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SamTheHobit

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MrNiceGuy23 said:
This is false. Saying once a woman cheats she is going to cheat on any and every man is an unjust statement to make on the woman's character. I'm guessing you've been cheated on?

I have never been cheated nor have I cheated on a woman. To say that a woman will always cheat if she's done it once is just stupid.

You're on a website forum looking for tips on how to be a "ladies' man" basically and part of that involves spinning plates or being with multiple women at the same time. Does this mean when/if you get married you are going to keep talking to multiple women at the same time to keep your options open? I'd hope not.

People make mistakes, granted there are some women who are just sluts and will sleep with any man regardless of what their boyfriend / husband does, but that's not true for most women. I like to see the glass half full.

Relationships can only last if both sides are happy, when one side isn't happy, they seek other outlets to provide that happiness. Although the method of going about it is morally wrong (cheating) it's usually a sign that something is wrong with relationship. Justifiably or not, she is not getting what she wants out of the relationship, so she seeks to fill those gaps with other men but does not feel comfortable enough dumping her current completely.

There's also the one night stand mistake that shouldn't have happened scenario. I don't excuse the behavior but we are all human, so we all make mistakes. If you're dating somebody for a very long time and they happen to cheat on you one night with one other guy, it doesn't mean they're happy about it or don't love you anymore. If the woman acknowledges it was a mistake and never should have happened / never will happen again, you can choose to absolve her for the one sin / mistake she made in all the years of the relationship, considering all the things she did right.

One mistake is not grounds to end a LTR in my book.
Spew your rubbish ideas elswere.
 

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remotecontrol said:
this clip is hilarious..but it looks fake...I dunno...however sure..its what id expect from a complete sucker and a woman.

This is what I mean...men are their own worst enemy..they put sex on such a high pedistle that it turns women in to the boss. AND RARELY WILL YOU GET A BENEVOLENT BOSS.

You shouldn't even need educating to this...but even if this whole clip is a bunch of actors..it portrays reality.

this is the so called nice guy...he is in fact a complete fvcking cvnt but is the only one who cant see it...bring your sons up to be good men..not fvcking a55h0les who worship sex...they end up like the winy cvnt in the video...i cant blame his ho of a wife for cheating...I blame her for using this chump in the first place however...but i blame the chump even more...cos mostly he fvcked himself more than she ever could do. "please stay"

Only a woman can disrespect a man, so bad, by cheating on him, its the biggest insult you can pull on anyone...then when he finds out instead of throwing her in the garbage, where she belongs..he begs her to stay...people on this site who get messed about by women..need to get the message loud and clear...
WOMEN DO NOT RUIN YOUR LIFE...YOU DO.
Guys who kiss women's 455es get treated like 5h17 because you are not supposed to kiss anyone's 455 in life...not you best friends, bosses or your heroes....so you definatley do not kiss the 455 off someone who has disrespected you and in the worst way.
And its a vicious circle k155 a woman's ass, because you "got lucky" to snag her in the first place... continually tell her how great she fvkcing is...do everything to please her big fat and expanding ego...until she fvcking hates your wimpy guts. this is how the dynamic works..show me a misogynist
and ill show you a fvking "mr nice guy" who only b17che5 about women because he allows them to treat him like 5h17.
If these fools, got a grip, and quit the fvcking pathetic desperation routine...they would find women to be a lot easier to come by..and a lot easier to keep.
the thing that constantly confuses me is why do women like this even FALL for guys like this guy? the dorky whiny guy, not the Osama Bin Laden wannabe with dreads. they run around screaming their lungs out how they want a "real man" yet they choose to date and marry these sissies??? she said the sex sucked, well unless they didn't have sex before getting married then she should have known he couldn't perform up to her standards the first time they knocked boots, right? then why continue dating him? why marry him? i know i'm throwing logic into this whole thing and giving rational thought and we all know that has no place when women are concerned, but it begs the question.
 
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Robert28 said:
the thing that constantly confuses me is why do women like this even FALL for guys like this guy? the dorky whiny guy, not the Osama Bin Laden wannabe with dreads. they run around screaming their lungs out how they want a "real man" yet they choose to date and marry these sissies??? she said the sex sucked, well unless they didn't have sex before getting married then she should have known he couldn't perform up to her standards the first time they knocked boots, right? then why continue dating him? why marry him? i know i'm throwing logic into this whole thing and giving rational thought and we all know that has no place when women are concerned, but it begs the question.
He comes from a rich family, there's no other explanation. She saw a spineless wonder from a rich family who she could easily control and use. But I think she underestimated how annoying he would be LOL Either that or he had something resembling balls when they first met and now he's so p-whipped he doesn't know if he's coming or going.
 

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It's not a pvssy mindset at all. I don't think it's acceptable behavior at all, but to say a woman is always a slut because she cheats once is heresy.

Guys on here are trying to be DJs and get with multiple girl at the same time. Does that mean this guy is a douche and will always act this way? No it does not. We all go through phases in life as we grow into maturity.

If a girl, or guy, cheats on a partner once, they are not a bad partner. Sh1t happens! People make mistakes, nobody is perfect. There are a million factors that could go into somebody doing something like that.

I think it's way more unacceptable in marriage to cheat than just dating. Marriage is supposed to be between two people who want to stay together forever so they have no reason to cheat (supposedly) but when you're dating, you're constantly looking for better options and trading up. Sometimes to ensure your spot with the new woman or man, you have to do something you know is wrong when you're in a relationship, but hey if it helps you in the future why not do it?

You guys are all too butthurt from women hurting you in the past, nobody is perfect.
 
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MrNiceGuy23 said:
It's not a pvssy mindset at all. I don't think it's acceptable behavior at all, but to say a woman is always a slut because she cheats once is heresy.

Guys on here are trying to be DJs and get with multiple girl at the same time. Does that mean this guy is a douche and will always act this way? No it does not. We all go through phases in life as we grow into maturity.

If a girl, or guy, cheats on a partner once, they are not a bad partner. Sh1t happens! People make mistakes, nobody is perfect. There are a million factors that could go into somebody doing something like that.

I think it's way more unacceptable in marriage to cheat than just dating. Marriage is supposed to be between two people who want to stay together forever so they have no reason to cheat (supposedly) but when you're dating, you're constantly looking for better options and trading up. Sometimes to ensure your spot with the new woman or man, you have to do something you know is wrong when you're in a relationship, but hey if it helps you in the future why not do it?

You guys are all too butthurt from women hurting you in the past, nobody is perfect.
Guys who have been with multiple women are studs, women who've been with multiple men are slvts. I didn't make the rules, just telling you what they are.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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CasanovaFrankenstein said:
Guys who have been with multiple women are studs, women who've been with multiple men are slvts. I didn't make the rules, just telling you what they are.
think of it like this. a key that can open a bunch of different locks is called a "master key". a lock that gets opened by many different keys, well that's a pretty sh!tty and useless lock.
 

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That video looked very fake and setup to me, but point taken on what they were trying to display.
 
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