Mr Spitfire
Don Juan
I realize I am still 6 months from 25 but I almost exclusively go for older women.
First:"I definitely want her." Wow if it takes you that much thought to decide whether or not a chick is bangable its a wonder if you ever get laid.
Second: ****ing forget about her. She is THE girl you want. So pick another girl to focus on. Get obsessed with the other chick that is waaaay hotter to take your mind off of her.
Third: When you see her find her faults and take her down, way down. If she is blond start liking brunettes etc.
Fourth: She is older and therefore not expecting you to hit on her. If you talk to her, just think you don't want her. Don't force comments just to be talking! Be confident as if she wants you but you don't want her. Don't be polite. Try to smile less than you already are doing. She will think you are getting more comfortable being around her and seem like you are bonding. If your comments are very casual just walk away and go to another station when you have gotten her attention. She will respect that and assume you have no interest in her if you just casually walk away as if she isnt there.
Remember the key to talking to her is that you are never under any circumstances planning on hitting on her. You are testing to see if she might be interested. You ought to know what to look for. I'm just telling you how not to blow it before she throws you a signal.
I am not the best help to you because I am so hardcore and manly that women throw signals at me constantly, espcecially hot older women but on occasion I see a girl that doesn't throw signals and I have to try to pull one.
If you do manage to succeed in at least getting some kind of attention from her just casually ask her when no one is in ear shot if she would like to get a cup of coffee sometime. If she agrees say "cool", casually without smiling and walk away without smiling. If she turns you down. Say "No big deal." with a slight facial shrug and walk away no smiling.
On another day talk to her again as if you didnt talk about coffee and nothing has changed between you. Then on still another day ask her if she wants to get a cup of coffee like you forgot that you asked. Doesnt matter if she said yes or no. But make sure you ask and respond in exactly the same way. Dont ask for her number. You are going to hit her up for it at another time.
If you pull that off come back here And I will tell you what to do next.
Make sure to watch out for negative signals, like big upside down smiles, large head nods without looking at you, that sort of thing. This is when you stop talking to her and only give her friendly hellos.
That means either your cover is blown and she doesnt want you to go any farther or you are annoying her.
First:"I definitely want her." Wow if it takes you that much thought to decide whether or not a chick is bangable its a wonder if you ever get laid.
Second: ****ing forget about her. She is THE girl you want. So pick another girl to focus on. Get obsessed with the other chick that is waaaay hotter to take your mind off of her.
Third: When you see her find her faults and take her down, way down. If she is blond start liking brunettes etc.
Fourth: She is older and therefore not expecting you to hit on her. If you talk to her, just think you don't want her. Don't force comments just to be talking! Be confident as if she wants you but you don't want her. Don't be polite. Try to smile less than you already are doing. She will think you are getting more comfortable being around her and seem like you are bonding. If your comments are very casual just walk away and go to another station when you have gotten her attention. She will respect that and assume you have no interest in her if you just casually walk away as if she isnt there.
Remember the key to talking to her is that you are never under any circumstances planning on hitting on her. You are testing to see if she might be interested. You ought to know what to look for. I'm just telling you how not to blow it before she throws you a signal.
I am not the best help to you because I am so hardcore and manly that women throw signals at me constantly, espcecially hot older women but on occasion I see a girl that doesn't throw signals and I have to try to pull one.
If you do manage to succeed in at least getting some kind of attention from her just casually ask her when no one is in ear shot if she would like to get a cup of coffee sometime. If she agrees say "cool", casually without smiling and walk away without smiling. If she turns you down. Say "No big deal." with a slight facial shrug and walk away no smiling.
On another day talk to her again as if you didnt talk about coffee and nothing has changed between you. Then on still another day ask her if she wants to get a cup of coffee like you forgot that you asked. Doesnt matter if she said yes or no. But make sure you ask and respond in exactly the same way. Dont ask for her number. You are going to hit her up for it at another time.
If you pull that off come back here And I will tell you what to do next.
Make sure to watch out for negative signals, like big upside down smiles, large head nods without looking at you, that sort of thing. This is when you stop talking to her and only give her friendly hellos.
That means either your cover is blown and she doesnt want you to go any farther or you are annoying her.