Ideas for building a social circle?
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Papa_smu
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Dancing classes are good
Yoga classes are even better
Yoga classes are even better
Glad you have the common knowledge to realize the social circle is key to meeting women. Bars and online dating do not work generally.
Just to expand on what you said:
Meetup.com
Check out your local community college or County Park Systems for classes.
Just a word of advice, most classes at a community college (e.g basic Spanish) are through the adult education catalog (not full semester classes and last maybe 3 to 8 weeks (at most) with classes once a week
I took a basic drawing class through a county park system. Good class, but only met once a week for six sessions.
These environments are fun and conducive to learning, but you don't spend enough time with the people to really make a social connection.
Better idea: Take a full semester real class on a topic of interest.
Look into taking a class at night at a community college or university where you can audit the class (You do all the assignments and homework, but you don't get a grade) This will cost you $300 to $500 but you will be with college paying students. My basic French class was 3 months, two nights a week. I was 35 or 36 with a bunch of 19 to 22 year olds and there was one person older. I didn't make any new friends when I left, but it could work since you are with these people alot longer than a Continuing Ed. Class.
Another great one: Join a gym and take a intructor taught course (Hiit, Kickboxing, Yoga, Spin) Most of the participants are women.
Volunteer somewhere! (Park System, food bank)
Alumni events (alot of the same people go)
Good Luck!
Just to expand on what you said:
Meetup.com
Check out your local community college or County Park Systems for classes.
Just a word of advice, most classes at a community college (e.g basic Spanish) are through the adult education catalog (not full semester classes and last maybe 3 to 8 weeks (at most) with classes once a week
I took a basic drawing class through a county park system. Good class, but only met once a week for six sessions.
These environments are fun and conducive to learning, but you don't spend enough time with the people to really make a social connection.
Better idea: Take a full semester real class on a topic of interest.
Look into taking a class at night at a community college or university where you can audit the class (You do all the assignments and homework, but you don't get a grade) This will cost you $300 to $500 but you will be with college paying students. My basic French class was 3 months, two nights a week. I was 35 or 36 with a bunch of 19 to 22 year olds and there was one person older. I didn't make any new friends when I left, but it could work since you are with these people alot longer than a Continuing Ed. Class.
Another great one: Join a gym and take a intructor taught course (Hiit, Kickboxing, Yoga, Spin) Most of the participants are women.
Volunteer somewhere! (Park System, food bank)
Alumni events (alot of the same people go)
Good Luck!
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'common knowledge to realize the social circle is key' actually came from member stormrider in another post. He's written this before too.
I just needed more ideas on how to build these circles, thanks.
Happy and relaxed areas, genius.
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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No, no it's where most women I want to date hang out.
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Find something you enjoy doing and try to excel at it. You will continually make friends along the way.
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As a captain of the high school football team I got no ***** from it. You actually gotta get around girls and actually esculate and **** them.
Your better off spending all your time hitting up girls on the streets, at pubs and clubs, beaches shopping malls.
Spend 1-1.5 hours in the gym (home workout till futher notice), eat clean.
You need to focus on finding girls who are wanting to **** straight off the bat. Not spending time on girls who ain't even interested. Usually this is done through eye contact, keeping things fun, escualting, and then ****ing.
Your better off spending all your time hitting up girls on the streets, at pubs and clubs, beaches shopping malls.
Spend 1-1.5 hours in the gym (home workout till futher notice), eat clean.
You need to focus on finding girls who are wanting to **** straight off the bat. Not spending time on girls who ain't even interested. Usually this is done through eye contact, keeping things fun, escualting, and then ****ing.
I just remember my Dad saying he got a lot of dates being on a champion high school football team.
I agree, you pretty much just have to place yourself in places where there's abundance of choice.
When the opportunity arises, isolate and escalate.
If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Being conscious is very attractive and girls will want to be around you and not get some sort of social status on money or sum **** from you.
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