snapchat. It could always be worse guys lol.

I think I'm about to take a break from the game for awhile, I've been frustrated both mentally and sexually the last few semesters and I'm just starting to grow tired of it all. I'm no longer finding joy in pursuing women, only anger because I haven't won in awhile.

Anyway..this is just my rant, feel free to comment as necessary. I started lurking back here again a few months ago to try and see what's been off with my game and to right the ship.

 

[Mot1veProgress]

Not to be a **** but banged my latina milf plate today .. early 30's, ridiculous piece of ass.. and wetter than a slip and slide or a Saint Bernard.. the way she got ***** juices all over the fkin place.. I have no idea what she does but her libido is higher than mine got daym.

So I'm actually having a pretty good day..

 

[tHe KInG93]

Not to be a **** but banged my latina milf plate today .. early 30's, ridiculous piece of ass.. and wetter than a slip and slide or a Saint Bernard.. the way she got ***** juices all over the fkin place.. I have no idea what she does but her libido is higher than mine got daym.

So I'm actually having a pretty good day..

I'll live vicariously through you lol

 

[Mot1veProgress]

I'll live vicariously through you lol

Haha. Hey man, you ever want to talk .. feel free to add me on skype. I'll pm you my skype.. Maybe I can offer some advice, guidance or just be there to help you kill this lengthy dry spell as soon as possible

I've been there before.. Had some rough times in other areas of life that kept me from being able to focus on women.. So I can kinda understand what you're going through

 

[Baggio86]

Haha. Hey man, you ever want to talk .. feel free to add me on skype.

You're going to ignore him ain't you?!

But in all seriousness to OP, sounds like you're trying too hard, it repels girls and they can smell the desperation (with all due respect). Start trying to give less F***s about it and success rate will soar.

 

[AllDay85]

Last week made eight months of me not having sex (of any kind). I went out with a girl Saturday morning, exchanged a few texts with her this morning to check in and told her I enjoyed hanging out with her and we should do it again sometime, no response. I was DMing another girl Friday night through Saturday evening on a social media outlet and asked for her number and my DM has been sitting unread since then. I also have another DM sitting unread as we speak and I tried to FaceTime another girl this evening and she didn't answer nor send me a text why she didn't but watched my story on Snapchat. It could always be worse guys lol.

I think I'm about to take a break from the game for awhile, I've been frustrated both mentally and sexually the last few semesters and I'm just starting to grow tired of it all. I'm no longer finding joy in pursuing women, only anger because I haven't won in awhile.

Anyway..this is just my rant, feel free to comment as necessary. started lurking back here again a few months ago to try and see what's been off with my game and to right the ship.

Best thing you could ever do is not give a ****. You're reading into it (meaning it's consuming too much thought). You're texting her telling her you had a great time. You're angry, you're frustrated.

Try letting go and not even trying with women like you said.

 

[Mot1veProgress]

I agree with @Baggio86 and @AllDay85 . You're seeking validation is all you're doing. When I'm done hanging out with a girl I naturally don't even text her for a couple days sometimes.. not even purposely..just don't think about it as much . live in the present.

Don't seek validation. Enjoy and make the most of every experience. When they seek validation, men who are desperate will say corny things to try to please the women and alot of amateur tendencies will become apparent to the woman.. When you're not expecting anything.. and having fun , being yourself and getting what You want out the experience, things come naturally.

In my personal opinion, I feel like anytime a girl allows you to have her number, while you're practically still complete strangers and you dont know any of her friends and she knows none of your friends.. than going out with her is literally a token to her vagina.. However its not up to her to make her own vagina moist. IT's up to you. If you want to keep it friendly, you talk and order stuff and talk some more , have some laughs.. If you want to get sexual, you do. you touch.. yo kiss, you ****. its all sensual from the beginning..

It really boils down to confidence.. How much you value yourself. and how confident you are in yourself to do exactly what you want and own it.

 

[ubercat]

sometimes being a tourist nearby can be a good reset. take a trip to some nice little town near you. dress up in your loudest Hawaiian shirt or whatever makes you feel good and in a holiday mood. Approach every chick u see. You won't care about outcomes because u know u ll b gone tomorrow. if you see anything worth following up tell her you're moving into the area for work and try and close the deal that day. A good way is if u go when a market s on as that will draw local girls and tourist girls.

 

[tHe KInG93]

Haha. Hey man, you ever want to talk .. feel free to add me on skype. I'll pm you my skype.. Maybe I can offer some advice, guidance or just be there to help you kill this lengthy dry spell as soon as possible

I've been there before.. Had some rough times in other areas of life that kept me from being able to focus on women.. So I can kinda understand what you're going through

Thanks for reaching out, definitely going to keep that in mind.

 

[tHe KInG93]

This guy @Mot1veProgress knows his sh!t. I suggest you do talk to him on Skype. I would offer mine, but I cannot Skype at this time.

My advice for you is to be indifferent. I've been through dry spells, and the more desperate you come off (like trying to FaceTime / text every chick in your contacts), the less sexually appealing you will be. So do take a mental break, go about your business and self-improvement. If a woman comes into your line of sight, take the shot and go for her. If not, keep going about your business until you're in a better place.

I agree with @Baggio86 and @AllDay85 . You're seeking validation is all you're doing. When I'm done hanging out with a girl I naturally don't even text her for a couple days sometimes.. not even purposely..just don't think about it as much . live in the present.

Don't seek validation. Enjoy and make the most of every experience. When they seek validation, men who are desperate will say corny things to try to please the women and alot of amateur tendencies will become apparent to the woman.. When you're not expecting anything.. and having fun , being yourself and getting what You want out the experience, things come naturally.

In my personal opinion, I feel like anytime a girl allows you to have her number, while you're practically still complete strangers and you dont know any of her friends and she knows none of your friends.. than going out with her is literally a token to her vagina.. However its not up to her to make her own vagina moist. IT's up to you. If you want to keep it friendly, you talk and order stuff and talk some more , have some laughs.. If you want to get sexual, you do. you touch.. yo kiss, you ****. its all sensual from the beginning..

It really boils down to confidence.. How much you value yourself. and how confident you are in yourself to do exactly what you want and own it.

I agree with both of you guys but at times I feel like I'm too indifferent and there are girls that just don't think I'm interested because of it or then again maybe they just weren't interested to begin with.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Not to be a **** but banged my latina milf plate today .. early 30's, ridiculous piece of ass.. and wetter than a slip and slide or a Saint Bernard.. the way she got ***** juices all over the fkin place.. I have no idea what she does but her libido is higher than mine got daym.

So I'm actually having a pretty good day..

Always keep some packets of silica gel by the bed.

 

[lovesamrat]

If you are having a bad days in your life then no need to worry just forget all these moments from your life and taken the step forward away from your life regularly.