If you want a laugh.

[RazzleDazzle]

I dated this girl for like a week. Well suddenly out of the blue she brakes us up. Next day she is with her exboyfriend again. Oh well i say but I was pissed she didn't tell me the truth.

She drops him, dates me. We have nothing but good things going, and we get along great. Then she drops me for him. No explanation nothing. So I email her asking for a real reason.

By the way this is one of those relationships where they brake up again and again. (we've all been there, i know i have). She tells me that she likes me but she loves this other guy. That things are better than they ever were. Then she has the nerve to blame me for rushing her into a relationship right when she got outta one. I was like what the hell? This little temptress used me as a rebound until her ex got his **** together and she blames me.

Pretty shiatty deal right? Well for all of us who have been through these relationships before (theirs) you know that it won't last a month.

The thing that I have to laugh at is after screwing around with each other (she moaned my name for god's sake) that she blames me for everything. like I commited some unknown sin. This ever happen to anyone here? Did she try calling you back a few weeks later, trying to get together again?

 

[Starman]

Let it go man..she is a user..and she acts as if she is righteous in using people to help her get over her own selfish breakup inadequacies.

From a psych standpoint, your relationship with her has thrown a wrench into her entire psyche and relationship with her ex.

Not to mention what the other guy will think when he finds out about you and the others.

they were broken up for a reason..unless they come to some Zen like epiphany and found undying love for each other again..you can rest assured .. a break up is imminent in the near future.

 

[RazzleDazzle]

No way in the underworld would i go back to her. She has no moral barriers. She totally used me and that's not going to happen again. I just posted this to see if it's happend before (it has) to someone else and what happend to them afterwards. Like did she call back. That kinda crap. I want to be ready this time.

And she thinks she is in true love. Blah blah blah that they will make it work together. That love cushy stuff. It's gross, her emails were that of a drunk. I'm just going to smile when she gets hosed again. Finally, i'll get to see a girl get what's coming to her.

 

[ShortTimer]

You should say to her:

"That's right baby, I'm the bad man who made you cvm!"

 

[TesuqueRed]

Look at it a little more clearly.

You dated a week.

Emphasis: DATED.

You had no relationship.

You had sex. You had dates. Maybe you even connected emotionally. But this wasn't a relationship. Don't build it up like it was a 3 month or 6 month or 3 year thing. Most guys here would say you went out and hit it a few times. But don't start looking at it like you were BF/GF or anything after a week's worth of dates.

I wouldn't say that she broke you up, she stopped seeing you.

Anyway, she's being a bytch for a number of reasons. She can blame you as a form of ASD (anti-slut defense) so that she can save her opinion of herself.

She may do it as a means of chasing you off so that you don't come around and make things uncomfortable with her and her guy.

She may do it as a way of justifying what she did ("it's just not working out, he's the wrong person...")

There's probably more reasons. More on the ASD-angle--she has to explain this to her social circle and make it look legit, and if it's your fault she's got something that works on all points.

BTW, e-mailing her asking why it ended was not a good idea. It was rather obvious what the reasons were, and even if you didn't know EXACTLY why, you were in the ballpark, which is more than enough for you to get it. Asking her stuff like this makes you look retarded (read: loser) in her eyes, however unjustified that is, and makes it easier for her to walk off from you. Believe me, I hear my coworkers size up guys on points like this.

 

[RazzleDazzle]

Mistakes were made, i agree. We did just date. It was only a week. I did email her. I am mad about it. Important note, though, I have LEARNED from this experience. Some about her, but more importantly a lot about me. I fall way too quickly into a relationship.

TesuqueRed, your reply is legit. Nothing I can say against it. I am more mad at my foolish self for falling for another 'user' than anything else.

Oh well, "Sometimes you get the bear, and sometimes the bear gets you."

 

[Aztec]

You have to experience failures before you can really savor your victories.


Failures meaning yours and the unintentional pain inflicted by the b1tch you dated.