NickBe said:
Doing what Vulpine suggests makes you look like a maniac and thats never good. Sure her call is cause for annoyance but don't be over the top.
Maniac?
Close, but too verbose: Man.
She calls for some bullsh¡t, you bust her, she has a little 1/2 hour drive to sweat it out/think about it/call back to apologize/wonder why you aren't answering the phone/sweat harder, then you let her off the hook a half hour later.
It's called "the emotional rollercoaster". Also, it's a push/pull: she calls, you push, you call back later, you pull.
And, you have to assume that this was a late night call, which adds to the :cuss:.
The drama will surely keep her awake: mission accomplished, you don't have to jibber-jab on the phone, she won't bother with triffling in the future, attraction built.
Read the DJ Bible, NickBe.
AFC's are well adjusted guys, DJ's are, by definition, sociopaths because we don't conform to the feminized societal expectations.
I could see how you would think that is maniacal.
Go ahead, blame the man, justify the woman's ridiculous behavior, hell - encourage it! Instead of holding her accountable for staying too late at the "friend's", not stopping and getting a frosty beverage, taking a no-doze, sticking her head out the window, stopping and doing some jumping-jacks, cranking the music and screaming... let her know it's ok to call up a toolbag AFC and have him take a late-night earful of emotional diarrhea for her entertainment.
Don't call me late at night unless your car broke down, b¡tch, have some respect!