tweeder
Senior Don Juan
Okay this tip is mainly for newbies. I say this because many of you Master DJ's are going to roll your eyes and be tempted to flame me for this tip. That being said.....
I am in a psychology class, and our project this semester is to come up with some observational topic, and we must write a paper on it. My observational topic was how different types of women reacted on similar dates with me.
How cool is that? Anyways, basically my goal was to date 20 different women. Shy ones, hot ones, blonde, tall, short, aggresive, athletic, chubby. I think you get the picture. And I would observe how they acted on the date, and have them fill out a form the next day.
Well in order to do that I had to start meeting women so I could ask them out. Now normally I'm pretty decent at approaching women anyways, but after a while I noticed how easily I was doing it. I would just go up to a girl that fit one of my descriptions and start making light convo. Then after a couple of minutes I'd say, "Hey why don't we get together for coffee some time? Give me your number so I can give you a call."
Now the reason I didn't say anything about the project was that I wanted these girls to really want to go on the date so the experiment would be less inaccurate.
Now a few of the girls said no for whatever reasone, but I would then explain why I had wanted her to go out with me. I'd say, "Oh that's alright, I'm doing blah blah blah, and you fit the description of an average girl with blonde hair that I needed for my list. Sorry to waste your time." Then I'd go down the hall and immediately start talking to another girl right in front of her. Man the looks on their faces were priceless.
I found that I didn't care about the rejections because I usually wasn't really that interested in them anyways, and I was working on a class project. You guys that are still new to this site can use this to get used to approaching girls. THis way you really don't have to worry about her saying no, because then you can neg hit her and walk away looking like a man who could care less. Like saying, "That's alright, I really don't want to date you anywasy, you're just one on my list of many."
NOt a good idea to always use this, but I think it would be a great medium step in between never asking out girls, and doing it the DJ way.
I am in a psychology class, and our project this semester is to come up with some observational topic, and we must write a paper on it. My observational topic was how different types of women reacted on similar dates with me.
Well in order to do that I had to start meeting women so I could ask them out. Now normally I'm pretty decent at approaching women anyways, but after a while I noticed how easily I was doing it. I would just go up to a girl that fit one of my descriptions and start making light convo. Then after a couple of minutes I'd say, "Hey why don't we get together for coffee some time? Give me your number so I can give you a call."
Now the reason I didn't say anything about the project was that I wanted these girls to really want to go on the date so the experiment would be less inaccurate.
Now a few of the girls said no for whatever reasone, but I would then explain why I had wanted her to go out with me. I'd say, "Oh that's alright, I'm doing blah blah blah, and you fit the description of an average girl with blonde hair that I needed for my list. Sorry to waste your time." Then I'd go down the hall and immediately start talking to another girl right in front of her. Man the looks on their faces were priceless.
I found that I didn't care about the rejections because I usually wasn't really that interested in them anyways, and I was working on a class project. You guys that are still new to this site can use this to get used to approaching girls. THis way you really don't have to worry about her saying no, because then you can neg hit her and walk away looking like a man who could care less. Like saying, "That's alright, I really don't want to date you anywasy, you're just one on my list of many."
NOt a good idea to always use this, but I think it would be a great medium step in between never asking out girls, and doing it the DJ way.