What thread title says.
And i know she's interested in me, I am too, but she lives 9 hours away.
We will however be spending the summer together for about 2 months.
How do i maintain her interest level in me till the point of explosion? (2 weeks till we see each other)
A little more info:
Both uni students, both in exam period, only she's a med student and her study load is off the charts. She calls like twice a day, I, Like a fool usually answer. I know i shouldn't be doing this but, she's getting very depressed over all this studying (14+ hrs a day) and i just want to get her to laugh, de-stress a bit.
I'm usually C&F during our convo's, w/e fits the situation, just try and remain a hell of a lot more upbeat then her, cause she is QQing all over the place about how hard she has it. (Damn i sound like Capt. Save a Ho)
It has, however, gotten a little to the point where i feel like I'm just her emotional tampon, and obviously, not a position i want to be in. How much do i reduce contact by? optimally I'd like to reduce it to something like 3-4 a week (It used to be like this, this calling behavior and constant QQing over her studies has only started recently). How do i do this correctly and raise interest level?
Is it as simple as not answering her calls and calling her back sometime later?
Btw, when they mention 'You'd be nicer to me if you were my boyfriend,' does that mean I've been neg. hitting or w/e too hard?
Normally I'd just do what I've normally done to this point and never get myself into this situation, but this girl is quality LTR material - due to that I've made some exceptions. Exceptions i hope aren't going to be fatal.
And i know she's interested in me, I am too, but she lives 9 hours away.
We will however be spending the summer together for about 2 months.
How do i maintain her interest level in me till the point of explosion? (2 weeks till we see each other)
A little more info:
Both uni students, both in exam period, only she's a med student and her study load is off the charts. She calls like twice a day, I, Like a fool usually answer. I know i shouldn't be doing this but, she's getting very depressed over all this studying (14+ hrs a day) and i just want to get her to laugh, de-stress a bit.
I'm usually C&F during our convo's, w/e fits the situation, just try and remain a hell of a lot more upbeat then her, cause she is QQing all over the place about how hard she has it. (Damn i sound like Capt. Save a Ho)
It has, however, gotten a little to the point where i feel like I'm just her emotional tampon, and obviously, not a position i want to be in. How much do i reduce contact by? optimally I'd like to reduce it to something like 3-4 a week (It used to be like this, this calling behavior and constant QQing over her studies has only started recently). How do i do this correctly and raise interest level?
Is it as simple as not answering her calls and calling her back sometime later?
Btw, when they mention 'You'd be nicer to me if you were my boyfriend,' does that mean I've been neg. hitting or w/e too hard?
Normally I'd just do what I've normally done to this point and never get myself into this situation, but this girl is quality LTR material - due to that I've made some exceptions. Exceptions i hope aren't going to be fatal.
