SharinganUser said:
Sluts are sluts. They'll cheat regardless of how well you satisfy them.
This is false. Saying once a woman cheats she is going to cheat on any and every man is an unjust statement to make on the woman's character. I'm guessing you've been cheated on?
I have never been cheated nor have I cheated on a woman. To say that a woman will always cheat if she's done it once is just stupid.
You're on a website forum looking for tips on how to be a "ladies' man" basically and part of that involves spinning plates or being with multiple women at the same time. Does this mean when/if you get married you are going to keep talking to multiple women at the same time to keep your options open? I'd hope not.
People make mistakes, granted there are some women who are just sluts and will sleep with any man regardless of what their boyfriend / husband does, but that's not true for most women. I like to see the glass half full.
Relationships can only last if both sides are happy, when one side isn't happy, they seek other outlets to provide that happiness. Although the method of going about it is morally wrong (cheating) it's usually a sign that something is wrong with relationship. Justifiably or not, she is not getting what she wants out of the relationship, so she seeks to fill those gaps with other men but does not feel comfortable enough dumping her current completely.
There's also the one night stand mistake that shouldn't have happened scenario. I don't excuse the behavior but we are all human, so we all make mistakes. If you're dating somebody for a very long time and they happen to cheat on you one night with one other guy, it doesn't mean they're happy about it or don't love you anymore. If the woman acknowledges it was a mistake and never should have happened / never will happen again, you can choose to absolve her for the one sin / mistake she made in all the years of the relationship, considering all the things she did right.
One mistake is not grounds to end a LTR in my book.