listen up...
Originally posted by DJ_in_making
I never said cheating was right, I just think its best to have other options. What if that girl you were with breaks up w/ you the next day after you were all faithful to her? Wouldn't you feel stupid for telling the other girls off?
No.... because the chances o that happening are firstly slim, and secondly, while u are IN the relationship, you need to act accordingly.... If what you are saying is true, then i can go up to someone and kill him and defend myself saying that the guy could have killed ME the next day.... I wonder what the judge would do
... Incase ur still wondering, he would put ur ass in jail for the rest of your life.
But that besides the point.... when u are
IN a relationship, that means u CHOSE to be in a relationship, and therefore must act accordingly. If you want to be able to get with other girls, ten fine, do that, but then don’t commit yourself to ONE girl.
If you are not ready and/or mature enough to settle down with ONE chick, if you want to still be out there and playing the fields, then do so, but then don’t get urself into a relationship.
Lets do the role swapping here for a second.... lets say that one day you meet the girl of your dreams, and u fall madly in love with her and as YOU see it, everything is perfect.... then one day u find out she has been cheating on you... how would that make u feel? ... I guess that those of you here that have not been in love yet, wont really be able to answer that, but I'm sure that a lot of you here have been in love before, and trust me, finding out that the girl that you love has been cheating on you, is probably the worse feeling in the world, and I hope to g0d that I never have to feel that. My uncle's best girl friend jumped off a 8 story building 2 days after she found out that her bf of only 2 years had been cheating on her... so that’s just a taste of what that person feels.
A lot of you here are young, and still immature (not that that’s a bad thing), so I cant expect you to understand where i am coming from, but one day, you will think back to what ~ªêQµïTª$~ said, and you will say "gee, that guy was actually right, I cant believe I never saw how bad cheating really is *slap on forehead*" ...
Anyways... bottom line here, is that if you still plan on macking other women etc, then font get yourself into a relationship, think about the other persons feelings for a change, put yourself in THEIR shoes, and just do the right thing, the thing that will not result in someone getting hurt because you wanted to "have some fun".... if you wanna have fun, then by all means, have your fun, but have your fun in the RIGHT way!
Laterz...
