If your first dates don't get you responses like this, you haven't left that good of an impression.

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A lot of dudes on here analyze the hell out of texts and try to figure out if a girl is going to see them for a 2nd date or not.. If you want to not have to analyze texts and play guessing games on how a girl feels- leave an amazing first impression.. The key is to not give off thirsty signals.. Learn to have fun and enjoy time without giving too much, and by the end of the night when you both are inebriated and having a good time, escalate and kino and use your game and then take her home and blow her mind with amazing sex.

Disclaimer: To all the dweebs who overanalyze the hell outta everything.. yes I still smash new poon despite having regular plates. Abundance is such a bit.ch :p.. better yet a who.re lol

Here are 2 diff chicks I've seen last month: These texts are the next day after our initial "date".

Chick 1. Dirty Blonde - nice slim waist little perky tits. For some context, on our date I was teasin her saying that she's way too friendly..while we were having sex she asked me "am i still being friendly" lol. She made it very clear before we left that she wanted to see me again but I told her I wasn't free till the weekend after
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Chick 2. We'll call her Juicy since she squirt all over the place.. White lookin Hispanic mix from Argentina

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So whats the secret? Am I just a lucky chad? I'm hardly a chad at 5'10 and 170 lbs.. i have smaller stature than 50% of the guys you see at clubs and a average size ****. I just show them a fun time, take them to places I think are dope that play good music, have good food and drinks, -- I try to show them a variety rather than just one place.. I keep the conversation fun and light and try not to get into deep boring topics... and then I escalate and give them amazing sex.. The key is to capitalize.. The other secret is no secret: I aim for girls who I feel are DTF.

If you don't want to guess a nd feel anxious about a girl and whether she's going to see you again or anything-- you simply blow her mind with amazing sex. if you aren't great in the sack.. guess what u better learn how to eat *****, use your fingers, and learn some technique.. Practice makes perfect.
 

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One thing you should realize is that nobody on here wants to hear your success stories. Especially when you succeed in ways that many men on here can't relate too. It comes off as bragging. I used to try and educate guys on here while inadvertently rubbing my own balls in their faces with experiences and examples from my own life. I took a step back and realized my good intentions to share wisdom and inspire got misconstrued and overshadowed by my egotistical portrayal.

All you told us here was that you get the job done in the bedroom, which makes texting easy for you .

Seeing as most men struggle with sexually pleasing women AND/OR maintaining frame control via text, you can't expect anybody to really say anything on this post besides, "Well done bro". So even though you may have good intentions to inspire others, you really didn't tell us anything groundbreaking or applicable.

I know what it's like to be excited about having your situation in order and want to share what works for you, but just remember how vast of an audience of men we have here on SS.

Keep doing your thing King, respectfully
 

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One thing you should realize is that nobody on here wants to hear your success stories. Especially when you succeed in ways that many men on here can't relate too. It comes off as bragging. I used to try and educate guys on here while inadvertently rubbing my own balls in their faces with experiences and examples from my own life. I took a step back and realized my good intentions to share wisdom and inspire got misconstrued and overshadowed by my egotistical portrayal.
We don’t mind hearing genuine success stories. We just hate the typical low effort spammed shvt that contradicts with the poster’s post history. You are telling me that you only date 9s and 10s, fvck them on the first meetup at your house, never take them out on dates, and they are always submissive? Meanwhile, the same poster will make another topic crying about a single mom playing him or something silly lol.
 

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We don’t mind hearing genuine success stories. We just hate the typical low effort spammed shvt that contradicts with the poster’s post history. You are telling me that you only date 9s and 10s, fvck them on the first meetup at your house, never take them out on dates, and they are always submissive? Meanwhile, the same poster will make another topic crying about a single mom playing him or something silly lol.
I never said I only date 9's and 10's. I said I never take them on dates if all I want is casual sex. I'll go on dates when I KNOW i'm gonna smash. I'd rather a girl decline an invite to my house then play the first, second, third date game. I wasn't crying about a single mom, just made a joke how one of my plates with a kid was buying me groceries is all, but haters took the opportunity to talk ish to me about black women (which was extremely disrespectful and racist). None of my posts are contradictory or dishonest. As I wrote to OP, I enjoy this site but am aware success should be shared in a way that comes from a place of sharing knowledge.

Water under the bridge
 
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I never said I only date 9's and 10's. I said I never take them on dates if all I want is casual sex. I'll go on dates when I KNOW i'm gonna smash. I'd rather a girl decline an invite to my house then play the first, second, third date game. I wasn't crying about a single mom, just made a joke how one of my plates with a kid was buying me groceries is all, but haters took the opportunity to talk ish to me about black women (which was extremely disrespectful and racist). None of my posts are contradictory or dishonest. As I wrote to OP, I enjoy this site but am aware success should be shared in a way that comes from a place of sharing knowledge.

Water under the bridge
I was not accusing you of anything because I don’t even know who you are lmao. That was just an example of what I usually see online in general. Unless you are hitting on women at clubs(sloots) or tourist yolo destinations, I just don’t see how you can get a normal and hot girl to fvck you on the first night? However, these posters give away their cards with their crying about single mom posts lol.
 
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I was not accusing you of anything because I don’t even know who you are lmao. That was just an example of what I usually see online in general. Unless you are hitting on women at clubs(sloots) or tourist yolo destinations, I just don’t see how you can get a normal and hot girl to fvck you on the first night? However, these posters give away their cards with their crying about single mom posts lol.
If you haven't realized that women fvck men on the first night then you need to WAKE UP.

I'm sure many of the skilled seducers on here have had it happen plenty of times. Many men become blackpilled when they witness women fvcking dudes on the first night when they needed to to wine and dine her for numerous dates and use nice guy tactics, only to be ghosted and manipulated.

Don't be one of those dudes.
 

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If you haven't realized that women fvck men on the first night then you need to WAKE UP.

I'm sure many of the skilled seducers on here have had it happen plenty of times. Many men become blackpilled when they witness women fvcking dudes on the first night when they needed to to wine and dine her for numerous dates and use nice guy tactics, only to be ghosted and manipulated.

Don't be one of those dudes.
I never denied that, I said that you aren’t going to be getting first night lays with hot/quality women. If you want to mess around with crazy women and single moms then go right ahead lol. Also, every black pill story is anecdotal and favors the man as the victim, so I would not take their accounts to the T.
 

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Having drunken sex at 4am in the morning with a girl you just met a few hours before?
What self respecting man looks forward to this type of 'amazing sex'? :oops:
The girl who's amenable to something like this must be really messed up in the head, and the guy can't be that far off either.
 

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Having drunken sex at 4am in the morning with a girl you just met a few hours before?
What self respecting man looks forward to this type of 'amazing sex'? :oops:
The girl who's amenable to something like this must be really messed up in the head, and the guy can't be that far off either.
I have never had memorable first time sex ever lol.
 

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One thing you should realize is that nobody on here wants to hear your success stories. Especially when you succeed in ways that many men on here can't relate too. It comes off as bragging. I used to try and educate guys on here while inadvertently rubbing my own balls in their faces with experiences and examples from my own life. I took a step back and realized my good intentions to share wisdom and inspire got misconstrued and overshadowed by my egotistical portrayal.

All you told us here was that you get the job done in the bedroom, which makes texting easy for you .

Seeing as most men struggle with sexually pleasing women AND/OR maintaining frame control via text, you can't expect anybody to really say anything on this post besides, "Well done bro". So even though you may have good intentions to inspire others, you really didn't tell us anything groundbreaking or applicable.

I know what it's like to be excited about having your situation in order and want to share what works for you, but just remember how vast of an audience of men we have here on SS.

Keep doing your thing King, respectfully
Believe me im 100% aware.. and I been reading/analyzing behavior on Sosuave for many years now. I used to be around here reading when we had actual legends in the game on here who used to kick some real knowledge. and I realized what works in motivating people to get off their ass and go out and level up is the sh't that bothers them the most.. The sht that they feel like they shouldn't even click.

I've seen the impact different people who were also capable players had on people on here.. even after they left or were banned.. You saw real changes in how people think and how they act.

Its the stuff thats hardest to read or view that is the stuff that will help people change the most.

These other nonsensical posts , silly posts , they don't change anything for anyone. There is absolutely little to motivate people on here.. Its just a bunch people validating themselves through giving opinionated responses to others. I understood a very long time ago that you can be someone that alot of people dislike and still have he most impact on everyone. People pay more attention to stuff that bothers them than it doesn't. I notice when I post certain things some people will do their best to avoid the post/ not respond.. yet I know for sure they still click on it and read it. lol
 

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These other nonsensical posts , silly posts , they don't change anything for anyone. There is absolutely little to motivate people on here.. Its just a bunch people validating themselves through giving opinionated responses to others. I understood a very long time ago that you can be someone that alot of people dislike and still have he most impact on everyone. People pay more attention to stuff that bothers them than it doesn't. I notice when I post certain things some people will do their best to avoid the post/ not respond.. yet I know for sure they still click on it and read it. lol
it’s the internet dude, chillax
 

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it’s the internet dude, chillax
See you're new here so you don't understand what i mean. I've already been warned and told that I'd be banned because I'm too mean to the beta males on here. In me trying to help others, I serve tough love. Theres alot of sh.t I simply don't resonate with being a staunch alpha male, as cliche as that sounds and I don't hesitate to call it out.

Just like when I post these kind of things and people feel hurt and dont want to click or respond..

Point is not giving a fucc has gotten me real far in life but its also important to respect the rules. I know my goal is to help others wake up and realize that the only way you will ever reach sexual abundance is by working on yourself to the point that you're confident in every aspect of your life.

Regardless of anything , the words I write on here, the sh.t i post, my attitude and personality alone is having an impact on everyone who pays attention, whether they know it or not.. and thats the major point.
 

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Goes to show why health and fitness is so important. A lot of guys would find this approach draining and prefer a two or three-meet approach, but this is optimal if you have the time/energy to spare and can be at it the next day without skipping a beat.
 

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One thing you should realize is that nobody on here wants to hear your success stories. Especially when you succeed in ways that many men on here can't relate too. It comes off as bragging. I used to try and educate guys on here while inadvertently rubbing my own balls in their faces with experiences and examples from my own life. I took a step back and realized my good intentions to share wisdom and inspire got misconstrued and overshadowed by my egotistical portrayal.
We don’t mind success stories as long as they are reasonable, but the OPs stories are bordering into fantasy land.

”The girl is hot, sexy, young, begging me to have sex with her more, begging me to meet her parents, begging to create life inside her, cannot stop thinking of me, wants to put her tongue down my throat any change she gets, but she is angry at me because I don’t have time to give her enough sex.”

I mean, Movie Stars and Athletes don’t have girls chasing them like this, but the OP does? Maybe.
 

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Goes to show why health and fitness is so important. A lot of guys would find this approach draining and prefer a two or three-meet approach, but this is optimal if you have the time/energy to spare and can be at it the next day without skipping a beat.
Depends what they're looking for.. For myself, I don't go in thinking I'm going to smash everytime.. Because there are chicks that don't put out on the first date , even with guys with the caliber of game I have. But, that's why i purposefully pursue women who I feel give off signs that they are DTF.

and as far as Health and FItness goes, i try to stay in good shape year round..

We don’t mind success stories as long as they are reasonable, but the OPs stories are bordering into fantasy land.

”The girl is hot, sexy, young, begging me to have sex with her more, begging me to meet her parents, begging to create life inside her, cannot stop thinking of me, wants to put her tongue down my throat any change she gets, but she is angry at me because I don’t have time to give her enough sex.”

I mean, Movie Stars and Athletes don’t have girls chasing them like this, but the OP does? Maybe.
I would say I am living in fantasy land.. I'm living most dudes fantasies lol. I mean I can't think of one thing I haven't done that most guys have on their bucket list.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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A lot of dudes on here analyze the hell out of texts and try to figure out if a girl is going to see them for a 2nd date or not.. If you want to not have to analyze texts and play guessing games on how a girl feels- leave an amazing first impression.. The key is to not give off thirsty signals.. Learn to have fun and enjoy time without giving too much, and by the end of the night when you both are inebriated and having a good time, escalate and kino and use your game and then take her home and blow her mind with amazing sex.

Disclaimer: To all the dweebs who overanalyze the hell outta everything.. yes I still smash new poon despite having regular plates. Abundance is such a bit.ch :p.. better yet a who.re lol

Here are 2 diff chicks I've seen last month: These texts are the next day after our initial "date".

Chick 1. Dirty Blonde - nice slim waist little perky tits. For some context, on our date I was teasin her saying that she's way too friendly..while we were having sex she asked me "am i still being friendly" lol. She made it very clear before we left that she wanted to see me again but I told her I wasn't free till the weekend after
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Chick 2. We'll call her Juicy since she squirt all over the place.. White lookin Hispanic mix from Argentina

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So whats the secret? Am I just a lucky chad? I'm hardly a chad at 5'10 and 170 lbs.. i have smaller stature than 50% of the guys you see at clubs and a average size ****. I just show them a fun time, take them to places I think are dope that play good music, have good food and drinks, -- I try to show them a variety rather than just one place.. I keep the conversation fun and light and try not to get into deep boring topics... and then I escalate and give them amazing sex.. The key is to capitalize.. The other secret is no secret: I aim for girls who I feel are DTF.

If you don't want to guess a nd feel anxious about a girl and whether she's going to see you again or anything-- you simply blow her mind with amazing sex. if you aren't great in the sack.. guess what u better learn how to eat *****, use your fingers, and learn some technique.. Practice makes perfect.

Yea good examples of carefree messaging here

OP is putting next to no effort into his messages and in the female mind that triggers some bizzare thought process of

" he's not that bothered about me , WHY is he not that bothered about me , he NEEDS to be bothered about me"

And off the hamster goes as we can see in their responses

OP are these girls you met online ? or IRL

Curious to see how the initial stages of communication went down
 

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Yea good examples of carefree messaging here

OP is putting next to no effort into his messages and in the female mind that triggers some bizzare thought process of

" he's not that bothered about me , WHY is he not that bothered about me , he NEEDS to be bothered about me"

And off the hamster goes as we can see in their responses

OP are these girls you met online ? or IRL

Curious to see how the initial stages of communication went down
It's very interesting to see this. It doesn't work so well for me. If I started responding like the OP, the communication dies off and the woman assumes I wasn't interested. It's happened a few times now.
 

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I don't see the "magic".

Girl taking 6 hours to reply with a simple "lol". In those messages I see OP trying to keep them entertained but they reply with bland and short answers like "lol", "sure", etc. Feels like talking to a shy 3yo kid.
 

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I don't see the "magic".

Girl taking 6 hours to reply with a simple "lol". In those messages I see OP trying to keep them entertained but they reply with bland and short answers like "lol", "sure", etc. Feels like talking to a shy 3yo kid.
You have it the wrong way around OP's messages are in green
 

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It's very interesting to see this. It doesn't work so well for me. If I started responding like the OP, the communication dies off and the woman assumes I wasn't interested. It's happened a few times now.
All to do with how she percives you and that starts from the very second you meet / match / message whatever

Women talk a lot and are expert communicators and far superior to men in this department , they pick up on a lot of stuff we don't even notice

Take for example the classic " how was your day "

Most men looking to impress a woman would send a long rambling message about what flavour coffee they had , what they had for lunch , how busy work was and how hard they trained in the gym with the intention of trying to build connection with her

Women however read this response and for some reason their thought process goes as follows........

" This guy is giving me loads of information and detail > how does he have time to do that !?! > he can't be speaking too many other women !?! ,> why don't other women want him !?! > maybe there's something wrong with him !?! > maybe I shouldn't want him .....

Its weird as fvck but honestly this is how their brains are wired

If you want to raise a mediocre woman's intrest in you tell her you are going on a date
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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