If you get in great shape everyone wants to be your friend, no sh1t.

[Who Dares Win]

Users that attend this forum from more than few months know that I fully support the importance of being good looking over any kind of "game" or trick.

We can agree or disagree about the importance of looks compared to other factors but at this point should be obvious to anyone that the halo effect is probably the decisive factor for anyone making any social attempt...you see if you are good looking neutral behaviour gets positive judments and negative ones are either ignored or rationalized into good ones.

Now going back to the topic, I can talk with absolute certainity about that for the fact that in my life I've been skinny, skinny fat, slim and tight, fat and swollen while I'm currently reasonably big and reasonably cut...think of a fitness model with slightly less muscle mass and slighly more body fat.

I pick the right clothes and the right haircut /beardcut to maximize it.

Needless to say I get amazing feedbacks from 99% of the people I deal with both men and women, I'm not talking about sexual tension or flirting, I'm talking about asking for some info and having people open their phone and look for it or calling their friends to know it, I even had people giving me a lift with their car.

This stuff was so unheard in my life before that I actually tought that helpful people wanted to rob me or scam me.

I recall when I was skinny fat in my late teens that girls mocked me for no reason while I was minding my own business, I recall random people making jokes about my diet being crappy when I was fat and swollen and generally crappy feedbacks generally where people I met before didnt bother to say hi unless I said it first, women not even acknowledging my presence or expecting me to help them for no reward.

Whoever tells you that its a matter of game, confidence(lol), being nice to others either has great genetic and is living in god mode since their childhood or they are coping so bad that even Freud would be confused.

The two factors are manliness and attractiveness, while manliness improves your feedback greatly (disrespect disappear and credit among men manifest) its only when you reach a certain threeshold that you rip the full benefit package.

If I had to list the various shape in terms of improved feedbacks I would say that where 1 is worst and 5 is best.

1)skinny-fat
2)slim
3)average
4)strong-fat guy
5)strong and lean

Keep in mind that the right haircut makes a hell of a difference, never let your hair on the sides grow too much unless you're pulling a long hair style.

 

[Jack22]

People judge you by the way you look and behave, surprise!

 

[Who Dares Win]

People judge you by the way you look and behave, surprise!

No, people judge you from the way you look then judge you from the way you behave according to how you look and the idea of you they already made.

 

[Jack22]

No, people judge you from the way you look then judge you from the way you behave according to how you look and the idea of you they already made.

You're right, actually.

 

[Stoic]

I'll take it one step farther. If you look better, you will behave better.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I'll take it one step farther. If you look better, you will behave better.

We have to separate good behaviour when it comes of abiding rules and good behavious when it comes of social skills.

In my opinion the more goodlooking you are the less you tend to stick to rules especially cause punishments are less serious or even not existing.

If we talk about "game" well in that case the extra confidence helps not to fvck it up or miss opportunities.

 

[Kotaix]

Everyone knows subconsciously that being in great physical shape requires dedication and hard work. This automatically builds someone else's confidence in your character if you're not being a show-off and turning them off in the same moment.