If you have low standards, you'll never have a problem with women

[skinnyguy]

Two of my guy friends are with fat chicks. One guy is with an OBESE woman, and another guy is married to a fattie.

They both seem pretty happy with their lives.

I get hotter chicks, but they act like I'm the one with the problem finding women. They are always like "dude we need to find you a wife!" etc etc. I've tried to be a DJ and stuff but honestly it's not working out for me. I haven't gotten consistent sex from it. I want to get consistent sex going forward, and I want to stop coming on SoSuave (even though it's a great community that I have really learned from).

I'm not a top tier Indian guy, and all the best Indian chicks got married when they were in their 20's. As I enter my late 30's, I have some decisions to make. I may go ahead and marry one of the fat indian chicks who keep messaging me online.

Yes - I know I may not get consistent sex when I get married. But I'm willing to try it out anyway because it has a lot of benefits. 1) my coworkers won't think I'm a weird anymore, cause I'll have a wife. 2) I'll get more social opportunities with other married couples. 3) I might benefit financially if her family has money, thus claiming an inheritance (a lot of the fat chicks that message me have top level jobs and come from wealthy families)).

I am pretty unhappy being single, and I have messed with stuck up b8tches for too long. I realized that maybe dating a woman who is not that attractive will be refreshing because she won't try to bankrupt me by getting me to buy her stuff and she will be high interest. Again, these girls are messaging me first online.

I'm coming to terms with the fact that my life currently sucks and I want to do something about it. I don't want to keep chasing after uninterested hoes to take advantage of me.

What are your thoughts guys? Appreciate any advice.

 

[resilient]

Tbh... it’s tough to get excited in the bedroom with an obese woman. I’ve tried and couldn’t bring it to my ability to introduce them to family and friends. Attraction is huge for a man. Emotional intimacy is important to us men, yet physical attraction plays a huge role in helping us bond emotionally as well in the mating game.

As far as the stuck up women... it would serve you well to have a strong frame. If she clearly is disrespecting you despite your intentions known, you carry the intuition and willpower to walk away. Always respect and put yourself first. Don’t let them walk over you. Maintain the frame to the best of your ability.

If your life currently sucks do something about it. I could list suggestions, yet I want you to brainstorm and think what your really after in life and what you still want to accomplish.

What are your passions? Follow those to the ends of this Earth!

 

[zekko]

Reminds me of this old song:
By the way, if you wonder why they show pictures of Cher and Winona Ryder in the video, it's not because they're ugly. Apparently the song was featured in the movie Mermaids, which is where the clips are from.

 

[TBG]

Do you honestly want to potentially spend the rest of your life waking up next to a whale that you're not attracted to, just so your co workers don't think you're weird?

What's weird is you even considering this.

What happens when you're married, old and the sex dries up? You still gonna be happy in a relationship with someone that can't leave the house or can't do activities because of their weight? But hey at least your co workers didn't think you were weird for those 40+ year's.

Work on yourself. If you're not happy on your own, you won't be happy in a relationship. It's not the be all end all.

 

[Teddy_Beer]

Do not get married or for that matter make any decision just for the sake of pleasing other people. That's a recipe for misery. You do things to enhance YOUR life, not other people's.

And if you're not happy on your own, a relationship will not magically fix that. You need to work on yourself.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Two of my guy friends are with fat chicks. One guy is with an OBESE woman, and another guy is married to a fattie.

They both seem pretty happy with their lives.

I get hotter chicks, but they act like I'm the one with the problem finding women. They are always like "dude we need to find you a wife!" etc etc. I've tried to be a DJ and stuff but honestly it's not working out for me. I haven't gotten consistent sex from it. I want to get consistent sex going forward, and I want to stop coming on SoSuave (even though it's a great community that I have really learned from).

I'm not a top tier Indian guy, and all the best Indian chicks got married when they were in their 20's. As I enter my late 30's, I have some decisions to make. I may go ahead and marry one of the fat indian chicks who keep messaging me online.

Yes - I know I may not get consistent sex when I get married. But I'm willing to try it out anyway because it has a lot of benefits. 1) my coworkers won't think I'm a weird anymore, cause I'll have a wife. 2) I'll get more social opportunities with other married couples. 3) I might benefit financially if her family has money, thus claiming an inheritance (a lot of the fat chicks that message me have top level jobs and come from wealthy families)).

I am pretty unhappy being single, and I have messed with stuck up b8tches for too long. I realized that maybe dating a woman who is not that attractive will be refreshing because she won't try to bankrupt me by getting me to buy her stuff and she will be high interest. Again, these girls are messaging me first online.

I'm coming to terms with the fact that my life currently sucks and I want to do something about it. I don't want to keep chasing after uninterested hoes to take advantage of me.

What are your thoughts guys? Appreciate any advice.

Well, as far as the physical parameters go, you could settle for cute chubby [not the fattie] as opposed to the so-called hottie. just make sure you find a lady with a sparkling personality. That will more than make up for chasing the messed up hotties.

 

[IKO69]

Now why would any guy want that?

 

[guru1000]

You allege to have been on this site, yet you’re still skinny?

Many are on the site. Very few actually read and exercise their potential.

And so you’re lazy. So settle for the fattie.

 

[corrector]

Two of my guy friends are with fat chicks. One guy is with an OBESE woman, and another guy is married to a fattie.

They both seem pretty happy with their lives.

I get hotter chicks, but they act like I'm the one with the problem finding women. They are always like "dude we need to find you a wife!" etc etc. I've tried to be a DJ and stuff but honestly it's not working out for me. I haven't gotten consistent sex from it. I want to get consistent sex going forward, and I want to stop coming on SoSuave (even though it's a great community that I have really learned from).

I'm not a top tier Indian guy, and all the best Indian chicks got married when they were in their 20's. As I enter my late 30's, I have some decisions to make. I may go ahead and marry one of the fat indian chicks who keep messaging me online.

Yes - I know I may not get consistent sex when I get married. But I'm willing to try it out anyway because it has a lot of benefits. 1) my coworkers won't think I'm a weird anymore, cause I'll have a wife. 2) I'll get more social opportunities with other married couples. 3) I might benefit financially if her family has money, thus claiming an inheritance (a lot of the fat chicks that message me have top level jobs and come from wealthy families)).

I am pretty unhappy being single, and I have messed with stuck up b8tches for too long. I realized that maybe dating a woman who is not that attractive will be refreshing because she won't try to bankrupt me by getting me to buy her stuff and she will be high interest. Again, these girls are messaging me first online.

I'm coming to terms with the fact that my life currently sucks and I want to do something about it. I don't want to keep chasing after uninterested hoes to take advantage of me.

What are your thoughts guys? Appreciate any advice.

Women are women. A while ago, I had a neighbour with a fat Portugese wife and guess what? She left him. You underestimate how desperate guys are that they'll run to fatties if they think it's going to be an easy-lay and even these types of women have unrealistic standards because you got the internet right and allot of desperate lonely men that would give them the time of day? Once she gets tired of you, or a "whatever" happens, she can just go back online and message a number of guys and she'll easily get someone else again. As for marrying, I married an Indian woman and it could not last 2 friggin months. Indians are probably the most unfaithful and materialistic women in the planet. Good luck with that!

 

[skinnyguy]

Women are women. A while ago, I had a neighbour with a fat Portugese wife and guess what? She left him. You underestimate how desperate guys are that they'll run to fatties if they think it's going to be an easy-lay and even these types of women have unrealistic standards because you got the internet right and allot of desperate lonely men that would give them the time of day? Once she gets tired of you, or a "whatever" happens, she can just go back online and message a number of guys and she'll easily get someone else again. As for marrying, I married an Indian woman and it could not last 2 friggin months. Indians are probably the most unfaithful and materialistic women in the planet. Good luck with that!

Oh I didn’t know your wife was Indian. Yeah, I mean I don’t think I’ll be happy being single for the rest of my life so I don’t know what to do. Aren’t Persians more materialistic? I dated one 8 years ago and went broke trying to fund her lifestyle

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Oh I didn’t know your wife was Indian. Yeah, I mean I don’t think I’ll be happy being single for the rest of my life so I don’t know what to do. Aren’t Persians more materialistic? I dated one 8 years ago and went broke trying to fund her lifestyle

And my Indian friends just pointed me to shaadi.com. he says Indian women are really excellent partners.

 

[ubercat]

Are you guys serious. Most of the Indian women I've seen in public been giving hubby GBH of the ear hole. And Indian chicks arses expand forever there's no end to it.

 

[Murk]

Indians have flat behinds, not very shapely. They're very subservient, homely and caring though. Downside is I like thick women, they get can't get thick without being fat, also family issues (non-acceptance of non Indians), not very outgoing, lot's of hangups and jealousy over white girls, very materialistic. Not worth it.

Source: Indian ex gf

 

[skinnyguy]

Indians have flat behinds, not very shapely. They're very subservient, homely and caring though. Downside is I like thick women, they get can't get thick without being fat, also family issues (non-acceptance of non Indians), not very outgoing, lot's of hangups and jealousy over white girls, very materialistic. Not worth it.

Source: Indian ex gf

Most of what you said is true. My sis is really jealous of white girls and has MAJOR self esteem issues. She also hates my dad.

A lot of indian chicks are rebellious and date guys outside of their race. My problem is that most of the best indian girls are already taken by white guys, and the ones I have access to are the leftovers (fat).

They are subservient? Lol. The indian chicks I know all want to dominate their husbands. One of my friends really wants to move to the west coast but his wife won't let him cause she wants to stay in NJ near her parents. She's going to take all of his parents' wealth when they die.

 

[corrector]

My problem is that most of the best indian girls are already taken by white guys

What does that make you think about them?

 

[Spaz]

Ur low standards r the main root cause of ur problems.

Increase ur standards, hv a set of principles, list it out, then work on it, always aim high.

Don't worry abt women.

When ur standards r high and when u r effective, women will be the least of ur problems.

 

[resilient]

Good point, Spaz. When you raise your standards, you raise your self-esteem. Women are attracted to men with higher self-esteems. Not to a point where it comes off as fake, ingenuine, or over-inflated, yet a man who knows his boundaries and what he's willing to tolerate.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Most of what you said is true. My sis is really jealous of white girls and has MAJOR self esteem issues. She also hates my dad.

A lot of indian chicks are rebellious and date guys outside of their race. My problem is that most of the best indian girls are already taken by white guys, and the ones I have access to are the leftovers (fat).

They are subservient? Lol. The indian chicks I know all want to dominate their husbands. One of my friends really wants to move to the west coast but his wife won't let him cause she wants to stay in NJ near her parents. She's going to take all of his parents' wealth when they die.

There's all different builds of Indian women. And the "heavy" ones carry it much more feminine and sexy than a American. I normally like a athletic built Chyck, but some of the thick Indians are Soo sexy.

 

[Murk]

Most of what you said is true. My sis is really jealous of white girls and has MAJOR self esteem issues. She also hates my dad.

A lot of indian chicks are rebellious and date guys outside of their race. My problem is that most of the best indian girls are already taken by white guys, and the ones I have access to are the leftovers (fat).

They are subservient? Lol. The indian chicks I know all want to dominate their husbands. One of my friends really wants to move to the west coast but his wife won't let him cause she wants to stay in NJ near her parents. She's going to take all of his parents' wealth when they die.

I'm talking the muslim Indians - the Sikh and Hindus are wild and filthy as fvck - pump and dump only.

I went on a date with a really hot sikh chick I met on the train while drunk a few weeks ago, massive rack, naughty, big boobs... ghosted me haha! Think I came on too strong, but she was too young and not facially good enough for me to play it cool and try for anything serious.

 

[ubercat]

If you really like the curry puffs how about a slight variation Sri Lankan chicks are generally more attractive and less of the expanding ass problem they all know how to cook too and it's interesting food