I want to go on with this girl

[kchaechr]

We're in the same college class and about 14 of us have booked a night out were we all share the same dorm to stay for the night.

I've been snapchatting a couple girls from my class since I recently became single and there is this one girl in particular I like however she had a bf.

We've been snapchatting past few days and I've sealed the deal to get her to share the same bed with me.

Her bf is a bit of gimp who's younger than she is and is total disrespecting him by what's she going to be doing with me but how can I escalte this a bit further and make something happen?

I have about 2.5 weeks before we go on this night out

Conversation has went a bit like this so far

Me - remember don't break out deal for night out
Her- I wont do you think I would break it?
Me- nah just making sure
Her- stay in my bed or no deal
Me- no chance, my beds much better plus u will regret it if u don't
Her- ok , top or bottom bunk?
Me- top, don't want people interfering
Her- thought that ( then spoke about something else)
Me- who's spooning ( cuddling) who then?
Her- take a guess?
Me- fine the big dawg will cuddle you then.
Her- what if you aren't any good?


That's as far as I've got but sometimes it feels 2 steps forward one step back?

What should I do ?

 

[miketan70]

Did you respond to her last message?

 

[El Payaso]

Stop talking about what exactly you're going to do with her. The more you talk about things before hand with a woman, the more likely you're going to spook her.

You want to make things as ambiguous as possible. That way, it doesn't trigger her ASD (Anti-Slvt Defense). You want to make it seem like things just happened spontaneously. That way, when she's talking about it with her friends, she can be like "He just invited me inside to check out his cool poster. One thing led to another and..."

You get the point. What you want to do is just set a time and that's it. Don't say anything else.

 

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