If you are trying to get that particular girl then this may be of some help

[Sammo]

Some people around here seem to be getting the wrong idea, in this thread i will be answering the following questions:

Does she like me?

How do i get her?

She's alot younger then me, should i still fcuk her?

Is she mad at me?

etc, etc, etc, You know all the questions, those questions that are just getting repetitive as **** and i think it's time to stop them, so next time you see a pointless post such as those direct them here and together we can produce more DJ's then ever before.

Anyway, there are 2 solutions to all of these problems,

1. Forget about it, she's not worth your time, its stupid, your not in love, shes in highschool and an attention *****, gi, there are MUCH MORE IMPORTANT THINGS IN LIFE.

Now when people post these questions they always seem to get that answer, well it is the best solution but as humans thats not what were going to do.

So solution number 2.

2. Go on your gut instinct. Who cares what you do, JUST DO SOMETHING. You might fall in love and become incredibly depressed as a result but its all a part of being human. Once you have gone with your instinct then chances are you would of ****ed things over pretty hard so you have to learn from your mistake. You know the real trick to getting all this seduction stuff (and pretty much anything) down is to take advantage of the NATURAL WAY TO LEARN. To learn not to fall in love with chicks and call them every night you first have to EXPERIENCE what being shut down is like. You learn and you will stick by the rules because you can remember what happened when you DIDNT use the rules.

Go out there and **** yourself over because its the best and most productive way to learn.

Learn from your mistakes.. write them down somewhere and then figure out what you could have done better.

 

[blienk]

Good post. Lots of people here seem to think that being a DJ means following a specific set of rules in all situations. This could not be further from the truth. Being a DJ means BEING YOUR OWN MAN and MAKING YOUR OWN DECISIONS.

 

[Sax God]

This should clear up a lot of space in the forums. Thanks, Sammo!

 

[imnexthere]

Good call Sammo. Since when do people to the smart thing even when they know its right.

 

[WangThang]

haha love this post I just recently realized what you said in this post myself.

 

[LikRetsam]

Sammo. I understand the need for this post, but elaborate further. In it's current state, albeit true, it is not convincing to the people asking those questions.

Concentrating on one chick and caring about her more then the others is counter-productive to you. She seems special so just keep your normal game face on. Don't change your ways just because you've found her to be special. Treat all the girls the same so she doesn't feel special. Once she knows you're into her, more often then not it will end badly.

I know how absurd it sounds to stop thinking "Does she like me?" and start thinking "Do I like her?" I've been there. At first it was dumb and out of my reach. Today, I apply that naturally and can tell you that it is the only way to get the chicks. When you don't care if they like you or not your game flows better because you don't have all these backthoughts.

You gotta stop thinking about satisfying the other person. Satisfy yourself and that will satisfy others! An example?
When my girl and I french, I always started out slow and regularly moved my tongue deeper and deeper in. I thought this felt better to her so I kept with it. 1 Day I said "**** it, I don't like it I'm going all out" I let my tongue go wild and to my surprise so did she. Needless to say what happened afterwards ^_^ .

You will attract more women when you don't care wether you are attracting women or not - Pook

From experience, this is true. Concentrating on 1 chick will just set you up from heartbreak. You gotta be all that YOU can be. You gotta be happy without them chicks. Thinking that you want that chick will take you away from yourself and you'll start worrying about your actions round her and you'll start trying to please her. This is bad. Not because the bible says so. Not because I or anyone else says so but because it is the way nature is.

Ofcourse you can start "liking" a chick but at the point you gotta be working the "I want you but I don't need you" attitude. When you know you don't need her and you can simply walk away you are free in your actions and then you will score the chick. You'll still be pleasing yourself.

Only experience will tell you wether these words are true or not.

Always act. Live without regret, seriously. When that little voice tells you not to do it, DO IT! Wether it's saying hi to a teacher in the hall or making a negative comment on a chick. DO IT. Who cares!?!? Just go ahead. Afraid of what people will think after your friends dare you? WHO CARES?!

Morpheus:
And if I am wrong, then tomorrow we may be dead. But how would that differ from any other day?

You are going to die one day. It is that simple. When you are dead, it will all be over. Now on that day, knowing you would die, would you be fearful of your actions or people's opinions? NO! Why? because it is all about to end for you and it doesn't matter!
Treat every day like this day. I'm not saying go out and be a complete jack ass every day, I'm saying whenever that voice comes, think this is your last day and act accordingly.

Lik