What criteria would you use to determine that a certain woman is the right woman to marry? Also, what steps would you take to avoid a costly, in financial terms, divorce?
Do you want to marry?
I am married and here is my criteria:
1. Psychologically healthy.
2. Values being a mother and homemaker over work.
3. Employment that can be done part time when children are under five years old. No careerism.
4. Hospitable, involved, and caring in-laws.
5. Affectionate and thoughtful.
6.
No feminist or “progressive” ideas!
7. Low body count and no history of being what I call a “professional girlfriend.”
8. Looks at divorce as
only something done for serious transgressions (abuse, neglect, abandonment).
9. No thrill-seeking behavior.
10. Judging from her and her parents’ looks will I have good-looking children? (Yes, I’m shallow like that.)