If human beings need intimacy, then how can one not be desperate.

[Strelok]

Yes.

I don't think you realize how little I care for others well being. Even the people that are supposed to be "closest" to me. I don't need to get into detail of my past, but my father was out of my life at a very young age, and my mother was/is a crazy psychotic borderline b!tch that kicked me out at the age of 16. I'm not trying to get a sympathy award, but if you want to try and connect the dots as to why I am the way I am as most people do, then by all means, do so.

Sociopaths are not always bad people. I'm not saying I agree with what they are as a whole, but some of their traits will help you succeed. Not only in the business, and society world, but also in seduction.

The seduction is all about manipulation, am I wrong? Think about all these stupid gimmicks you learn, the dvds you buy, the books you order, what do they all entail? They teach you how to manipulate women in your favor. They literally teach you how to be a sociopath.

I just find this whole thing kind of humorous. If manipulation is so far off your moral compass then maybe you shouldn't be on a seduction/dating website.




So was Hitler.

-Scars

Most of the men responsible for the modern world were sociopaths, Hannibal, Caesar,Napoleon,the two you guys named and many more.

Would a "normal" man take all those risks just to prove himself and to others how great he is? would a normal man be so greedy and uncaring about the conseguences for others and the risk for his own life?
Would a normal man have no problem to destroy the status quo and rebuild it they way he wants?

Read any psychology essay about sociopaths and you will find that they make the bigger share of heroes during civil wars or struggles.
Most of them dont fit in modern society mostly because they dont accept rules and limits while others as said find a way to leglaly disobey to those rules and become ceos and politicians.

Sociopaths are those in the extremities, they are either the majority of people in jail or the majority of the people who rule when the normal man are mostly in the middle.

 

[perseverance]

So was Hitler.

-Scars

I'd say Adolf Hitler was anything but successful, he was an abject failure.

Sociopaths might be successful in the business world, but I doubt many of them are happy souls behind closed doors. In fact I'd imagine most of those people sleep alone at night, crying themselves to sleep. Or they're sleeping with a woman they can't stand and whose feelings are mutual.

Give me the love of a woman for the rest of my life over a million smackers anyday of the week or failing that a life time skydiving pass over a million smackers anyday of the week, I'm not fussy.

 

[DonGorgon]

desperation is natural when you cant get what you want or need.. then its up to you on how to deal with it.. many try to artificially lower their desire for the things they can get and other with divert their requirements to something more attainable.. and others will adjust themselves to increase their ability to obtain thee things

desperation saps energy and have negative side effects so it is essential to reduce it as soon as possible..