Abbott
Master Don Juan
Or perhaps the overpopulation problem becoming even worse? When I heard that the U.S. population is now 300 million I thought "Wow, that's too many."Scorched said:
"I would not be with her if she gave it up so easily"
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PRMoon
Master Don Juan
One of the girls I'm with right now and I had this discussion over breakfest. She thought it was kind of strange that I got her into bed on the first date and we're still dating. Ususually situations like that end up in ONS and the people don't usually make it too far after that. In fact it took her calling me later for a second date to even form. I'd gotten what I wanted so why were we still dating?
I told her having sex on the first date if more are to transpire is not necesarily a bad thing. Obviously the women has given up her main source of power over a man in the form of the elusive courting ritual. Typically guys will hit it and quit it even if the sex is good because there's no reason to persue. But at the same time you've gotten to know the girl intimately and If you're compatibale on that level, then there's alot of pressure taken off getting to know the person for the person. Obviusly You've already learned alot about her, how someone handles themself during sex tells a bit about the person's past and how they handle themselves. If you liked what went down then wanting to get to know the rest of the person shouldn't come as that much of a suprise. Obviously the ball is in your court because after having sex the girl will likely call you (if you were any good) and you have the option of either continuing to see them or not depending, and it's nice to have that option as opposed to the otherway around. That power will also continue to remain on yourside if you play the game correctly as well. And this is the case becasue we've been dating for a few months now and I really enjoy her for resons other then sex although that part is pleasing as well. And as a bonus, I started out the relationship with the power and have continued to do so from that point onward. It's like starting the dating process from a different point.
Conversely, I had sex with another girl on our first date a few nights back and she was a total wh*re. The way she counducted herself in bed was very unappeasing to me and when she calls me again I'm going to press the ignore button on my phone very quickly.
I told her having sex on the first date if more are to transpire is not necesarily a bad thing. Obviously the women has given up her main source of power over a man in the form of the elusive courting ritual. Typically guys will hit it and quit it even if the sex is good because there's no reason to persue. But at the same time you've gotten to know the girl intimately and If you're compatibale on that level, then there's alot of pressure taken off getting to know the person for the person. Obviusly You've already learned alot about her, how someone handles themself during sex tells a bit about the person's past and how they handle themselves. If you liked what went down then wanting to get to know the rest of the person shouldn't come as that much of a suprise. Obviously the ball is in your court because after having sex the girl will likely call you (if you were any good) and you have the option of either continuing to see them or not depending, and it's nice to have that option as opposed to the otherway around. That power will also continue to remain on yourside if you play the game correctly as well. And this is the case becasue we've been dating for a few months now and I really enjoy her for resons other then sex although that part is pleasing as well. And as a bonus, I started out the relationship with the power and have continued to do so from that point onward. It's like starting the dating process from a different point.
Conversely, I had sex with another girl on our first date a few nights back and she was a total wh*re. The way she counducted herself in bed was very unappeasing to me and when she calls me again I'm going to press the ignore button on my phone very quickly.
There is nothing wrong with either party sleeping with each other on the first date.
Sometimes these things happen simply due to circumstance and the right set of situations, to avoid it for some man made rules is pritty silly imo.
There is rules as posted but this are sociaty rules, there is also a rule that transends that and that is one of NATURE! And sometimes you cant help to let it take its course.
Now if people want to judge that is fine, I too would also prefer a women to wait for sex, but then again she may just be waiting for sex with YOU! and actually as slept with guys on meeting them for a few minutes, thus it proves nothing if she sleeps with you on the first date or not.
A far better indication of trust is how she is with you and other men, how much she is into you and how much self esteem and maturity she has. An attention who** can go many weeks without sex, but this does not make her a fitting GF, on the same scale a quality women can be sexed up with the right circumstances forming for you and for her that would not normally happen, which equals great sex.
So the rule is a stupid one not thought out and imo only people that have actually analyzed it or thought about it from there own ideals and not forced opinion can escape the riggures of basing assumptions on something that is all cases is simply NATURE.
So me personnally i would like a girl to wait as its ingrained, but in all fairness i also realize it is BS and if the right women came along and we have se* on the first meet, i would be a complete fool to let her go!
On the other hand if i was not into her anyway, i would still maybe try to get se* out of her and if she did NOT give it, i would simply not see her again, as it would be a waste of my time.
Which is catch twenty two, so to me its not about sexing and leaving on her, for a majority it is about simply guys wanting sex and nothing else, making excuses, simply due to i guranteee if the right women knocked on any guys door here and offered sex after a great date, none would dump her or if he did i would brand him a fool!
Its a nice ideal but it simply does not work and if it is a bases of your method, i would advice you give it a second thought, especcially if you meet a women who is so into you due to a connection, with that amplified through the right situations and circumstances led to sex, then no dumping her is not wise imo.
On the other hand if you meet a girl who syas she simply wants coc* then yes you have what some would consider a slu*, but then again it is doubtful she wants a relationship from YOU anway.
Also women enjoy sex shock horror, face it they do and some women actually persue something they enjoy so what? It is a pleasure and women enjoy it, so branding women slu* for seeking something out they enjoy is not really looking at the full picture, granted some do it other reasons, but there is no dispute WOMEN LOVE SEX, if you dont think so, then hey no sweat of my nose.
What is left then if you date her or not and i know 100% most guys AFC ofc would stick with a slu* who offers it to him, simply due to him not getting it from anywhere else as well as other factors!
Slu*s get BF too, trust me on this and the poor bastar*ds are none the wiser since a true slut women is a master at this game and will play you, so the sleeping thing, you may just have been played, whilst shes fuc*ing your best mate e.t.c So this rule can come back and bite you on the as*.
Sometimes these things happen simply due to circumstance and the right set of situations, to avoid it for some man made rules is pritty silly imo.
There is rules as posted but this are sociaty rules, there is also a rule that transends that and that is one of NATURE! And sometimes you cant help to let it take its course.
Now if people want to judge that is fine, I too would also prefer a women to wait for sex, but then again she may just be waiting for sex with YOU! and actually as slept with guys on meeting them for a few minutes, thus it proves nothing if she sleeps with you on the first date or not.
A far better indication of trust is how she is with you and other men, how much she is into you and how much self esteem and maturity she has. An attention who** can go many weeks without sex, but this does not make her a fitting GF, on the same scale a quality women can be sexed up with the right circumstances forming for you and for her that would not normally happen, which equals great sex.
So the rule is a stupid one not thought out and imo only people that have actually analyzed it or thought about it from there own ideals and not forced opinion can escape the riggures of basing assumptions on something that is all cases is simply NATURE.
So me personnally i would like a girl to wait as its ingrained, but in all fairness i also realize it is BS and if the right women came along and we have se* on the first meet, i would be a complete fool to let her go!
On the other hand if i was not into her anyway, i would still maybe try to get se* out of her and if she did NOT give it, i would simply not see her again, as it would be a waste of my time.
Which is catch twenty two, so to me its not about sexing and leaving on her, for a majority it is about simply guys wanting sex and nothing else, making excuses, simply due to i guranteee if the right women knocked on any guys door here and offered sex after a great date, none would dump her or if he did i would brand him a fool!
Its a nice ideal but it simply does not work and if it is a bases of your method, i would advice you give it a second thought, especcially if you meet a women who is so into you due to a connection, with that amplified through the right situations and circumstances led to sex, then no dumping her is not wise imo.
On the other hand if you meet a girl who syas she simply wants coc* then yes you have what some would consider a slu*, but then again it is doubtful she wants a relationship from YOU anway.
Also women enjoy sex shock horror, face it they do and some women actually persue something they enjoy so what? It is a pleasure and women enjoy it, so branding women slu* for seeking something out they enjoy is not really looking at the full picture, granted some do it other reasons, but there is no dispute WOMEN LOVE SEX, if you dont think so, then hey no sweat of my nose.
What is left then if you date her or not and i know 100% most guys AFC ofc would stick with a slu* who offers it to him, simply due to him not getting it from anywhere else as well as other factors!
Slu*s get BF too, trust me on this and the poor bastar*ds are none the wiser since a true slut women is a master at this game and will play you, so the sleeping thing, you may just have been played, whilst shes fuc*ing your best mate e.t.c So this rule can come back and bite you on the as*.