wjh
Master Don Juan
Wow. So my LTR text me this morning letting me know her girlfriend broke up with her LTR (who she met on match.com).
Here's the story, and it's a terrible anecdote for any DJ to read. It's not the worst that can happen to you, but it's an AFC wreck.
So today the couple broke up. The guy, Bob, got mad at his GF and in his anger dumped her. Well he waivered after their breakup and tried to take it back. But, the girl, Suzie, said exactly what's in my title: She realized she wants someone who can't risk losing her. If that's not a desire for a total beta herb/AFC, I don't know what is.
And let me tell you about Bob. He IS a total beta. I once invited him over (and Suzie) to my condo on the beach to hang out, drink, and bbq. Well I was being a charming, fun guy and got pretty messed up after some drinks and steaks. I wasn't completely messed up, but I was having a good time. Well she would make comments like "you let him act like that?" to my GF, and she would look at her perplexed and just say that's how guys and they're just having fun. This girl Suzie, the dumper, is a total control freak. She doesn't "let" her boyfriend cut loose and have fun to any normal extent. They're broken up before over this type of thing, and during that weekend visit I learned that Bob's exgf was actually even MORE controlling than Suzie. Dude is the prototypical beta wimp that only dates controlling women.
It's pretty pathetic. Just thought I'd share.
I forgot to mention, she's also the type where she had her wedding date picked out, and was telling Bob when he was going to propose, by what time, etc.
Here's the story, and it's a terrible anecdote for any DJ to read. It's not the worst that can happen to you, but it's an AFC wreck.
So today the couple broke up. The guy, Bob, got mad at his GF and in his anger dumped her. Well he waivered after their breakup and tried to take it back. But, the girl, Suzie, said exactly what's in my title: She realized she wants someone who can't risk losing her. If that's not a desire for a total beta herb/AFC, I don't know what is.
And let me tell you about Bob. He IS a total beta. I once invited him over (and Suzie) to my condo on the beach to hang out, drink, and bbq. Well I was being a charming, fun guy and got pretty messed up after some drinks and steaks. I wasn't completely messed up, but I was having a good time. Well she would make comments like "you let him act like that?" to my GF, and she would look at her perplexed and just say that's how guys and they're just having fun. This girl Suzie, the dumper, is a total control freak. She doesn't "let" her boyfriend cut loose and have fun to any normal extent. They're broken up before over this type of thing, and during that weekend visit I learned that Bob's exgf was actually even MORE controlling than Suzie. Dude is the prototypical beta wimp that only dates controlling women.
It's pretty pathetic. Just thought I'd share.
I forgot to mention, she's also the type where she had her wedding date picked out, and was telling Bob when he was going to propose, by what time, etc.