I was a pimp tonight!

[My Name is Nobody]

I'm not one to brag, but man I feel good tonight.

I was meeting a new girl for a drink and she was late. So I was sitting in the booth and I start macking on the HB waitress. I told the waitress I was waiting for a girl.

I talked to the waitress for about 20 minutes off and on. Finally I pulled out my phone and told her to put in her #.

She said "my bf wouldn't like that"

I said "I'm not asking your boyfriend out he can stay home"

She loved it! She said that was the best response she ever heard and then she put her # in my phone. Then my date showed up, LOL!

So I talked to my date for an hour and she needed a ride. I walked out and smiled at the waitress. I gave my date a ride and she asked ME out for Sunday.

Then, when I dopped off my date I called the waitress and told her I had to give that girl a ride home, but I really wanted to stay at the restaurant and talk to her. Calling so soon may not have been the right move, but I wanted to strike while the iron was hot. Plus I wanted the HB waitress to have my #.

Now this was a true DJ night for me. The only thing missing was a 3rd girl to meet up with, but that is coming tomorrow! I am meeting another new girl tomorrow that I cold approached at blockbuster, I already made a thread about that one.

 

[cedd]

I'm not one to brag, but man I feel good tonight.
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Gotta make a thread for every girl you meet ? :crazy:

You seems so surprised and enthousiastic about getting numbers...as if you had discovered that women didnt ever exist before...

cheers

 

[My Name is Somebody]

Gotta make a thread for every girl you meet ? :crazy:

You seems so surprised and enthousiastic about getting numbers...as if you had discovered that women didnt ever exist before...

cheers

It not even like that.

It's the fact I was waiting for a girl who I wasn't even sure is that interested. I thought I was going to get stood up to be honest with you.

Instead of staring at the ground like a loser, I kept my head up and started talking to the waitress.

My game has been elevated, from being a blubbering idiot around beautiful women, to engaging them in conversation, and getting her # through the boyfriend shield.

I don't brag about every woman I meet. But I don't think I have ever met a new woman, WHILE waiting for a new woman I just met to show up.

Does that make sense?

 

[DrD77]

i wouldn't have called that soon. when i read that it made you sound needy and desperate, not like a don juan would do. but, nonetheless, good job overall.

 

[My Name is Somebody]

i wouldn't have called that soon. when i read that it made you sound needy and desperate, not like a don juan would do. but, nonetheless, good job overall.

How was calling her needy? She saw me walk out with another woman and she saw me entertaining and making her laugh. This must have eliminated any conception of me being needy or AFC.

I think the DJ rule says there are 2 options; correct me if I am wrong.

1) Call Immediately, or 2) Call in a couple days.


I chose option 1 this time just for the hell of it. Because it felt good calling a new girl, after dropping off another new girl.

I'm not saying it was the right move, I acted on emotion instead of thought. For some reason I didn't want the waitress to think I was a scumbag for meeting a girl and hitting on her at the same time. I thought calling her immediately might alleviate some of the negative thoughts she could have.

Who knows what she thinks. All I know for sure is I feel bad for her boyfriend, because he's on the way out. She is branch swinging and I get the impression that all she has ever known are AFC's.

 

[My Name is Somebody]

Yes, you do make a post for every girl you meet. They are called Field Reports. You let people know what you did and people can analyze. Get with it son.

That's right. And I'll keep making reports because hearing other people's opinion is how you learn.

 

[DonJuan11]

So I talked to my date for an hour and she needed a ride. I walked out and smiled at the waitress. I gave my date a ride and she asked ME out for Sunday.

Did you kiss her at the end?

 

[My Name is Somebody]

Did you kiss her at the end?

I should have but this one was awkward. I will kiss her for sure Sunday.

 

[My Name is Somebody]

Good, keep making reports so people can read and learn.

It's true.. the best way to learn isn't from reading articles and stories. It's from experience whether it's your own or somebody else.

 

[ARrocket]

Dude, screw the new account, I like the old name!

 

[My Name is Somebody]

Dude, screw the new account, I like the old name!

10 post rule sucks.

 

[ARrocket]

10 post rule sucks.

True that, but don't do that

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...
Then, when I dopped off my date I called the waitress and told her I had to give that girl a ride home, but I really wanted to stay at the restaurant and talk to her. Calling so soon may not have been the right move, but I wanted to strike while the iron was hot. Plus I wanted the HB waitress to have my #....

Alright, explain how any of this would not have been the right thing to do?

1. Even though you couldn't get in touch with the girl to get a confirmation (which isn't necessary if she's interested), you showed up anyway. Good thing that you did.
2. You got to the venue early, made it your own space and chatted up the locals (the waitress) and #closed. Way to take noticing and taking advantage of the opportunities that many guys would pass up.
3. Even though your date wasn't remarkable, you spun up the girl's IL enough for her to ask for another date.
4. You didn't force escalations just for the sake of escalating (*close). Perhaps this is the reason she asked you for another date.
5. You immediately touched base with the waitress to let her know that you were interested in her, seemingly even more than the girl you were with. Think you boosted her IL a bit more than it was when you left?
6. You're learning the value of plate spinning and how level off one that could have been wobbly from the start.

Personally, this is how I typically operate with the same results. You said you were acting on emotion instead of thought. I'd challenge that because you had a sound reason for calling the waitress back immediately.

You're transitioning into a stage of learning called "unconscious competence." This is what a lot of guys call naturals. What they don't realize is that to be a natural you don't have to be born with the skills, just seem as if you were. What you do seems effortless.

Now you just have to contend with a few things:

• Will you be able to sustain this mindset even if you don't close each and every time?
• Who's planning your date on Sunday? Didn't she ask you out? Wouldn't this be an opportunity to get a better gauge of her IL by seeing what she would choose as an activity?
• You've gotten the waitress' attention, how are you going to keep it while sidestepping any contention about her boyfriend? Then again, is she even qualified?

Overall good job. The trick is sustaining this mindset while people challenge your methods. It's the difference in choosing what works as opposed to choosing what seems right.

 

[Bonafide]

Good sh1t man...ha "Im not asking your boyfriend out, he can stay home"... I've been wanting to hit a chick with that for so long...

 

[My Name is Nobody]

[*]Will you be able to sustain this mindset even if you don't close each and every time?
[*]Who's planning your date on Sunday? Didn't she ask you out? Wouldn't this be an opportunity to get a better gauge of her IL by seeing what she would choose as an activity?
[*]You've gotten the waitress' attention, how are you going to keep it while sidestepping any contention about her boyfriend? Then again, is she even qualified?[/LIST]Overall good job. The trick is sustaining this mindset while people challenge your methods. It's the difference in choosing what works as opposed to choosing what seems right.

Goof stuff Francisco. I am calling my newfound success "the Francisco Effect" because your advice is wearing off on me.

The plan Sunday night is a movie date. Yes she asked me to see a movie it was her idea.

The waitress is a tricky one. I am treading on new ground here. I'll have to just call her up and ask her out next weekend. I would ask her out this weekend but I'm a busy man.. too many plates to spin today and tomorrow.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Goof stuff Francisco. I am calling my newfound success "the Francisco Effect" because your advice is wearing off on me.

Ummm, that doesn't include NYE does it?

The plan Sunday night is a movie date. Yes she asked me to see a movie it was her idea.

Hehehehehe... Do you know what movie she's taking you to (*cough* CHICKFLICK *cough*)? It's probably "Made of Honor." Could be worse; lucky for you "Sex In the City" doesn't come out in the states until next week. You still may luck out and she takes you to see the new "Indy" (excellent movie btw).

Regardless of what you see, what are the plans after the movie? Remember that the time of the show plays a part on what you can do afterward.

The waitress is a tricky one. I am treading on new ground here. I'll have to just call her up and ask her out next weekend. I would ask her out this weekend but I'm a busy man.. too many plates to spin today and tomorrow.

Suggestion: Remember the whole idea of women being more receptive to you after you've established trust and comfort? Right now she's still trying to feel you out. What venue would be the right place for her to feel the most comfortable where you can build the most trust thus making it easier to say "yes" regardless of her so-called boyfriend status.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Ummm, that doesn't include NYE does it?

Hehehehehe... Do you know what movie she's taking you to (*cough* CHICKFLICK *cough*)? It's probably "Made of Honor." Could be worse; lucky for you "Sex In the City" doesn't come out in the states until next week. You still may luck out and she takes you to see the new "Indy" (excellent movie btw).
Suggestion: Remember the whole idea of women being more receptive to you after you've established trust and comfort? Right now she's still trying to feel you out. What venue would be the right place for her to feel the most comfortable where you can build the most trust thus making it easier to say "yes" regardless of her so-called boyfriend status.

No idea on which movie. I'm going to call her tomorrow and suggest something, like that new Indy. Also, I'll TELL her we'll get a drink / bite to eat before the movie

 

[scottfall]

No idea on which movie. I'm going to call her tomorrow and suggest something, like that new Indy. Also, I'll TELL her we'll get a drink / bite to eat before the movie

Not alot to add, just a pat on the back. Good job man, seeing transformations like yours gives people new to the game hope. Especially after seeing your crash and burns, nobody is hopeless.

As far as drinks, I say you go after the movie. Will give you an added wrinkle to the conversation and gives you some time to suggest cracking your whip for her.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

When the girl asked me to see a movie with her, maybe I should have just told her to come to my place? The thought of that entered my head but I was worried it would be too soon for that.