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If you were to give ONE TIP to someone with no game.. what would it be?

SW15

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You know what will make your dating life and success with women easier? Much much easier. It’s two words and it’s been proven.

be Chad.
That's why I said above to be very good looking.

What usually happens is they have kid with Chad, they leave Chad or Chad leaves them. Then they go looking for Billy for the beta bucks.
It does often happen like that.

Best advice I would give is; no free attention.

You will make your way toward alpha territory just with that mindset alone.
Yes. They must provide physical interest to get attention.

@Mike32ct on here is well known for saying "height, hair, money".
Money is only really important when the woman becomes menopausal and/or the woman has given birth.

When a woman is young and has sexual options, she is looking to mate with the man who has the best genes, so money isn't really important. Once she gets older and sexual options dry up, or she has a baby with said man, then money comes into play.
Yes and no. Money will help a man get laid, either indirectly or directly. I think young women tend to assess 35+ men more on money than younger men.

There are also young women with sexual options who are becoming sugar babies on Seeking.

For mainstream young women with sexual options, your statement is true.
 

devilkingx2

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Getting girls is 50% looks (being above average is enough) and 50% experience approaching. Good game is born from that experience.
 

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Getting girls is 50% looks (being above average is enough) and 50% experience approaching. Good game is born from that experience.
Imagine what you said (Looks, Game), and combine it with Money (Resources/Status).
 

The Duke

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Go practice on titty dancers until you are comfortable talking to women. I've had some of the best deep conversations with dancers and I didn't spend a dime. They taught me a lot and I had a good time learning.
 

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Learn to put your ego aside. So if you want to do cold approach be prepared to get rejected and be ok with it.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You know what will make your dating life and success with women easier? Much much easier. It’s two words and it’s been proven.

be Chad.
This. The secret is to envision YOURSELF as a Chad and work towards that.

Lets take a 35 year old man. He's broke, fat no job no car no hobbies. Yet he might join the forum and bytch about women. Meanwhile his competitors waking up at 5,30 to hit the gym, save and invest , are willing to spend money on lets say needed surgery to STAY Chad and many more positive features that attract women.

Every man can "be Chad". This advice isn't a joke although its sound like " be tall" (something OUT of your control). Being ,or becoming Chad is an individual process.
 
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