If you see ex at gym?

phil2015

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Hey

I wondered what any of you guys would do if you see your ex at the gym?

I'm going with the predicted response of nothing/ignore
 

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Make her monstruously jelly as she keeps mirin you gains as they grow bigger by the day.
 

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Let her see you with another girl working in with you. It'll drive her nuts but don't do anything about it. Continue to ignore her and move on with your life.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Went tonight, had a great time and feeling refreshed and ripped.

There's some top quality women in there and everyone seems really nice as well.

Didn't see her tonight, but I know she used that gym in the past. I think like you say djthaigo1 I may use her presence as motivation to get ripped and push harder....as you say let her see me get jealous over what she gave up ☺
 

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You need analysis for this sh*t?

1. Ignore her.
2. Continue your workout.
3. Put your headphones and ipod on.

Is it that damn difficult? She is not that attractive.
 

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If you get eye contact, smirk and nod only, unless she initiates convo. Otherwise, she does not exist in your world.
Bottom line - radiate confidence
Try not to think about future events that may or may not happen. It tends to build fear and apprehension inside you, which kills confidence.
 
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I would just smile and say Hi. Act like you dont give a sh!t and do your workout.

I mean if you got some p!ssed off look on your face and ignore her. She'll know she got under your skin. Women love to see men in distress after a break up. Be the bigger man and act like no hard feelings.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ive been the gym 4 times this week now and have arranged personal training sessions to work out my goals/body type/nutrition requirement

Some of the girls there are amazing and I've made eye contact with quite a few, all hot

Right now, I couldn't give a fook about my ex
 
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