I been in a relationship for 3y and a half and the other one for close to a decade, the second one i tough she was the one, i don't know your story, relationship history and all and i won't judge you or flame you not my style.
But i can tell you that social programming is very real, sometimes your relationship goes no where, but you still have hope its gonna change and get better while it gets worst.
You end up hurting, while she leaves you not caring about how you feel, not giving a slight fukkk about how you are, telling you in that 9y she never really loved you, and you lose your house and everything you worked for all theses 9y, because that selfish bytch found her soul mate.
Not convince well look around you how many people are divorced separated, go into the online dating and see for yourself, how many single moms there are. The world is going to ****t and women are the new men, they are careless, selfish, self centered and will cheat on you, even if you think they are faithful.
I have been true so much in my life and now i am very tired, i gave so much to receive nothing in return.
That i agree with everything Poon King says.
Yes my fault i made mistake, now for the future be sure no to repeat them.