Originally posted by RedKnight04
Actually I have a question for all of you on this subject..
Have any of you ever been rejected by a girl because she thought you WERE in fact a gigalo?
I think I have but I don't think we had enough interaction for me to notice that she was even slightly interested.
However tonight, I just got back from a date with the woman that I had earlier posted about. She thought that I was a player for some reason. The cool thing is that she told me why she thought I was a player.
Get this, she said that from the couple of emails that we exchanged, she felt that I understood her at such an intimate level that it felt scary to her. The only way she could understand that a guy could do that is if he had some special power, not really like a player but something different. I asked
"Like a Don Juan?" she said
"EXACTLY!!!"
So I just made sure that she felt that whatever I said was genuine. It worked, she's projected helping me cook dinner in my new house that won't be ready until June! A woman projecting you doing things together in the future is a definite sign of a high IL.
Well in a nutshell, I've learned that I must meter my DJ skills on initial approaches. Some women can become concerned about such a quick feeling of familiarity between one another. Play it cool until you can gain a bit more intimate insight with one another while in person.
Anyway, it was an interesting date. We're going to get together again in a few days. The good thing about it is that this one so far meets the majority of my qualifications. Plus she's a hottie that rides a horse, that skill has got to transfer into other areas (I hope).