if you think you're ugly, this is for you

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bigmil, when you work out girls are more receptive because you know you look good.

Not because you necessarily look good.

Knowing and sincerely feeling that you do indeed look good is much more important than actually looking good. Because looking good is subjective to opinion.

So is personality. Both of the arguments are flawed.

Looks and Personality are both subjective.

Therefore, if you believe you are attractive you will achieve the results you associate with that. It is 70% in your mind and 30% external.
 

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A lot of guys see (what THEY think is) an ugly guy with a hot girl and conclude that "Looks don't matter. Women care less about looks than men." I used to think the same thing. I don't believe that anymore.

Men and women perceive a guy's looks DIFFERENTLY. I'm sure you know at least one guy that YOU THINK is good looking, but he hardly gets any girls. You probably also know at least one guy that you think is ugly looking, but gets hot women.

The thing is, if a hot girl is dating a guy, SHE FINDS HIM ATTRACTIVE. Men might think he's ugly, but SHE DOESN'T see it that way. Trust me, she is attracted to his looks. Hot women are obsessed with status and what their friends think. She WON'T date a guy she thinks is ugly. It's not gonna happen, no matter how great his personality is.

~~Mike
 

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I hate to piss on everyones bomfire....

Why do we have to have this same post EVERY week.....normally twice a week.

Its just repetative and boring.


I dont agree with the "playing in your league comment." Its utter bull**** imo. You speak of it like any ****ty american stereotype. You have to be a Major hitter to get a top girl. Bull! If you have the confidence and the personality you can achive whats needed. Granted...some girls will be put off due to lack of looks. But women are not as shallow as men.

I tell you what.....If you think looks are really that important and due to all success. Why dont you lot go down to your local Channel or Boots and buy yourselfs a makeup kit. Im sure you will look so pretty. In the mean time i will stick to confidence and game.

But i aint going to have the same argument as always every week as i have better things to do than KBJ a topic that is brought up by the same people all the time (Not mentioning any names :rolleyes: ) I dont consider myself ugly. Very young looking.....but certainly not ugly.

Rant over :cuss:


Sarge On!
 

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looks

How bout sever adult acne? I'm 5'6'' with horrible adult acne, scars, oily face at all times, within minutes of washing. Theres only 1 drug that cures it, accutane, and i cant take it cuz of the side effects. It screwed up my immune system and i got strep throat 8 times in 1 yr after takin it. Ive been to 3 dermatologists, tried everything under the sun. I workout, i have a good looking face, i'm naturally tan colored, i'm short but not insanely short, the only thing holding me back is my skin. Any answes to that??????


skip2mylou781 said:
background: I SPEAK FROM EXPERIENCE

4 years ago, i was a 2/10 in my own books, and slowly but surely ive changed into what is at least a 7/10 by workign out, changing how i dress, dieting, changing my hair, and YES even tanning

and i went from total retard who never got pvssy to the worst and biggest player (yea im bragging lol)

so read on please.................


seriously, guys who are ugly shouldnt worry.........they watch too much porn and it shoots up their standards and they end up not wanting anything under HB6, but the REALITY is, if YOU are a guy and ur a 1-4 in looks, then U HAVE NO RIGHT to have such high standards, and u either need to get better looking, or go for HB3-5's

its hypocritical to say looks dont matter to a chick, when at the same time, u b hatin on the fat HB2s who have high standards and want guys who are 7+

u gotta play in ur league........if ur a single A player, ur gonna get struck out by the Cy Young winner from the majors, and thats equivalent to an HB10 GASP not giving a seconf of her time to a guy whos a 3.........at the same time, a AAA player who jsut made it into the majors COULD get a hit off of a top 10 pitcher in the majors, thats just like a guy whos a 6 hitting on an HB9

u people following?

IF you look in the mirror and u think u arent that good looking (or better yet, judge by ur success, have u been shot down ALL THE TIME by hot chicks?), AND if u have relatively high standards, then in that case, u are a HYPOCRITE........u cant sit there bein an ugly fvck and desire to hook up with hot chicks, thats not how REALITY works, so if thats the case, then STOP READING SEDUCTION MATERIAL NOW........and go improve ur looks for weeks/months, and when uve transformed from a 3 to a 7 (good clothes, some muscle/abs, nice hair, nice cologne WILL do that)........THEN u can go hit on the hotties and even think to have a chance!

u think u cant ever NOT be a 3??? wtfffffff

lets assume that u have an UGLY UGLY face (like a ZERO), WHO THE **** CARES??? ur face is only part of wat makes ur LOOKS, with the other parts being ur body (which u can make into a 10/10), ur clothes (u can make it 10/10)....fcukin u can even change ur EYE color with eye contacts.......u can seriously have an ugly face and STILL with everything else being in place be a 7. WHAT NOW??
 

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yes, grow facial hair to cover it up, otherwise, dont worry too much and keep improving every aspect of ur looks besides the face, u can still land really hot girls who also mite have acne on their face.......u see how that works?
 
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