If a woman gives you a bull**** excuse for not going out...

[squirrels]

...is there a good way to respond where you might recover, or does it mean she's pretty much not interested?

Usually when that happens I just say "OK", hang up, and never call her again. But this happens often with girls I thought I vibed with. Am I missing something here? Is this some kind of a test? Or am I doing the right thing by just cutting bait and moving on?

 

[Jariel]

If I think they are lying to me I won't even address their excuse, because that would make me look gullible for buying it, letting them know they can keep pulling this sh1t.

I usually do the same as you and leave it upto them to make the next date. Usually they do, but sometimes I never hear from them again and I just assume they weren't interested.

 

[Oxide]

I learned this from a good friend on mine.

a girl gives you an excuse.. then goes "is that ok, or are you mad?

Reply "Yeah, im not happy, i was really looking forward to hanging out with you.."

If she isnt sure whethever to hang out with you, and then you just reply coldly "that's fine" it will be easier for her to forget you. If you tell her you actually DO WANT to hang out with her quite a bit, she might change her mind.


I do the 2 call thing as well, but let's be honest, it's always a b1tch to next girls you thought were digging you after 2 calls.

 

[NewMan]

It's not happened to me in a long while.

But what about this....

Get straight to the point.

BS excuse.... Then...

Her:- "Sorry can't make it, I'm washing my hair"
You:- "If your trying to brush me off, that's cool. I'd just rather you tell me that you don't want to go out, than throw me an excuse like that. I'm a big boy, I promise I will not cry. It just saves me another phone call - and I can keep the day open for the next honey"


confident - and worldly wise.