If you got Bait and Switched by your Dental Hygenist - would you have walked out or continued...

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You think $150 is trivial? You must be rich. That is not my situation. Every penny.counts.
I'm thinking that you expecting to have a certain hygienist is ridiculous.

I don't even know who the hell my hygenist is, I could care less.

You get whoever is available, you aren't "assigned" a personal hygenist.

The fact you are so bent out of shape over it because you wanted to go home and jack off over her later on and now you can't because you got a fat ugly one is honestly pretty sad.

What are you going to complain about? That the dentist ruined your "pleasurable experience" later on when you got home?

SMFH...I can't even with some of the nonsense on here...

There is no such thing as a "bait and switch" at a dentist office...that is the most absurd thing I have heard on this board in a long time.

I mean were you paying her to work in lingerie or a bikini or something?

Fvcking delusional sh!t.
 
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The fact you are so bent out of shape over it because you wanted to go home and jack off over her later on and now you can't because you got a fat ugly one is honestly pretty sad.

What are you going to complain about? That the dentist ruined your "pleasurable experience" later on when you got home?
Who said that I fapped over the other hygenist? She doesn't have much of a sex appeal to have a sex fantasy with. You have the Hor and Madonna complex...well the hygenist would be more like the Madonna/Angel, not the hor. I don't fap to that category of women. They are more seen as human angels with me.

In fact, if I did fap in the past, after a session with the hygenist, then it was with an escort pic, but never with the hygenist. That again illustrates a Madonna-Hor thing and why I mainly fap at escort pics. It's because these types of women have degraded themselves and become arousing sexually in their pics, if I'm fapping at something.
 
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In general, dental hygienists are desirable women based on their non-careerist job. Not all dental hygienists and paralegals will be worth dating.

Most men, including the blue pill beta males, realize that the most desirable women aren't career women. One's job is such a crucial part of their identity and a big part of dating/lifestyle. Since dental hygienists are not burdened by excessive career demands, many men see them as relationship worthy. The more overweight hygienists will struggle more, but if a hygienist is under 35 and at least average looking, she'll have a lot of options and men will value her in terms of longer term relationships. This is why most hygienists have a child by 34-35. Men recognize their value and want to commit to a woman without a demanding career longer term. Most of these women get snapped up by their mid to late 20s. With hygienists under 30, they are rarely single for long when a non-marital relationship fails, regardless of whether or not they use swipe apps or not. Hygienists don't have to work hard to find good quality approaches from the real world or they might have a social circle. If neither of those options work, they have their social media DMs if they are social media active. The swipe apps would be the 4th possible option for them if the first three fail. Most hygienists will be able to find a boyfriend through their social circle or getting approached in-person though within 2-3 months of being single.

There are some high notch count hygienists. These women find LTRs in part due to the green flag nature of their jobs and also in part due to the male thirst environment. These are the hygienists that are more likely to eventually become single moms.

A typical unattached male without a good social circle only interacts with dental hygienists when he sees his own dentist. His own hygienist could be married woman and/or a woman who is 45-65. If a man's dental office has a hygienist who is under 35 and unmarried, she is likely to already have a stable boyfriend and not be looking for new penis. If a man's dental office has a hygienist who is under 35, unmarried, and not in a relationship/seeking new penis, he's also not likely to be able to arrange a date while sitting in the dental chair. Hygienists are like retail store workers, waitresses, bartenders, breastaurant workers, and strippers. The best way to get a date with a hygienist is to somehow meet them while they are off the job and participating in some sort of leisure time activity. This could happen in a conventional daygame setting, at a nightlife venue, or in something like a co-ed sports league or dance class.

It's very difficult to meet a dental hygienist, paralegal, phlebotomist, or other medical assistant at a bar or in daygame.

A typical unattached male without a good social circle may meet a dental hygienist while swiping on an app as well or sliding into her DMs, but that's an even more difficult way to try to meet a dental hygienist. Some hygienists may mention in their swipe app profiles or Instagram bios that they are hygienists.

This thread is a bizarre thread in general because most single men are not hitting on their hygienists while at their dental appts 2-3 times per year.
 

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Dental care is mostly a big scam. Teeth cleaning is a joke and a waste of money. If you're not in pain, you don't need a dentist.
Hi Bibles,
Like you I don't need Dentists,don't quite understand about this new found need for Hygienists....An associated variable here is that we both grow our own Vegetables and Greens and so get healthy levels of minerals that sustain and repair bones and teeth...Your Avatar Side Bar mentions you live in a Cow Patch,facetious or not,perhaps you use the doo-dahs to make healthy compost it really is the secret.
 

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This morning I visited I showed up at my dentist for a teeth cleaning. The same lady has been cleaning my teeth since March 2013, this slim White Jewish lady that has preety face, and I expected to see her today. Except the office didn't tell me she went on leave and there would be another hygenist. Instead I got this fat, not so pretty Black lady with an African accent.

I went ahead with the appointment because I reasoned, this is a dental hygene visit, and I'm just taking care of my teeth. It's not like it's a date or visiting an escort or anything like that (which I don't do). Then I felt disappointed because she didn't handle my teeth the same way as the other lady did. It's like there was no enjoyment in this. It was just blah and was waiting for the session to finish. Asked for a discount, and they told me that I got a discount since they actually increased the price and will be charging me the same as before, which comes like a discount. (The receptionist was a hot SBBW lady, but was thinking too much about the other hygenist that wasn't there rather than anyone else).

So I'm figuring, how should I have played this? If you were in my position, and you saw a different lady then the one you expected, would you have freaked out and walked out, or gone ahead with the appointment? Would you have made a scene and inquired about where the other lady is, and reschedule the appointement for when she's actually there? I felt I dealt with the wrong woman now with my teeth. I mean, I know a woman is a woman...but...some women have a punch or charisma on how they clean your teeth. Now I don't have a good memory or experience of my latest teeth cleaning, and it's like going to be meh.
I wouldn't have cared. I mean, she's only there to clean your teeth.
 

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This morning I visited I showed up at my dentist for a teeth cleaning. The same lady has been cleaning my teeth since March 2013, this slim White Jewish lady that has preety face, and I expected to see her today. Except the office didn't tell me she went on leave and there would be another hygenist. Instead I got this fat, not so pretty Black lady with an African accent.

I went ahead with the appointment because I reasoned, this is a dental hygene visit, and I'm just taking care of my teeth. It's not like it's a date or visiting an escort or anything like that (which I don't do). Then I felt disappointed because she didn't handle my teeth the same way as the other lady did. It's like there was no enjoyment in this. It was just blah and was waiting for the session to finish. Asked for a discount, and they told me that I got a discount since they actually increased the price and will be charging me the same as before, which comes like a discount. (The receptionist was a hot SBBW lady, but was thinking too much about the other hygenist that wasn't there rather than anyone else).

So I'm figuring, how should I have played this? If you were in my position, and you saw a different lady then the one you expected, would you have freaked out and walked out, or gone ahead with the appointment? Would you have made a scene and inquired about where the other lady is, and reschedule the appointement for when she's actually there? I felt I dealt with the wrong woman now with my teeth. I mean, I know a woman is a woman...but...some women have a punch or charisma on how they clean your teeth. Now I don't have a good memory or experience of my latest teeth cleaning, and it's like going to be meh.
All I know is that the last 2 dentists I have gone to (both in Eastern Europe) had hot hygienists; one even had a hot dentist. :)
 

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I got this fat, not so pretty Black lady with an African accent
lul.
Obviously she wasn't working there, just a temp hire to cover the leave of the emplyee. I would say no thank you, some other time.

Now. This aside. How much did you pay for the procedure?

I will be going back in December for cleaning, I believe it is 6 or 7 thousand rubles, which is 60 - 70 bucks. Ultrasonic cleaning.
 

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lul.
Obviously she wasn't working there, just a temp hire to cover the leave of the emplyee. I would say no thank you, some other time.

Now. This aside. How much did you pay for the procedure?

I will be going back in December for cleaning, I believe it is 6 or 7 thousand rubles, which is 60 - 70 bucks. Ultrasonic cleaning.
More than double the amount. You would have walked-out? You are the only poster on this thread who would have that reaction (ie make a scene in the place and walk-out).
 

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Why should I make a scene? Why can't I just ask when will my regular dentist be around, and state okey, I'll come back when she comes back.
 

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Why should I make a scene? Why can't I just ask when will my regular dentist be around, and state okey, I'll come back when she comes back.
Where I am from, it is making a scene. There is a $50 penalty for cancelling an appt. Not to mention it would look racist given the hygenist is Black. It would not look good on me.
 

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No less absurd than an allegedly grown man who has neither his own hacienda nor a phone, yet is expending an immense amount of energy on trying to bag a slice of copter https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/plate-invited-me-out-but-is-it-worth-going.283111/ , rather than acquiring the material trappings of adulthood. Such as a home and a phone
1. A quick Google search shows somewhere between 30-50% of "young adults" still live at home with their parents. I'm not saying that makes it ok, but I'm not a fringe case here.

2. Where the hell do you get the idea that I don't have a phone?
 

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1. A quick Google search shows somewhere between 30-50% of "young adults" still live at home with their parents. I'm not saying that makes it ok, but I'm not a fringe case here
If you live pay check to pay check, and frequently don't wash your hands after using the crapper, you're also "not a fringe case". Several million Americans do likewise. Will you persist with habits which are self-evidently unhealthy, or adopt more functional ones?

This isn't even a rhetorical question. I(and no doubt many of us here at SS)really do want to see you succeed, and are thus curious as to what steps you're taking to do so, BPH
 
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