If you can get one, you can get 90% of them

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Not sure if you notice the same, in my experience once you have enough value to attract the average woman, you can now have 90% of them except the real top tier or the ones with a particular niche of taste.

Basically the average woman nowadays have demands when it comes of men that almost match entirely the ones from upper tier ones traditionally had.

20 years ago decent looks slightly above average, an average paying stable job and an average life style with slightly above average social skills were enough to get you an average woman early enough even tough you were not the men she dreamed about.

Nowadays if you aim at the 18-26 demographics you have to be way above average wheter it's looks, social position or life style/social skills....but again once you reach that point and you can get a plain jane, you also qualify to low range hotties.

So given this situation we have guys that are welcomed in the hot club to bang girls with no need to get serious only to pick one later on when the desire to settle down kicks in.

At the same time we have the majority of average girl either perpetually single/in a rotation or getting old and becoming invisible to men altogether for marriage.

We also have the majority of guys that are cut out from most of the sexing and relationing before a certain age range is reached.

We basically have no incentive to be serious at all or invest in a woman for the simple fact that if we can get one, we reached the minimum threeshold to have an abundance of them.
 

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Yeah thats what I've found as well. It's not really harder to get good lookers. Just different. And then if you dont practice with ugos then they become the hard ones to get instead of the hot chicks.
 

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I agree. I'm a virgin-incel, but I feel I can attract the bleep out of women *if* they were willing to get to know me.
 

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Not sure if you notice the same, in my experience once you have enough value to attract the average woman, you can now have 90% of them except the real top tier or the ones with a particular niche of taste.

Basically the average woman nowadays have demands when it comes of men that almost match entirely the ones from upper tier ones traditionally had.

20 years ago decent looks slightly above average, an average paying stable job and an average life style with slightly above average social skills were enough to get you an average woman early enough even tough you were not the men she dreamed about.

Nowadays if you aim at the 18-26 demographics you have to be way above average wheter it's looks, social position or life style/social skills....but again once you reach that point and you can get a plain jane, you also qualify to low range hotties.

So given this situation we have guys that are welcomed in the hot club to bang girls with no need to get serious only to pick one later on when the desire to settle down kicks in.

At the same time we have the majority of average girl either perpetually single/in a rotation or getting old and becoming invisible to men altogether for marriage.

We also have the majority of guys that are cut out from most of the sexing and relationing before a certain age range is reached.

We basically have no incentive to be serious at all or invest in a woman for the simple fact that if we can get one, we reached the minimum threeshold to have an abundance of them.
This is what i am trying to get across when I say "I am a chick magnet" IF I'm feeling good.

Not to humblebrag or be arrogant, just me noticing it when woman after woman after woman does something "out of the ordinary" to get close to me.

Most men simply lack that....touch. that energy that's mandatory to firstly get, and secondly maintain attraction. But If a man does have it, you can tell he gets it almost on demand.

I also agree that it doesn't matter anymore whether she's a 5 or a 9. Sounds crazy stupid. But that's why this thread is special and unique. This isn't something everyone will understand.

Here where most of us "go wrong ". We want it ALL. We want confirmation from all (kinda) women. While you can and should ride on the attention from at least just one . The trick is to leverage this and be sharp enough to notice AND ballsy enough to approach/close others. And hey, yii gut the time/skill/money to juggle 5 women simultaneously?

I grew up with a notorious player who was 7 years my senior when i was ariund 16,17 . I always found it "odd" how his baby momma was a ...hb6 manybe evenb5, BUT soon as he left the house he got hb7 and up ,just for fun and games and pride. He practiced this before the internet was a thing!)

Bottomline: IF you are able to get one, try try try to get the others as they will also feel like " there is something about you ". That's when game comes in handy: so you can deliberately manipulate that "something ".
 
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It aint any different from any other " skill " in life. Once you qualify to lets say be a dentist in the States, you'll most likely qualify to be one in Sweden.

However, if you don't qualify...no other dentist in the world will wanna hire you.
 
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