If your d-ck game isn't on 100, don't bother trying to be a player

[Hamurabimbi]

Hi Set In Stone,
I agree with eys be Rollin,most women appreciate a nice gentle session preceded by a good Massage more than violent Sex it's just too tough on their bodies....Sure during their youthful experimentation many are wonderfully active you could sole shoes with their pvussies, but any who are still frenetic past say twenty five end up being a darned nuisance as they become too demanding and start wandering.

Many different perspectives I guess. My experience is women want it hard and rough. Minimal foreplay. Hair pulling. Biting. Hard pounding. I’ve had girls on top go like a jackhammer. Girls have appreciated bruised thighs and cervix and ... it’s always been animalistic and primal.

 

[Willie Naylor]

Many different perspectives I guess. My experience is women want it hard and rough. Minimal foreplay. Hair pulling. Biting. Hard pounding. I’ve had girls on top go like a jackhammer. Girls have appreciated bruised thighs and cervix and ... it’s always been animalistic and primal.

Disagree totally.

Sure, the ratchet h0e you met at the shady dive bar at 1:56am might like that.

Lots of guys believe that girls like to be jackhammered into submission, but, it's like waiting for an elevator...

You can push the button as hard as you want, but it's not gonna make it come any faster.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I think you've watched too much porn. That's what I think.

Modern Man Advice

For a fraction of folks it's true, but these people are stirring the womens emotions and curiousity in the way they manage themselves and perhaps rumors about them. Those emotions tie to strong sex and her desire to attach. Those people are just on the right wavelength to make that happen.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Disagree totally.

Sure, the ratchet h0e you met at the shady dive bar at 1:56am might like that.

Lots of guys believe that girls like to be jackhammered into submission, but, it's like waiting for an elevator...

You can push the button as hard as you want, but it's not gonna make it come any faster.

Everyone dont' like getting jackhammered. Some of em get turned off by moves that others might like.

For a fraction of folks it's true, but these people are stirring the womens emotions and curiousity in the way they manage themselves and perhaps rumors about them. Those emotions tie to strong sex and her desire to attach. Those people are just on the right wavelength to make that happen.

It's that "manwh0re" wavelength where things just happen all around you.

 

[bmp2cpm]

For yall who are still clueless about what im kickin, I hope you find out sooner than later.. Ain't no point in bangin a broad if you aint gettin her rocks off.. trust me, if she really about it, she'll go to Tyrone and Chad .. you'll just be her steppin stone. But not all women get down like that.. you might just find ua sweetheart and settle down.. but what im kickin is for playas, not for alot of you nice guys.

SetinStone22, I respectfully disagree with most of your points.

1) if you are with a girl that you have insane chemistry, there is no thinking, there is no “game”. Insane chemistry is biology on autopilot and that is a good thing. I truly believe these are the women a man should spend his valuable time on. Women with little chemistry are not worth it.

2) Women value s*x because it is how women secure a man’s resources. Women care much more about whole “intimate package” than s*x because it secures resources. Giving a woman who you have an intimate connection with a massage scores just as high as s*x with most women.

Also, I completely agree with Scaramouche. He knows what he is talking about.

 

[Speculator E]

You should focus more on what makes you happy rather then getting a big d*ck just to satisfy some random ho in your life.
If your happiness depends on making a ho happy then you're a fool.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Disagree totally.

Sure, the ratchet h0e you met at the shady dive bar at 1:56am might like that.

Lots of guys believe that girls like to be jackhammered into submission, but, it's like waiting for an elevator...

You can push the button as hard as you want, but it's not gonna make it come any faster.

My LTRs like(d) it hard too.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Everyone dont' like getting jackhammered. Some of em get turned off by moves that others might like.

I attract a ‘certain’ type of girl. Very horny & sexual. They all seem to like a ferocious onslaught. Suits me fine. Foreplay, other than a bit of tvtty play & fingers bore me. Likewise, even girls that like to BJ, prefer it as a 5 min warm up and then they want the main event.

 

[SetinStone22]

SetinStone22, I respectfully disagree with most of your points.

1) if you are with a girl that you have insane chemistry, there is no thinking, there is no “game”. Insane chemistry is biology on autopilot and that is a good thing. I truly believe these are the women a man should spend his valuable time on. Women with little chemistry are not worth it.

2) Women value s*x because it is how women secure a man’s resources. Women care much more about whole “intimate package” than s*x because it secures resources. Giving a woman who you have an intimate connection with a massage scores just as high as s*x with most women.

Also, I completely agree with Scaramouche. He knows what he is talking about.

I hear what you sayin but this post i s about being a player not about trying to hold down a relationship. Bein a playa, you're tryna round up as many girls as possible and smash on each one of them.. You don't got time to wine and dine them and spend bull**** time with them. When you're playin the game, the type of girls you are more likely to find are girls who are lookin for amazin sex and not much else more so than anything else. You do find some girls who are lookin to settle down too.. and yea they might value other things.. thats just natural.

But, at the end of the day, if your **** game is not on point, trust me it wont last long. This is proven time and time again by dudes gettin cheated on. You think that women are cheatin on their men with dudes who hve more money? Nah, they're cheatin on men with dudes who give them better ****. The dudes gettin cheated on who did all the nice **** provided with wealth and money, took them on fancy trips to different countries and travel destinations every woman wants to go to-- always end up askin the question "WITH HIM? why him? " "the guy had nothing to offer, I am better in every single way".. but the thing they don't realize is.. they're lackin in that pleasure department

A man with stamina and orgasm control, and a good size D.ck who knows what hes doing, is always gonna beat the dude who doesn't have that with the woman who cares more about sexual pleasure and that intense attention women get only from sex.. that thing they crave so badly, its like the pinnacle of their experience as sensual beings.. to have that intense orgasmic sex.. not from being ate out for hours, but from bein ate out but also proper penetration.

to sum it up for you: women are sensual beings, a huge part of that is pleasure, sexual pleasure. its the top of the top of what a woman really desires. its the most strongest form of attention, the most potent form of affection.. Sex is a skill at the end of the day.. TOo many people gettin what im sayin completely twisted.. thats cuz they just aint on game yet.. their mindset is on a whole diff train track.. one thats goin the wrong way.. in the circles i come from we call them L7's, or squares.

If you could give woman mind blowing sex, all that other sht that comes with it, they'll crave that more and more.. they'll want to go on dates with you, they'll want to spend time talking to you and all that, they'll want to know more about you.. but other dudes, they give all that stuff to the woman, the woman gets bored and never gets that sensual pleasure she really craves.. thats why the men continue to have to work for it, and the woman then can use sex as a tool to control the man.. when it should be vice versa.. thats all bein a playa is, using sex to control the woman..

the fact that some of yall dont get that, shows u just an l7, a square, .. it aint a bad thing.. a lot of dudes out there the same.. but you gotta become hip to it eventually.. otherwise stick to traditional dating, long term relationship and all that

 

[SetinStone22]

Hi Set In Stone,
I agree with eys be Rollin,most women appreciate a nice gentle session preceded by a good Massage more than violent Sex it's just too tough on their bodies....Sure during their youthful experimentation many are wonderfully active you could sole shoes with their pvussies, but any who are still frenetic past say twenty five end up being a darned nuisance as they become too demanding and start wandering.

You aint understand the point of this post at all playa.. with respect.... **** Game is just a term i use to talk about your sex game.. I aint said nothin about being rough with the woman.. Sex is an art, ITs all about pleasuring's the woman. But the longer i been in the game, I realized that eatin a girl out for hours isnt what satisfies women.. its having a strong d. game being able to kno how to use your tool to make her orgasm Read the comment I just made before this one.. matta fact, print it out and keep it with ya.. so u dont forget the message yadig

 

[SetinStone22]

Making a woman cvm during sex is like Entry Level in the Sexual Market Place today. Every dude that succeeds with women knows that you have to AT LEAST make her cvm. Whether you can make her cvm with your d1ck, or you make her cvm while d1cking her and flicking her bean at the same time. Different women respond to different things. Some women love being eaten out. Some women hate it.

The women I know...if you don't make her cvm then you will never hear from her again. But even if you do make her cvm, there needs to be more than that to keep her coming back. She must be emotionally invested, she must admire and respect you, she has to see you as above her in value etc etc etc

You think there aren't loads of guys out there that know how to make women cvm? Making a woman cvm is mechanical and scientific and can be learned by any guy by a google search and a bit of practise.

Here's the crazy part though. If a woman is super super attracted to you then she will literally start orgasming as soon as you stick your c0ck in her. No d1ck game needed. If you've experienced this before then you'll know what I mean.

This proves to me that sex for women is almost entirely mental, not physical

I agree with you. Its entry level for sure. and you and I know theres woman out there that don't even get the entry level from their man and some of those men don't stay their man for long. You got a lot of valid points.

But when you are "gamin" women/playin the game.. 90% of the time you aren't out meeting quality women or trying to find women that have qualities that make them good partners. Thats just like takin a calculus class when all u gotta do is pass a basic algebra class. You're meetin women who want to meet a guy who is amazin at sex, and it really about when you make her orgasm, its about makin her orgasm at the right time, buildin up that intensity.. thats how u get the difference between a girl who just has a weak orgasm and a girl who squirts all over the place, has multiple orgasms, legs lockin up, shaking, moaning even after the sex is over.

You got it right when you said a lot of its mental. So when you say making a woman *** is mechanical and scientific, you gotta understand that theres a big difference in getting a woman to ***, just to ***, or makin a woman *** multiple times, giving her good ****, rather than eating her out for an 30 mins and then just flicking around and twiddling ur finger's in her cooch. The missing element is game. Its your personality, and how you kick that game.

Game is somethin u just cant sell, or teach. IT comes with who you are, ya personality, how you carry yourself, how you speak, what you represent to the woman.

Women know its not hard to find a decent guy who can give them the emotional , the wine and dine, the deep conversations, and all that. They got a slew of them on their phone..

Why do you think women ignore and dub all the dudes who try to kick anything other than sexual game to them on dating apps? It's because they know exactly what they're lookin for.

The point I was making wasn't "You only need a good **** game" to be a player.. It was exactly as its written down.. If your **** game is not on 100, don't bother trying to be a player". I say this because a lot of dudes out there wonder why they get women but can't keep the woman. They preach about all the other stuff, that makesthem sound like they were trying to be in a relationship with the woman.. they usually got that stuff down pat.. But then you ask them about the sex.. and they talk about "Ah it was alright".... or "it was amazing" but then you ask their hoe, what happened? theysay "he was hittin it okay, but he wasnt hittin it like John Doe". Now many women will try to keep both the men around but once John Doe is hittin all the high notes, Dude #1 becomes more of a burden.. she opens her legs for him still but now its like Barefoot wine vs a 1982 Chardonnay

 

[SetinStone22]

Yeah I've been on this trip.

If you're just looking for notches, then you can sacrifice quality all day. You can bang endless 6's and use entry-level d1ck game and she will think you're amazing.

But here's what happens.....after you bang 100 6's, you'll want a 7. After you bang 50 7's, you'll want an 8. That's the Player's Journey. It starts at pure notching hunting and sex. Then you want quality later.

The quality is gon come when girls know what u kickin. when u got that energy, u hittin 8s, 6's, 9s 10s,, none of that **** matters cuz you start lookin at them more for what they bring to the table than what they look like. It's a diff ball game when you got the ***** buying you sht, telling her friends about you, setting up threesomes, putting assets in your name. who cares about a 10 who aint gon bring **** to the table but look pretty and whine about bullsht?

I'm tryna find me a girl who wants to go half on a house down payment and put the house in my name type sht.. Maybe a couple rich girls invest in some business ventures .... I got homies who driving luxury cars, all bought by girls they spin. Its just how you play the game.. and what you value. I seen dudes who thought thy were players get attached because the ***** was a "10" -- happened to me too. But i learned from it.

 

[GT40]

I think you've watched too much porn. That's what I think.

Modern Man Advice

Agreed. There is more to it. Men need status, money, job, smarts, charisma and good dress. Then, you get the nice trim. It's not just about being hung. It helps somewhat but most women aren't size queens.

 

[Fruitbat]

It depends on the woman. They aren’t identikit.

Some are mad on this, others not.

Status beats all. D1ck size and ability in bed is a two way thing. It was mocked in other societies. A large manhood was seen as evidence of lower class and unrefined nature. Status, however, is completely universal to all cultures and time period. Period.

In terms of sechs, realistically, depending on the anatomy of the woman, a standard issue can be too much. I’m slightly above average (but no p0rn star and not even big by any measure) but it’s easily enough to take a woman’s breath away. It still takes time to work the girl up. Provided she doesn’t say “is it in yet” then it’s good enough. If I had a massive 11 inCher, it seems it would take a long time to get going, and smaller women I expect it would be painful. Things like back door fun would be next to impossible.

I think women would like the experience of a massive weapon, in the same way we often like a giant pair of fun bags. It’s like a novelty value. It’s intimidating. After a few goes then other things get more important.

my money is on a woman prefers a standard guy who’s tall, and low body fat and attractive than a massive cck attached to an ugly guy.

as for multiple orgasms and mind blowing sex, that’s fine for the guys who are willing to dedicate that much effort to it. Im
Sure word will travel and it will get you more action.

personally, I rate my own enjoyment as important and having secks for 3 hours is not of interest to me. I would be doing it for aclaim, not for me.

id rather have a girl who’s happy with 10
Mins and a bit of foreplay. That’s all I need to have a good secks life.

the effort required to become a Casanova is a lot, I have more important things in life than this and you can have a pretty good secks life without doing these things if you have a reasonable status and good frame.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

SetinStone22, I respectfully disagree with most of your points.

1) if you are with a girl that you have insane chemistry, there is no thinking, there is no “game”. Insane chemistry is biology on autopilot and that is a good thing. I truly believe these are the women a man should spend his valuable time on. Women with little chemistry are not worth it.

2) Women value s*x because it is how women secure a man’s resources. Women care much more about whole “intimate package” than s*x because it secures resources. Giving a woman who you have an intimate connection with a massage scores just as high as s*x with most women.

Also, I completely agree with Scaramouche. He knows what he is talking about.

Hes a legit and stamped fvck boy as they call them today. They can see it in him. Others know about him and want to get at him.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

..Although penis size matters A LOT in the gay community.

Think about it.....men love big c0cks, and they project it onto women. It's just classic projection.

Some women like it and a few need it because they canal is huge.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Disagree totally.

Sure, the ratchet h0e you met at the shady dive bar at 1:56am might like that.

Lots of guys believe that girls like to be jackhammered into submission, but, it's like waiting for an elevator...

You can push the button as hard as you want, but it's not gonna make it come any faster.

Both of your perspectives are valid. Some girls like being jackhammered; other prefer a more gentle approach. Perhaps you and Hamurabimbi attract (and are attracted to) different types of women. The ones who like it rough are not necessarily h0es either.

 

[Bokanovsky]

..Although penis size matters A LOT in the gay community.

I'm not going to ask how you know this...LOL

In any event, in the straight community, d!ck size only matters to the extent that it's large enough to fill her up. Outside of porn, no woman enjoys having sex with a guy who is too big for her. Being of average size is perfectly fine because most women are also average. Yes, there are some women who are of the "throwing a sausage down the hallway" variety and require a baseball bat to be properly satisfied...but that's not your fault lol.

 

[2Rocky]

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[2Rocky]

I'm gonna venture to say the first time with a new sex partner is not the BEST performance. It takes a few rounds to get the feel for what works for each other. But you are gonna have to be good enough to get a round 2/3/4/5.

And it isn't a step by step thing guys, or paint by numbers. it's about reading her and her reactions and adapting your approach in a manner that she responds enthusiastically in a manner that pleases you.