Since they lack emotional control, they look to you to be the stable figure in their life. Women are like the ocean and you are suppose to be like the mountain and rocky shore that is not effected by the crashing waves.
Women hate any type of weakness. We see this in many forms. Sh!t, a guy can’t even get a cold for crying out loud. Ever hear a woman scoff about ”a man cold?” Yes, you’re not allowed to get sick. Guy loses his job and takes too long to find a new one, woman will eventually leave. Guy gets injured and needs help walking or doing anything, woman gets annoyed. Neighbor had ACL surgery and his wife complained that she had to put out the trash cans, b!tch please.
Reason why the nice guy seems to lose and a$$holes prevail. Women instinctively look for someone that can protect her and her offspring. If you lack emotional control, she can’t trust you when sh!t goes down.
You can have emotions and boundaries but don’t be crying incessantly over things. Keep them in check and be decisive. Even the ”strong and independent“ feminist is still looking for these types of characteristics. If not, beta males would be killing it these days.
Emotional awareness and control. Don’t react when she is losing her sh!t. Think of her like a child having an episode. 9 times out of 10 she’s going to change her mind in a few minutes anyway, lol. Women are the psychopaths if you ask me.