I can tell you that your looks will not keep women around. This is a fact.
This post is to help you attract women. It is in no way to help you get in a womans pants, and it will not help you keep women.
I can tell you how NOT to keep women around or how NOT to get into a woman's pants. If you want to know what you're doing wrong, I can tell you very easily because once you get women attracted, it's a psychological game and no longer on the level as attraction, and you can not let a woman's action really matter too much because then you'll just come off creepy.
If you want to run a woman off, tell her you love her. Seriously, if you have a woman, let her know that she has you whole heartedly, and she'll start wondering if she really wants you. Why is that so? Because she already has you, and she'll start wondering what else is out there.
How do I know this? I know it seems illogical, but I do it all the time. When I meet a woman I like, I pursue her, and if she becomes "mine", I lose complete interest. She has left nothing for me to imagine and nothing to be desired. It's already there in my face, and I can't stand it. I want nothing else, but to get away.
Let's say you have a woman that you're into. She's left plenty for you to imagine and desire. She hasn't thrown herself at you, but you like her so much, and you've decided to show her your undying devotion. Guess what she's going to do! She's going to tell you that she doesn't think she's ready to be in a relationship. The natural tendency for the pursuer is to push. You start to try to show her that you like her and start becoming pushy. It's very hard for me to put this in words and into a way that you can understand, but if you do the exact opposite. If you just back off and stop all contact at that very moment, she will be left with wonder. She was thinking about how she didn't know if she wanted to be with you, but as soon as you took away that availability, she felt a sense of confusion (if you will). She will instantly start thinking those thoughts you want her to think. She will start wondering if she DOESN'T want to be without you. It's like an OMG feeling. If you want a woman to want you back, you have to give her a sense of loss. It does something to her ego. It causes her to wonder if being without you is what she really wants.
All this I've stated is beside the point. The first stage is to attract, and that's all this thread really concerns. You can fight it until the day you die, but you will die alone if you can't attract a woman first.
So, before you waste your time on learning how to play the psychological game with women, learn how to attract them. When you can attract women easily, the psychological game becomes a little easier. The reason why, is because when you know you can attract women, you're mindset will change. You won't find yourself longing for that elusive one because you have many to chose from. It's like a man begging for water. He doesn't beg for more water anymore once he has plenty.
