If you're a stud, don't be so ****y on approach

[white_hype]

i agree, i consider myself good looking (others have said this too, not trying to sound ****y) and whenever i approach girls like i am all CF and act like i dont care they will reject me (maybe i overdo the CF, im not sure) but when i tone it down a little and act more "real" they are MUCH more receptive.

I've also done this TO girls. Ive had soem good looking ones come up to me, or talk to me when im talking toa group of girls and i can just tell she is trying to act all cool like she is doing me a favor by talking to me. I have a problem with letting girls think they have the "power" or any type of edge on me (i have a big ego.. need to work on this) and i have been rude to them even though i know if i would have worked it, i could have developed into something (a number or hookup).

very interesting, thx for post

 

[Reach]

Oh, and C+F doesn't work when they can't hear what you're saying. That's why clubs aren't the best spot... it's best when it completely juxtaposes the environment you're in. I'm good looking, girls approach me but I still use it.

 

[captn caveman]

As a good looking guy, you are easily labelled as unapproachable.
that is why ****y does not work.

And its a bigger hit if you get labelled as needy by acting too eager.

what I've noticed for me, best thing that works is show a genuine interest in the girl, not care about the number, have fun while interacting, and being ready to let go, while maintaining interest in the human she is.

This is me. It works for me.

another thing which works is this mindset:

"Even though you are the girl for me in this bar, and no other girl can compete with you, I do not need you. I want you, and I will screw your brains out. And if I don't, WTF..."

this is sexual talk and action from the beginning, and by giving her the feeling, she is unique, but not necessary, it takes her away from the feeling that she is just another check in your book.


****y, backfires heavily on studs. You are an *******, a player, a man*****, etc etc, all of which you are, at some point anyway.

"I am hot, you are hot, but that is not enough"

Is also good....


****y and funny works for average guys.


but once the girl put her hands on your sixpack, and you go ****y, you ****block yourself.



Ah,

And one thing, a girl who will get EGO shoot by rejecting me, is indeed, a needy low self esteem *****.

the EGO shoot is gotten by being by my side.

That is the requirement.


Cheers.