MascaraSnake
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I'm a music/theater nerd, and since that's my major, 90 percent of my friends are in that circle. Naturally, about three quarters of them are girls.
I do have crushes in the circle, but since it tends to be close-knit I put them all on the back-burner...would rather date strangers and avoid the "oooh, so-and-so's dating so-and-so" banter being directed at me. I'll pour alcohol into an open wound before I add unnecessary drama to my love life.
I'm just curious what the general perception is of a guy who flat out hangs around with the opposite sex that much. Gay? Pushover? Ladies' man? It does have its advantages (2 of my cuter choir mates approached me during a coffee date last time, it was great) but I'd hate to look like an AFC lapdog.
I do have crushes in the circle, but since it tends to be close-knit I put them all on the back-burner...would rather date strangers and avoid the "oooh, so-and-so's dating so-and-so" banter being directed at me. I'll pour alcohol into an open wound before I add unnecessary drama to my love life.
I'm just curious what the general perception is of a guy who flat out hangs around with the opposite sex that much. Gay? Pushover? Ladies' man? It does have its advantages (2 of my cuter choir mates approached me during a coffee date last time, it was great) but I'd hate to look like an AFC lapdog.