If men only want cute and hot women....

[Rollo Tomassi]

66% of the American population is Overweight, with 33% being "Morbidly Obese".

That takes at least 66% of women out of the 'attractive' column. Of that remaining 34% I'd reckon a third of them you'd actually rate as an HB 7 or higher. So maybe 11% are women you'd want to get after it with?

Um, why would a man prefer 'chubby' women?

Because the 'thickys' try harder.

Seriously though, a "fetish" for fat women is just another Buffer guys use against rejection. If fat women are the only women to consistently put out for a guy with a minimal effort and a minimal risk of personal rejection, he develops a "preference" for fatties. Ever wonder why there aren't any dating sites that cater to fit, attractive women with a "fetish" for BBM (Big Beautiful Men)? Because there aren't any HB 7+ Chubby Chasing women!

 

[devils3777]

66% of the American population is Overweight, with 33% being "Morbidly Obese".

That takes at least 66% of women out of the 'attractive' column. Of that remaining 34% I'd reckon a third of them you'd actually rate as an HB 7 or higher. So maybe 11% are women you'd want to get after it with?


Because the 'thickys' try harder.

Seriously though, a "fetish" for fat women is just another Buffer guys use against rejection. If fat women are the only women to consistently put out for a guy with a minimal effort and a minimal risk of personal rejection, he develops a "preference" for fatties. Ever wonder why there aren't any dating sites that cater to fit, attractive women with a "fetish" for BBM (Big Beautiful Men)? Because there aren't any HB 7+ Chubby Chasing women!

Your logic is flawed in two ways as I see it.

A.) These overweight and obese stats are according to the BMI. We all know the BMI is flawed because it doesn't take into account a person being big boned or having alot of muscle.

B.) My cousin is probably 10-20 lbs overweight, but she has a beautiful face and still very good-looking.

C.) Most of the women in their 20's and early 30's are in relatively good physical shape. Maybe only 1 in 4 in this age range look out of shape.

D.) From what I have seen with my own eyes, the majority of fat asses in this country are women and men aged 35-60, NOT 21-34.

In your defense, your rating system could just be completely different. I have seen guys on this board calling smoking hot women on here 6's and 7's.

IMHO, if a girl is atleast somewhat cute, she is ALREADY above a 5 and into the 6 department. THis could be the main reason I think there are alot more attractive women out there than you do.

 

[speakeasy]

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This is a thick woman

http://www.tightbodyhotties.com/Daily%20Archive/Archive%20Images/Archive5/Kimberly%20Franklin.jpg

I don't think she's thick at all, to me that's just average. A girl should be thick in the hips and theighs with a flat stomach. That chic's hip-to-waist ratio is about a .9 which means that if she didn't have those boobs, she'd look like a man from the neck down.

 

[forward]

Originally posted by Master Bates
"Chubby" women have hardly been the ideal for the majority of time throughout humanity. I'd love to see how you came to the conclusion that we're "naturally inclined" to prefer chubby women over fit women. If anything, we're naturally inclined to be most attracted to women with a body that reflect's good health. You're just a chubby chaser with a fat fetish. Sorry bro.

You're putting a lot of words in my mouth here. I did not say that "Chubby" women have been the ideal for the majority of time throughout humanity. I said "in some centuries and cultures past. Keyword: SOME!! Far from: MAJORITY!!

I also never said that I "came to the conclusion" that we're (as in all of us) "naturally inclined" to prefer chubby women. I said that nature trumps society, which in NO WAY indicates that all our natures are identical.

And that's the problem I'm having with most of the other responses which I won't address directly. I'm detecting the assumption that most of you believe that all of our natures are identical. This is not the case. While there are some common traits and generalities that can be considered "human nature", this nature is a wide spectrum.

Now, it makes sense that we would be attracted to health. But take this one girl who's driving me wild sexually... she seems healthy as can be. She eats healthier than I do (no fast food, all home-cooked meat & vegetables, etc), rarely drinks alcohol, exercises frequently.... she's just naturally "chubby". No, her ass does not have lumps in it, as someone suggested. Rather, it is simply large, round, soft, and fills me with desire. Same for her boobs, belly, thighs, etc.

I love voluptuous women. No, this is not because they show me more attention. I've gotten plenty of attention from modern "traditional hotties". Fat fetish? I'm attracted to WOMEN! Attraction to women is a fetish? I'm not attracted to mere fat alone. And there are plenty of fat women who do nothing for me. A preference for women of a certain natural physique is now a fetish?

Anyways, don't really care if I have an "Official SoSuave Label" of a Fat Fetishist with a Psychologically Impaired Sexual Preference due to past and possibly current AFC Buffers. Because bottom line, I'm having a blast nailing my chubbies, find them just as challenging as your "fit hotties", and am loving life. However, I felt it necessary to post this rant as I feel some of you are quite close-minded on this matter, and thought maybe I could help be of some insight.

If you need to measure your girl's BMI before you can get a boner, be my guest. But at least during the sexual act you must abandon scrutiny to touching and squeezing and kissing and licking and other delights. For all women are unattractive under the microscope.

This forum has been great for me, but I dislike the tendency towards "The One True Way to Attract and Hold" the "One Singular Type of Attractive Woman".

Best wishes to all.