When I hit 32, I barely had 8 months of relationships total. I did have a house and 6 figures in my IRA/401K though.I write this as a 32-year-old whose entire adulthood has been a cluster**** of epic proportions. Only been in two relationships, the latter being eight years long and toxic for at least half of that time. Only have $30k in the bank. Don't own property. Only ****ed 4 women. Hated college. Don't really have friends, just two drinking buddies who drag me down with them. Never seen my abs (I'm not fat but just not in shape)
I often hear all these stories of late bloomers, but I think 32 is the cut-off point. I previously kept holding out hope, but I harbour zero hope for myself anymore. My youth is over...I'll never get the carefree fun youth that 99% of the human population enjoys. I probably won't make a single new friend for the rest of my life, and I certainly won't ever be a player. I'm screwed.
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
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Same here.^ I'm nowhere near either owning a house or having six figures in a retirement fund.
I understand why you may feel like this.I write this as a 32-year-old whose entire adulthood has been a cluster**** of epic proportions. Only been in two relationships, the latter being eight years long and toxic for at least half of that time. Only have $30k in the bank. Don't own property. Only ****ed 4 women. Hated college. Don't really have friends, just two drinking buddies who drag me down with them. Never seen my abs (I'm not fat but just not in shape)
I often hear all these stories of late bloomers, but I think 32 is the cut-off point. I previously kept holding out hope, but I harbour zero hope for myself anymore. My youth is over...I'll never get the carefree fun youth that 99% of the human population enjoys. I probably won't make a single new friend for the rest of my life, and I certainly won't ever be a player. I'm screwed.
No you’re not bro. Surgeons start their profession at your age.I write this as a 32-year-old whose entire adulthood has been a cluster**** of epic proportions. Only been in two relationships, the latter being eight years long and toxic for at least half of that time. Only have $30k in the bank. Don't own property. Only ****ed 4 women. Hated college. Don't really have friends, just two drinking buddies who drag me down with them. Never seen my abs (I'm not fat but just not in shape)
I often hear all these stories of late bloomers, but I think 32 is the cut-off point. I previously kept holding out hope, but I harbour zero hope for myself anymore. My youth is over...I'll never get the carefree fun youth that 99% of the human population enjoys. I probably won't make a single new friend for the rest of my life, and I certainly won't ever be a player. I'm screwed.
LifeBeginsAt40CopeI understand why you may feel like this.
Me personally. I'm 38. I now feel like a lot of the pressure is off. When i was younger, i was focused on creating a family life for myself, that never happened, so now i can settle down and enjoy my woman and life without feeling pressured to start a family. Life begins at 40.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
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Dont get it?LifeBeginsAt40Cope
I never saw that happen at 25 either.I’m still waiting for my car insurance rates to go down when I turn 25.
You won't be able to fucck a female porn star with those accomplishments.You’re doing a lot better than me OP. I’m just about to turn 30 and I’ve never dated anyone. Only 1 single date that ended in a hook up 8 years ago and fooling around with another girl 3 years ago and nothing at all since. I also barely have $100 in the bank and I still live at home with my parents. It could be worse, a lot worse.
Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.
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Yes it does and its caused me a lot of rage and depression. Women also don’t want to date a 30 year old man who still lives with his parents, its a huge turn off to most of them.I never saw that happen at 25 either.
You won't be able to fucck a female porn star with those accomplishments.
Living with parents totally sucks as an adult.
Throughout life, men are judged on their living/housing situations whereas women are rarely ever judged on it.Women also don’t want to date a 30 year old man who still lives with his parents, its a huge turn off to most of them.
You're cherry picking. Why don't you take on @Reincarnated 's challenge and openly state you're willing to make a change?^ I'm nowhere near either owning a house or having six figures in a retirement fund.
WAKE UP!!!You’re doing a lot better than me OP. I’m just about to turn 30 and I’ve never dated anyone. Only 1 single date that ended in a hook up 8 years ago and fooling around with another girl 3 years ago and nothing at all since. I also barely have $100 in the bank and I still live at home with my parents. It could be worse, a lot worse.