I want a young, healthy, caucasian, not brown eye, virgin, european woman to marry.

[SamePendo]

And wants to have kids.


How do you reckon I'd go around that?
Let's take aside the "working on yourself" stuff. I am on my own pedestal, and work hard on everything about me: my body, my mind, my spirit, my wealth. So just focusing on those qualities I want. How do you think I should go about?

Young:
Young, close or beyond 30 is old. Emotional baggage and emotional rotting is very much reduced.

Healthy:
Habit of exercising, eating healthy. Smoking or drinking as long as it's not an issue for her, it's not for me, obviously getting drunk is a no. Intelligent, not only takes care of her body but of her mind, and of course, spirit.

Caucasian, not brown eyed:
White skin. Not like swedish white, in which they blush and they get red like a tomato. And not brown eyes, but green/blue/grey/black eyes.

Virgin:
I don't know about you, maybe its an insecurity maybe its something else, whatever it may be, I don't want the mother of my children to have sucked some guys d!ck, I simply don't. I have no problem waiting till marriage if it's the case.

European:
Goes along with the caucasian thing. I'd include Australian and US, but, dunno, they tend to be "McDonalds-ized", personality wise and stuff, you mostly-US-guys understand I guess.

Woman:
I am not gay.

Wants to have kids.

Miscellaneous:
I don't like to go clubbing, so neither should she. I don't mind going once or twice, a year. I'm not antisocial by any means, I don't mind going to inaugurations, the movies, soccer games, coffee, whatever, I just don't like clubbing.
Happy, optimistic.
Obviously, loyal.
And obviously attractive to me, but that's kind of subjective.


A very important thing is, what do I offer.

I'm also young.
I take care of my body a lot. I also take care of my mind and spirit (that's why I don't come here so often anymore hehe). I am very curious to find out more and more in life.
I am half latin half european. My sexual experience, allthough many in real life could bet and swear against this, is suprisingly reduced. I am a man.
Happy and optimistic.
And have a lot of goals, like to work, and I'd like to stress these two.
I plan to stay in Mexico for AT LEAST 5 years, I don't discard the possibilty of moving abroad, but that is not the plan at all.

I really don't want to get TOO active looking for women until I have AT LEAST a "nest" (house), stability, and the things that will come with that (wealth). Because ofcourse, it's not just her and me, but in time kids too. But that's short term, I mean, I won't just start looking *actively* for her once I have an empire, but once I have at least that.
And by actively I mean getting a more powerful radar, not stopping what I'm doing, just getting a better radar.



Maybe I can get "criticized" for some thing or other. But that's simply what I want. I stated the "take aside the personal stuff" to avoid any knee-jerk answers, as well as this being what I want. Also, please avoid the "not possible" stuff.

How do you recommend I find someone like this?
Really all comments welcome but just like to weed out all those knee-jerk posters.
Thank you!

 

[SamePendo]

Meanwhile, I'm working on myself. As I said, my radar is short range and not too accurate. I won't mind anything crashing to me, but, I'll focus on myself. Anything that is not what is above, won't cause my radar to tick, and won't get me to turn away from my personal goals.

 

[evoken]

Healthy:
Habit of exercising, eating healthy. Smoking or drinking as long as it's not an issue for her, it's not for me, obviously getting drunk is a no. Intelligent, not only takes care of her body but of her mind, and of course, spirit.

Smoking or drinking isn't an issue but she isn't allowed to get drunk? WUT?

Caucasian, not brown eyed:
White skin. Not like swedish white, in which they blush and they get red like a tomato. And not brown eyes, but green/blue/grey/black eyes.

Brown eyes? No. Black eyes? Yes? WUT?

Virgin:
I don't know about you, maybe its an insecurity maybe its something else, whatever it may be, I don't want the mother of my children to have sucked some guys d!ck, I simply don't. I have no problem waiting till marriage if it's the case.

So not only do you want a girl that's a virgin, you want her to not have sucked a d1ck before too? HAHAHAHAHA. Why do I get the feeling you're going to marry a prude Christian whale?

European:
Goes along with the caucasian thing. I'd include Australian and US, but, dunno, they tend to be "McDonalds-ized", personality wise and stuff, you mostly-US-guys understand I guess.

Fvcking stupid. I understand not wanting to marry a non-white girl but not Australian or American because they're "McDonalds-ized"? What the fvck?

Wants to have kids.

LOL have fun with that.

Miscellaneous:
I don't like to go clubbing, so neither should she.

I get the feeling that your virgin wife wouldn't like to go clubbing. Else she probably wouldn't be a virgin.

And obviously attractive to me, but that's kind of subjective.

Not gonna happen unless you cut the virgin part out.

Maybe I can get "criticized" for some thing or other. But that's simply what I want. I stated the "take aside the personal stuff" to avoid any knee-jerk answers, as well as this being what I want. Also, please avoid the "not possible" stuff.

I don't see the point of this thread, do you want to get flamed or something? This is one of the most retarded things I've ever read.

How do you recommend I find someone like this?

Try picking up at the local church.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

General rule.

Step One: Identify your criteria as specifically as possible.

Step Two: Arrange your criteria in order of importance. Separate the "must have's from the "would be nice to have's" Included in this is what cost you will be willing to pay to obtain said criteria.

Step Three: Find a Target Rich Environment

Step Four: Develop an efficient sorting strategy, and start qualifying.

Revise your List in Step Two as your experiences increases. Stop sorting when you have found a qualified candidate that satisfies your criteria at an acceptable cost.

Most guys are not only unsure of their criteria, but are completely unwilling to examine what it will take to obtain someone who meets their criteria, if they ever get around to identifying it.

good luck

 

[12AJ12]

And you were hoping somebody might be able to hook you up with their cousin?

 

[Von_S]

Ok so you're basically looking for what 90% of the men on earth are looking for? Got it.

And you're looking for what amounts to probably 1% of the women on earth can offer? Got it.

A major problem you're facing, other than the sheer numbers of it all is you have "european" and "virgin" in the same sentence. If you've done any bit of traveling you'll know Euro girls aren't quite as inhibited as their American counter parts. Chances are the average 22 - 25 year old girl from say.... Sweden has probably slept with more people than you have. Euro's do a lot of traveling in their early 20's and when they travel all bets are off, I've been on the business end of some overseas p*ssy so I can tell you first hand they have no problem hooking up and the next day catching a train to the next city.

In any event good luck, godspeed and if you happen to find the Ark of the Covenant, the Loch Ness Monster, Jimmy Hoffa, Amelia Earhart, Excalibur or anything else of equal rarity feel free to post pictures.

 

[search1ng]

He's looking for what he wants, i say go for it. It's not a bad thing to strive for what you really think you want. Hell, why settle for less when you can do better?

To the OP, go for it man! Just don't forget quality women are also looking for high quality men, don't neglect yourself and keep looking.

Never settle for less, especially if it's for something as life-altering as marriage.

edit: the whole virgin this is a little too over the top though. At least, in today's world...

 

[WaterTiger]

Marry Amish! They got just what you're looking for!

 

[SamePendo]

Ok so you're basically looking for what 90% of the men on earth are looking for? Got it.

And you're looking for what amounts to probably 1% of the women on earth can offer? Got it.

1) Your thoughts reek mediocrity.
2) 1% is HUGE, thanks for the great news.

Step Three: Find a Target Rich Environment

Step Four: Develop an efficient sorting strategy, and start qualifying.

Revise your List in Step Two as your experiences increases. Stop sorting when you have found a qualified candidate that satisfies your criteria at an acceptable cost.

Most guys are not only unsure of their criteria, but are completely unwilling to examine what it will take to obtain someone who meets their criteria, if they ever get around to identifying it.

Target Rich Environment I guess would be one of those countries which these women are from, or Internet?

What would you say an efficient sorting strategy is? Maybe not in this case but in another case.

"What it will take to obtain someone who meets their criteria"? As in, going wherever to sort them out?

Thanks search1ng. Thanks everyone. If you not only want red, but want pink, and specifically want fuschia, why would you go for green, or settle for red?

 

[Hidden-Hand]

How do you recommend I find someone like this?
Really all comments welcome but just like to weed out all those knee-jerk posters.
Thank you!

I will not sling on insults at you but if your looking for that kind of girl exactly, join a cult...possibly Mormanism? I am positive they can find this type of girl for you better than we can, as I hear they have a wide variety to choose from. Although she might be 11yrs old, 12 yrs sold, 13 yrs old or so, but you stated you dont mind waiting for marriage so go for it. If not Mormanism then depending on your location you can find some local cult, because cults are likely the only place you'll find a girl completely like that, unless you get lucky. Or you can bribe a childs parents and make them make her adhere strickly to those standards, then when shes old enough pay them to make her marry you...a little over the top, but hey Im trying to offer up solutions here...If not none of these then I guess your SOL then.

 

[mikeyb]

Was that supposed to be a personal ad?

 

[Wiesman44]

1) Your thoughts reek mediocrity.
2) 1% is HUGE, thanks for the great news.

How is 1% huge ? Thats like saying getting an F on a paper is a good grade.

 

[Desdinova]

Nice list. However I think you need to add one thing to it...

You should not REQUIRE to meet a woman like this to make your life complete. However, she will be the exception to all the others out there: she will be the one who deserves to spend the rest of her life with you.

I think everyone (who plans on settling down with a woman) should have a list of what they want in a woman. It will help strain all the lumps out and minimize the possibility of building your life with a piece of 5hit. You can't build anything with a piece of 5hit.

 

[speakeasy]

With neurotic threads like this, it's clear this forum is over the hill.

 

[Darth]

Ok so you're basically looking for what 90% of the men on earth are looking for? Got it.

And you're looking for what amounts to probably 1% of the women on earth can offer? Got it.

Well, knowing that will make it all the sweeter when I score. I'm ready to compete! I like a challenge. I won't settle for anything less. They're out there....they just get taken quickly. The trick is, becoming one of the guys that takes them early.

Here's what I'm looking for. It's similar to the OP:

What I'm looking for:

1. Really attractive

2. Classy. Is not afraid to wear dresses/skirts as well as pants/jeans. Polite to relatives and well-spoken.

3. Loyal to me and very attached to me, in love.

4. Sweet personality. Takes pleasure in making me happy.

5. Good cook.

6. Wants eventually to have my kids and willing to stay at home to raise them

7. Shares my values/Christian (which would imply virgin)

8. Doesn't try to be the boss/feminist. Realizes I am the man

Preferences:

1. Initiates physical contact all the time and responds well when I do. Comforts me when I'm down, hugs/kisses me when I'm frustrated, lets me vent any problems/frustrations I'm having and listens patiently. Forcefully grabs me and kisses me over and over sometimes, because she loves me so much.

2. Curly/wavy hair is cute

3. Good dancer.

4. A good singer, so I can play piano and she can sing along.

5. A hot foreign accent

 

[Desdinova]

They're out there....they just get taken quickly. The trick is, becoming one of the guys that takes them early.

Or learning how to steal them away from the other guy. That's more my specialty.

 

[Taviii]

I don't understand these preferences. The next girl you meet and fall in love with might not even be close to what you prefer.

This kind of list seems like the lists children make for Santa. You want your blue toy car and nothing else can please you.

Would you reject the maybe perfect girl for you only because she has brown eyes, even though you feel crazy attracted to her?

 

[Darth]

Would you reject the maybe perfect girl for you only because she has brown eyes, even though you feel crazy attracted to her?

Of course not.

Basically I'm looking for a "good girl", in every sense of the word.

 

[SharinganUser]

Darth, I think he was refering to the op.

 

[SamePendo]

How is 1% huge ? Thats like saying getting an F on a paper is a good grade.

Well, there are almost a billion people in Europe, 830 million. Lets say that half of that are women. That is 400 million. Lets say a third of that is/will be young enough in a matter of years.. that's like 130 million young women. 1% of that is 1.3 million women.

I don't understand these preferences. The next girl you meet and fall in love with might not even be close to what you prefer.

This kind of list seems like the lists children make for Santa. You want your blue toy car and nothing else can please you.

"Live for what you NEED!" says the voice of security. "Live for what you WANT!" says the voice of freedom.
--Pook

What's wrong with wanting my blue toy car?
Besides, I'm writing a letter not to Santa, but to myself. It's not as if I just write it down and wait for Santa to come and give it to me. I will get it. I'm not a woman waiting to be wed. I'm a raging beast that eats sh!t like you for breakfast. And I want that.

You should not REQUIRE to meet a woman like this to make your life complete. However, she will be the exception to all the others out there: she will be the one who deserves to spend the rest of her life with you.

I think everyone (who plans on settling down with a woman) should have a list of what they want in a woman. It will help strain all the lumps out and minimize the possibility of building your life with a piece of 5hit. You can't build anything with a piece of 5hit.

Eh, this won't sound too politically correct here, but I do feel it would make my life complete. I'm not saying at all that; if I am successful at every other area in my life, in every way that I want to, except this, I will be sad and feel life was useless. However, it's like the cherry in the pie.

I learned in school that the cycle of a human is to: be born, grow, reproduce, and die. That really applies in most cases. People just go through life, they survive. I want to be great. I want more than a castle, a kingdom. The "I want a European woman to marry" isn't the whole "Santa letter" it's just one of the points. But a very important one indeed, since it's in my nature, and more than that, it's something that I want.


And if she has brown eyes, well, I'll get her contact lenses hehe.

Besides, in a "achiever" point of view, knowing what I want allows me to weed out *99%* of women, and be able to concentrate on transcendental things like my *art*. I'm not out hunting. Im building, and I have my single-bullet gun, and on my breaks I'll have an open eye.


"But you might lose, Pook!" Yes, but at least I can say my life was an adventure. Can you say the same for yours?