If you don't need women, why are you spinning plates?

[skinnyguy]

I wish some guys on here would just man up and admit they need the attention of women to be satisfied. The whole tough guy act just doesn't work and people see right through it.

Just because I need a woman in my life doesn't make me "gay". In fact, if I didn't need any women at all, wouldn't THAT make me gay? :crazy:

If I don't go on a date for a month, that gets me down. It's only natural for me to feel that way because men by nature crave the attention of women. I'm no biologist, but I believe that this is an evolutionary trait. If you come on here to talk about your emotions, it shouldn't be met with ridicule by so-called DJ's who think that they can get by without women (when they are actually thinking about women every single minute of the day).

 

[foreverAFC]

i just wish i could fck the cast of saved by the bell, i dont know what you're talking about

 

[Wolfgang D]

So you make a thread in the hopes that guys will post and admit they need the attention of women. That would make you happy?

Total keyboard-jockey stuff. Take some small part of The Theory you find in the forum, or some small note about the people you seen in the forum, and make a thread about it. Can't have too many threads with your name on them, eh?

If you ever start talking to Women Out There, all this nitpicking about bits of theory and forum behavior will fade away. Imagine a thread with your first field report. Now wouldn't that be something.

 

[newboy718]

Every guy needs a girl

 

[denverfan110]

While idk about necessarily needing a girl if you've found happiness in the pursuit/emersion of other hobbies (people like that do exist), I find some of my most cherished memories/fun experiences have come from spending time with someone I was intimate with and cared about.

Naturally when that presence goes away it does feel like you're missing something..but not an integral part of your life.

 

[BraddH]

If someone says they don't need, it's just bull****a, hiding behind the ratifying words.

 

[adam225]

I wish some guys on here would just man up and admit they need the attention of women to be satisfied. The whole tough guy act just doesn't work and people see right through it.

Just because I need a woman in my life doesn't make me "gay". In fact, if I didn't need any women at all, wouldn't THAT make me gay? :crazy:

If I don't go on a date for a month, that gets me down. It's only natural for me to feel that way because men by nature crave the attention of women. I'm no biologist, but I believe that this is an evolutionary trait. If you come on here to talk about your emotions, it shouldn't be met with ridicule by so-called DJ's who think that they can get by without women (when they are actually thinking about women every single minute of the day).

That's because you're weak minded and you have convinced yourself that becoming attached to a "women" will bring you happiness and solve all of lifes problems (in reality she will most likely make things worse for YOU). Like I've said before - your only problem is YOU. You need to become happy in yourself before reaching out to the world to bring you happiness. Internal first > external after. It doesn't work the other way around. If anyone would like to prove me wrong then pleeeease do so...

Also, I'm not spinning plates, nor do I have a girlfriend. I don't want either at the moment. Do I care ? NO ! I come out of a LTR in May and purely want to put time into myself to become the person who I want to be. When I'm ready - I'll be spinning plates... but for the mean while it's all about ME. I don't want a women there trying to get close to me, it'll only hold me back...

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Its just a lie to help you rebound after flakes, dumps, games, and etc. It should be renamed to "You do not need her"?

 

[PlayHer Man]

I wish some guys on here would just man up and admit they need the attention of women to be satisfied. The whole tough guy act just doesn't work and people see right through it.

Just because I need a woman in my life doesn't make me "gay". In fact, if I didn't need any women at all, wouldn't THAT make me gay? :crazy:

If I don't go on a date for a month, that gets me down. It's only natural for me to feel that way because men by nature crave the attention of women. I'm no biologist, but I believe that this is an evolutionary trait. If you come on here to talk about your emotions, it shouldn't be met with ridicule by so-called DJ's who think that they can get by without women (when they are actually thinking about women every single minute of the day).

Clearly you don't know the difference between a NEED and a desire.. or a NEED and a WANT.

If you don't NEED an iphone why do you have one? If you don't NEED an Xbox why do you have one? --> Because you WANT IT. :crackup:

Its sad that you are so confused by the most simple concepts. This isn't the first time. Either you are VERY young or VERY limited... mentally. :crazy:

That's because you're weak minded and you have convinced yourself that becoming attached to a "women" will bring you happiness and solve all of lifes problems (in reality she will most likely make things worse for YOU). Like I've said before - your only problem is YOU. You need to become happy in yourself before reaching out to the world to bring you happiness. Internal first > external after. It doesn't work the other way around. If anyone would like to prove me wrong then pleeeease do so...

Also, I'm not spinning plates, nor do I have a girlfriend. I don't want either at the moment. Do I care ? NO ! I come out of a LTR in May and purely want to put time into myself to become the person who I want to be. When I'm ready - I'll be spinning plates... but for the mean while it's all about ME. I don't want a women there trying to get close to me, it'll only hold me back...

THIS

 

[Who Dares Win]

I would say that to desire women doesnt necessarily means to desire women but it could also meanto desire things that having women bring you.

Wheter is unworked attention from random women entering a room, respect or envy from other men or trust from employee (married men are considered more trustworth) or simple sexual satisfaction or a free card to get free from the mandatory "creep sign" that any man alone nowadays has.

 

[skinnyguy]

That's because you're weak minded and you have convinced yourself that becoming attached to a "women" will bring you happiness and solve all of lifes problems (in reality she will most likely make things worse for YOU). Like I've said before - your only problem is YOU. You need to become happy in yourself before reaching out to the world to bring you happiness. Internal first > external after. It doesn't work the other way around. If anyone would like to prove me wrong then pleeeease do so...

Also, I'm not spinning plates, nor do I have a girlfriend. I don't want either at the moment. Do I care ? NO ! I come out of a LTR in May and purely want to put time into myself to become the person who I want to be. When I'm ready - I'll be spinning plates... but for the mean while it's all about ME. I don't want a women there trying to get close to me, it'll only hold me back...

Who said anything about being "attached"? I was talking about companionship and sex. You are no different from the rest of the guys here. If you went 10 years without sex, you'd commit suicide. Which means that you do need women in order to survive. And please don't reply back with a troll post like that because no one really believes that you're not interested in women at all. The fact that you're on SoSuave means that you desire women. If Kate Upton approached you, you'd fvck her in a heartbeat. I highly doubt you would say "sorry, I'm not interested in girls right now".

 

[Solomon]

So you make a thread in the hopes that guys will post and admit they need the attention of women. That would make you happy?

Total keyboard-jockey stuff. Take some small part of The Theory you find in the forum, or some small note about the people you seen in the forum, and make a thread about it. Can't have too many threads with your name on them, eh?

If you ever start talking to Women Out There, all this nitpicking about bits of theory and forum behavior will fade away. Imagine a thread with your first field report. Now wouldn't that be something.

The days of Field Reports on sosusave are long dead....It's the age of the keyboard Jockey

5 years ago threads like this wouldn't have existed and if they did they woulda been "snuffed" out swiftly

There tons of guys getting laid

sadly its not here

+1 rep

 

[adam225]

Who said anything about being "attached"? I was talking about companionship and sex. You are no different from the rest of the guys here. If you went 10 years without sex, you'd commit suicide. Which means that you do need women in order to survive. And please don't reply back with a troll post like that because no one really believes that you're not interested in women at all. The fact that you're on SoSuave means that you desire women.

WOW !! You really are one million miles away from reality.... Do you know the difference between "attachment" and "true love" ? The former is a delusion, the latter is real. "Attachment" is your mind reaching out and believing that another person can make YOU happy - this involves manipulation, jealousy, hatred, ect... (it's basically an addiction - a continuous UP & DOWN cycle). "True love" is unconditional - it's truly wanting the best for someone and living in harmony with them - (regardless to whether they give you sex or not) - a good example of this is what a mother feels for her child.

You seriously need help. You don't take on board anything I say to you. It's like your ignorant mind doesn't want to face upto the truth. Just carry on living in Never Neverland son, I'm sure Tinkerbell will eventually fvck you if keep crying your heart out to her.

P.S. No I certainly wouldn't commit suicide. But then again, I'm strong minded. I thoroughly know the difference between "need" & "want". I enjoy my life for what it is. Anything else other than myself is a bonus....

 

[HalfAddict]

Consider this.

If a cop asks you to search your car and you say no, do you necessarily have something to hide? Because you are using the same ****ty logic here...

Herp if you don't need women why do you date them derp.

Maybe I want to *******, does that mean my life revolves around that ****? That is a resounding no, I don't need em, I want em. Now kindly gtfo with your idiotic theories.

So sick of bull****, useless, assbackwards threads like this. You've made two hundred posts in a little over a month.. why don't you go date some of these women you need so much instead of practice your typing skills with useless dribble on SS.

P.S. Mods is there any way to block these *******s so their ****ty threads do not appear in my sight.

 

[skinnyguy]

Consider this.

If a cop asks you to search your car and you say no, do you necessarily have something to hide? Because you are using the same ****ty logic here...

Herp if you don't need women why do you date them derp.

Maybe I want to *******, does that mean my life revolves around that ****? That is a resounding no, I don't need em, I want em. Now kindly gtfo with your idiotic theories.

So sick of bull****, useless, assbackwards threads like this. You've made two hundred posts in a little over a month.. why don't you go date some of these women you need so much instead of practice your typing skills with useless dribble on SS.

P.S. Mods is there any way to block these *******s so their ****ty threads do not appear in my sight.

If a cop wanted to search my car I would say go right ahead. If he wanted to do a breathalizer test or a pat down I would say go ahead. I don't get involved in stupid crap and if you want security you have to be willing to give up privacy. Anyway, I have no idea what that has to do with that thread.

I am just calling out the delusional "DJ's" who post something every day about how you don't need women/just be happy with yourself/etc. The truth is that if you could not get women, you would not be happy with yourself and that's a fact. The guys who I know who are happy with themselves are either in a stable relationship or are fvcking multiple women.

Who said my life revolves around women? Stop putting words in my mouth like a little troll. I have a life, as I have stated numerous times. Just because I post like a couple times a day doesn't mean I don't have anything else going on. It doesn't take that long to post a response.

 

[Driggs]

Does this board have an ignore function?

 

[Iceberg]

I wish some guys on here would just man up and admit they need the attention of women to be satisfied. The whole tough guy act just doesn't work and people see right through it.

Just because I need a woman in my life doesn't make me "gay". In fact, if I didn't need any women at all, wouldn't THAT make me gay? :crazy:

Christ. You'd too dumb to even get your trolling story straight. Is this guy banned yet?

So now you're whining about guys on this site "convincing themselves that they don't need women" when you just wrote this 5 days ago....

Guys,

I know I sound whiny most of the time but the truth is this site has helped me a lot. For starters, I no longer oogle over hot women I see on the street and at the bar. I know that I need to have more respect for myself than that. If anything, I don't even care about them anymore because I don't want their drama/issues to intrude in my life. I also do NOT want a girlfriend whose life consists of posting selfies on Facebook. I now think of them as just like any other women I see...I do not put them on a pedestal nor do I go out of my way to talk to them. I see guys trying to get with them at the bar, and I pity those guys because they are putting in so much effort for something that won't produce anything. I'm fine just sitting with my beer and watching the game. I feel liberated knowing that I don't need a girl by my side to have fun.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=209392

You fail at being a failure. Amazing.

 

[HalfAddict]

That privacy for security thing is a whole other animal I won't get into.

The reasoning for that is because it's the same stupid cop logic.

If you don't need women why do you spin plates? Because clearly if you absolutely did not NEED you wouldn't want them around.


The reason the "delusional" DJ's tell you to become happy without women is because if you cannot be happy w/o women you ain't gonna be happy with women. Period. They will not fill that void so many men have, I will even go as far to say that there are men here with the women they want in their lives and yet they still feel that void.. you know the one they thought would go away when they finally got the girl.

I will preach the be happy with yourself mantra tirelessly no matter how many new users come in spouting idiotic crap that suggests the opposite (such as this thread here)

Your post is bad, contributes nothing and is basically a waste of SS kilobytes. So feel free to get all hard and call me a troll, this is my vernacular and I am unapologetic for it because fools like you have been coming to this site and saying retarded **** like this since the day I registered, they were all wrong, and so are you.

 

[adam225]

I honestly feel sorry for the guy. He must be living such a confused and unhappy life. It's like he can't even think straight. I just wish he'd actually start taking on board what we say to him...

 

[corrector]

If you don't need women why do you spin plates? Because clearly if you absolutely did not NEED you wouldn't want them around.

How do you figure that? You could want a woman but that does not mean you need one.

The reason the "delusional" DJ's tell you to become happy without women is because if you cannot be happy w/o women you ain't gonna be happy with women. Period. They will not fill that void so many men have, I will even go as far to say that there are men here with the women they want in their lives and yet they still feel that void.. you know the one they thought would go away when they finally got the girl.

If you are 100% happy without a woman then why would you want a woman?
According to Who_Dares_Win, there are indirect benefits of having a woman.
Those issues have nothing to do with any void. Also, you have a biological sex drive or have a companion to go out with or in social settings with then these issues have nothing to do with any void.

I will preach the be happy with yourself mantra tirelessly no matter how many new users come in spouting idiotic crap that suggests the opposite (such as this thread here)

If you are happy with yourself without a woman then you are masturbating and looking at porn in substitution for a real woman and are happy enough with that fantasy. Obviously you don't need a real woman because of today's technology. Heck, people even get real-dolls now. So, they are happy with themselves and their fantasies. So, this takes being happy with yourself and not needing a woman to an extreme. Heck, if you have money, go use an escort even occasionally...as you'll pay more in a marriage or maintaining a relationship in the long-run. Again...happy with your life without a woman taken to an extreme.

Your post is bad, contributes nothing and is basically a waste of SS kilobytes. So feel free to get all hard and call me a troll, this is my vernacular and I am unapologetic for it because fools like you have been coming to this site and saying retarded **** like this since the day I registered, they were all wrong, and so are you.

His post nails the issue head-on. If you don't need women, then why bother spinning plates? You would be happy with yourself. If you are in a relationship, you would be happy enough not to have to spin plates in order to break-up with her..you just break-up and become single again and face a long indefinite dry spell. If you do not need a woman's attention then you will not need to spin plates.
After all, if you can't spin plates then you going to kill yourself? That's what skinnyguy is trying to say. Obviously he's happy without a woman or he'd be dead by now.