I would truly appreciate your responses...Need advice in the next 2 hours please..

GorillaPimp

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What's up...
As I said in the last post, my girlfriend just moved and I'm in a long distance relationship. In my current job, I meet different females every week and the week she left, I was working with this girl and we exchanged numbers under the pretense of buisness but she has been calling me. I've talked to her a few times and it seems like she giving me all her info but she has not yet asked me any questions which I find sort of weird but anyways I start thinking I don't want to mess up the relationship I have w/ my current girlfriend so I thought maybe if I just let her call but not call her maybe it would die. Trust me this is hard because this girl is cute, not as cute as my girl but cute....So, eventually she stopped calling and 2 wks went by and she called saying why are you being such a stranger....I told her I was busy but I would call her the next day....This is what I was going to say to her....What do you all think about this:

Hey Chick X...What's going on..

Chick X:...Working

Your the hardest working female I know...

Chick X: Yea, I have this event coming up, its getting real hectic..

You know what....The times we have talked you have never asked me any questions...like are you dating anyone or where do you live...

Chick X: Ok....Do you have a girlfriend...

Well...I do have someone I am dating...



I was thinking about bring it up in this manner...What do you all think about this?
 

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Dude dont ask her to ask you who your dating only to reply that you have a girlfriend.

Keep your girl on the low low aiight.

Your the man, you need to take action. Dont beat around the bush. Heres the scanerio..

You -Hey whats up?
Chick - Not much, working.
You- Oh really? Damn your working like a slave, dont you think you deserve a break?
Chick - hehe yeah of course, but things are hectic.
You - Well how about me and you get together sometime, maybe for lunch or some coffee?
Chick - Im busy, you sucks.
You- =(

Jk lol heres how the last part will go.

You - how about we get together?
Chick - Sure, id love that.
You - well whens the next time your free? Maybe our schedules will coincide and we can go get some coffee or lunch maybe.

Ok, i wouldnt expect her to ask personal questions over the phone, try and set up a date and get to know her better then, maybe she will open up. If not, screw the small talk, ask her to your house for drink, then bang her. If shes down for it of course..
 

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Thing is I do have interest in the girl but I do not want to ruin it w/ my current girlfriend...I want to be straight up...To be honest this girl is all I have ever wanted and I have dated alot of females...I want to make it clear I'm no AFC type cat I play the game to fullest and one of the rules is being honest....Either be monogomous or play the field...I've played the field for 5 years now I'm ready for another girlfriend which is the one I have now....Since I'm so use to playing the field I'm to get myself in the I have a girlfriend mode..
 
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dam Hipotency...this is bad bro. sympin in disquise as pimpin. I wish this site had space to post your pics like I have mine up at the other one...I just put up a new one for snooky who didn't believe I have 18 inch arms naturally.

Hope you get your game back....
 

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No disrespect, but what's the point of having a gf when she is not around?
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

THA REALNESS

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WTF R U DOING!????

Hell no don't do that r u crazy don't even bring that up and if she asks u lie ,Fucc her she wants u only live once ,i beleive in LTR's and gfs but not worth sacrficing ,How the hell will ur gf find out?And if the other finds out who cares!? You have a gf 2 think of!lol:D
 

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Your convo sounds fine, Gorilla. If the girl you have right now is a rare one, then don't do what you wouldn't want her to do. If she were a loser, then you could follow the player's rule of "who gives a fuk about her."

The above is different advice than what a player offers, but how many players do you know are satisfied with one good woman?

A main difference between a DJ and a player is the quality of girl he's got.
 

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It is a proven fact that most girls will use any little problem as an excuse to cheat

And a long distance relationship is a big F*cking problem.
I garuntee your girl will eventually mess up on you. maybe not get laid, but i bet if she is even a bit cute, she is getting hit on twenty times a day. there is probably some afc she met down there working the sensetive angle, listening to your girl pine on about YOUR problems with YOUR relationship. she will eventually stray. AREA CODE AMNESTY. don't count if your not in the same a c. even good girls cheat, hear it all the time here. its true

don't get played later on, only to regret not taking the chance with this other girl.
 
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