Ideas for grocery store opening please

[DonJuanjr]

Cats.. Also for guys that have zero social hang ups, women will confuse normal affability with flirting. So annoying.

I was small talking a woman at the grocery store a couple weeks ago. We were in the craft beer section. I suggested a certain one. She just had to throw in the "I'm just finding some for my husband". Had to let it be known. I was thinking "*****, I wasn't interested in you anyways. You don't have to put up husband roadblocks. I was just suggesting this stout." You could tell the way she said it, she assumed I was talking to her to hit on her.

 

[2Rocky]

Great advice, for wherever you are, not just grocery stores.

Smalltalk convos should not even be done with the intention of landing a date or her number. Women will pick up on that 'PUA' strategy and put up all sorts of defensive shields.

Be natural, comfortable with yourself, make it fun!

You must be reading my mind.....

Interested women make it easy to talk to them...

My most memorable was the 30 year old at Costco who was boxing my groceries and telling me her kids were with friends for the rest of the afternoon and she was going to get off work in 15 minutes....and then my wife (at the time) walked up next to me...

Or maybe the cute chick with a 4 year old in the cart, when the 4 year old shouted to me from halfway down the aisle "I like your boots!" I'm pretty sure she coached her to say that...

Or the Mexican lady checking out behind me who I struck up a convo with, walked out together and kissed me and gave me her number before we parted.


I've gotten the "I'm taken" response from women as well. I'm the blue...

 

[MatureDJ]

You could use Otter's PU line:

 

[MatureDJ]

I was small talking a woman at the grocery store a couple weeks ago. We were in the craft beer section. I suggested a certain one. She just had to throw in the "I'm just finding some for my husband". Had to let it be known.

This is well-known c0ck-blocking behavior, regardless of whether or not she has a boyfriend/husband. I can remember an instance in college where a woman (she was a bit chunky) basically started talking to me, asking about a bus or something, and then continuing to talk to me, and then bringing up the boyfriend line. I'm like, did you really I think was interested in the first place?

 

[LucianoM]

Anyone who approaches girls in grocery stores needs to be shot in the face.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Awesome thanks guys. Lots of gold information here

 

[BillyPilgrim]

When she is looking at a certain product say "hmm I wouldn't get that if I were you..." then when she asks why, you give her the most random reason. I typically say "Very few people know this, but Hitler actually had a son, his son and his family are the founders of that product...".

She will obviously know you're joking, then take it from there.


Modern Man Advice

Hitler?? Idk man, I think we should go with Dahmer instead.

Srs though, I like the beginning "I wouldn't get that". I'm going to rack my brain and see if I can come up with something to follow that.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Hitler?? Idk man, I think we should go with Dahmer instead.

Srs though, I like the beginning "I wouldn't get that". I'm going to rack my brain and see if I can come up with something to follow that.

"I wouldn't get that"
"Why?"
"I've read studies that it makes a small percentage of women obsessive over guys named BillyPilgrim"

 

[f(x)]

I.

You could pick one store, go there regularly and build rapport with the cashiers and clerks.

Go at different times to see which type of customer shops when. Bonus point if it’s in A SHOPPING CENTER WITH A GYM or next to a college campus. Then pick the day/time that is best for you to buy groceries+approach.

II.

Go to multiple stores away from your neighborhood where you probably won’t be noticed and practice approaches there.

Make sure you are actually a customer while doing this and not just walking around asking women for their phone number.

You can probably stay as long as you like with just $10.00 in your pocket.

You don’t really need any fancy openers, just keep things light and brief.

Be sure to make eye contact and smile a little, but don’t overdo it. Don’t approach from behind.

When in the meat department: “This place is a real meat market, huh?”

The beer/wine section is also recommended.