ok, I can relate.
Personally I just got thru nexting a damn hot chick for pulling the make a date break a date routine. If the first time they suddenly, just can't make it cuz there aunt flo just died and they need to go to the funeral...I can be understanding as long as it is not a BS excuse obvioulsy. But the next time her aunt Flo dies again the next week? LMAO!!! NEXT!!! But there is a way to do that .
I really think that most of the time if you have to next a gal, it is because its something that was in there control, and they screwed up....
Occasionally, one will screw up with me, realize it.. ( when she doesn't get another chance) and then pay for it. That is a GOOD thing. it doesn't happen all the time, but occasionally, the IL can go from 50 to nearly 100% all because of the way you took no BS, and you nexted her azz! To put it another way... If you were fvcking off on the job not taking it seriously, and the boss fired you..you'd go dang! OUCH! What was I thinking! I really wanted that job!!! Then if because of some technicality, they had to hire you back, but you were on probation, would you continue to fvck off, or would you take it more seriously this time? You bet your azz, you'd be on time, one of the best workers etc. And knowing the boss took no shyt from you the first time, you know he'll fire your azz again..and permanently in a NY Minute! So you take it all a little more seriously....Principle: "People take for granted that which they already have, but that which they are in danger of losing they will value." So if ya like her, be hot and cold. Anytime she seems to be getting a little too confident, back way off. avoid her if you have to for a few days. Then maybe respond a little like you have very limited intentions, she'll try to win you over and be very interested...let out a little more line, then reeel in a little, so forth and so forth.one of three things will happen You'll either get some good practice, or you'll get tired of it and blow her off, or she will be yours for the taking if you want. all up to you.. Might help you to hone a few skills no matter what. Just don't give up any other chicks you are chasing to do this...view her as entertainment, to a point.
