I wanna hook up with every girl I like but scared of the CONSEQUENCES.

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

Thanks to the newly acquired DJ skills I am starting to get good progress with women.

The problem is I happen have attract plenty of girls. And being the hot and horny young chap like myself, I want to have sex with all of them but I am scared of consequences like:

1. What people will think of me.
2. I will start to lose myself and get carried away
3. Bein a sex maniac
4. Get in so much trouble if I hurt the girls feelings or they fall hard
5. Will not be able to hold a healthy relationship later on or worse, become a cheater.
6. Start to lose focus of higher purposes like goals, passions and dreams
7. Afraid that "karma" will get back to me
8. Branded a "man*****" and the good girls wont even bother with me. At the moment some girls tell their girlfriends to stay away from me but they still somehow end up fooling around with me.
9. Will have to deal with all the drama
10. Greedy to the point where most of my friends will start hating me while pretending to support me.
11. Sometimes ashamed of who I sleep with for fear of being judged or seen as inferior.
12. See this as a massive reassurance that I am a desirable person

The thing is, I don't use tricks or any manipulation. I actually start off as being friends but then we get carried away and do the deed. I could get with a different girl each night (slightly exhagerrated) but people say its bad. I use protection at ALL times and back off when a girl says no. I dont buy girls drinks but they always buy me drinks. I dont compliment them I just tease them. I even go through the trouble of telling them they would make a bad choice if they get with me, and they still do lol.

Here are just a few girls I got involved with the past few weeks:
1. A girl who I wanna be friends with but ended up fooling around with her. Its kinda funny, I'm 5'6 and shes around 6ft and its gonna look funny me being seen with her.
2. A girl who lives with her bf for 3 years. I dont want that on my conscience. Another one who had a fiance. and nearly another one who was suppose to marry her "knight in shining armour" but she was trying to get wit me and our friends were all suddenly lookin and me mad.
3. Workmates..not just one but 2..and they're both friends with each other too
4. Nearly with a housemate. Im not attracted to her but I know she digs me.
5. I wanted this girl that everyone is expecting her to be wit a friend of mine.
6. Some girls who I find "cool" and "fun" but other people think the 2 of us dont belong together. (looks, height, interest etc).

Now I mainly just acquired the name "MAKE_OUT WH*RE" but never told anyone who I sleep with. I could have made out with tons more and slept with more but something holds me back. And it would be great if someone was in a similar situation.

Im no player or playboy with a rich a.ss lifestyle. Im just someone who enjoys doin "stuff with girls" I am SINGLE and plan to be one for a very long time. I would like to have multiple girlfriends. I dont have plans of settling down and I just come back to hook up with one of the girls whenever I feel like. Just like a differnt shoe you feel like putting on each day. Honestly I am scared of settling down and lose my independence because I tend to lose my power and focus

Honestly, if I didn't hold back I would let my mojo and wang run riot and be happy as a one-legged lesbian on a pogostick. My family would disown me yet be proud of unknowingly repopulating earth of lil horny wanglings.

I see a lucky girl out there who would want to put up with my testosterone lol

 

[WC2]

Sorry I didn't read your whole post, but a DJ is never afraid of what others think. A DJ lives his life his own way with not a care in the world what anyone thinks. Girls aren't attracted to men who are insecure and SCARED of what people are going to think. Also, deep down people don't respect a person who can't be himself.

 

[ima str8 up pimp]

Okay. For the original post. You're a scared ****ing *****. You can't get ***** and you know it, don't make excuses for yourself, and don't make them so long either, it it makes you look hella more pathetic.

1. Girls want **** just as much as we want *****. So, if it's a booty call, **** doesn't matter fag. Shows how much you know with your "newly aquired skills."

2. Do you not realize that there is no "game, or skills", it's not some "magic aura". It's just you and your ability to approach and handle your ****.

3. Please don't post b/s on here thinking you can fool people, 'cause you ain't fooling REAL PLAYERS. Who really know what's up on this whole crappy site with the advertising and Mr. DeAngelo and ****.






This is coming from a kid that at 16 was hooking up with hot 20 yr olds. Currently playing tha **** out've 4 girls. Make you wanna beat off doesnt it faggets?

 

[typical]

This is coming from a kid that at 16 was hooking up with hot 20 yr olds. Currently playing tha **** out've 4 girls. Make you wanna beat off doesnt it faggets?

And you have to point that out right LOL

 

[ima str8 up pimp]

LOL:yes: ...................... this one's just ****in' awesomley weird :woo:

what up mang

 

[Distant Light]

Typical noob hurdles you have to jump over. One thing to never forget in order to get good you have to let go of you're EG. If you don't your going to have a hard time.

1. What people will think of me.
Don't worry what anyone think about you, your just being insecure. On guys with low self esteem would worry about what others think. High status people would more than likely laugh at it.

3. Bein a sex maniac
I've seen many times infield that girls do actually like sex more than you and there is no such thing as a sex maniac. You trying to make it seem like girls aren't that sexual or that you have such a high sex drive and the girls don't. I recommend you read "Nancy Fridays: My secret Garden" (**** has no other purpose besides sex...)

4. Get in so much trouble if I hurt the girls feelings or they fall hard
If you have a strong frame sh!t like this won't happen, make sure she is coming into your reality and not you going into hers. (Is she inviting you to a bowling alley with her friends or you inviting her with your friends?) Also just like a hb10 who would blow off every chode and not care about them, you need to have the same attitude to be successful. You have your own standards and needs so stick to it, don't lower it because some girl is sad she can't be with you. (Also keep note you want to bring out some of the emotions on purpose to make her get mixed signals from you and also go on a emotional ride. I personally love Fear of loss and Jealous)

5. Will not be able to hold a healthy relationship later on or worse, become a cheater.
If it is like that then don't get exclusive with none of the girls you mess with. (Don't get mad if they get fuvked by someone else either) Its also best to have a intention when your gaming a girl that way she isn't blinded thinking you want to be exclusive but yet you're sleeping with 5 other women. Make her know subtely that you fuvk other women (Social Proof, Non needy, not much time spent with her)

6. Start to lose focus of higher purposes like goals, passions and dreams
Try to balance it out, read one method, system, or watever and go out and try it little by little so you don't have to read much. That way during your regular life going about outside you can practice Cold approaching.

8. Branded a "man*****" and the good girls wont even bother with me. At the moment some girls tell their girlfriends to stay away from me but they still somehow end up fooling around with me.
You just answered your own question, for one who would you rather be known as towards the girls "The man who doesn't get around with girls" or "The man who fuvked the girl, her friend, her friend's friend sister" Either way that all goes in social proof. Thats like a jealousy plotline all in itself, the girl isn't going to be turnedoff and not talk to you because your considered a "Man *****". Also remember "Behind all that makeup all girls are bad girls" (With the right frame you can bring out the wild side of girls.)

9. Will have to deal with all the drama
After you have a strong frame the only drama that you have to deal with is what you make.


The Girls
1. A girl who I wanna be friends with but ended up fooling around with her. Its kinda funny, I'm 5'6 and shes around 6ft and its gonna look funny me being seen with her.

It will only be funny if you make it seem funny and cause it to make you lose your frame. Just like nothing is awkward unless you make it awkward.

6. Some girls who I find "cool" and "fun" but other people think the 2 of us dont belong together. (looks, height, interest etc).
Who gives a fuvk. Tell your self his, who is she with? Who is she fuvking? Who is she giving good head too? Who is palming dat ass? Who is she thinking about before going to sleep? After you finished answered you will notice no where does it say "Her friend", "Your friend","Her sister". If its a boy thats saying this too he needs to stop riding you because he isn't the one that she is always waiting to see. Always do what you do and go for what you want don't look at how other people are perceiving you.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

Distant Light that is some awesome reply. I can admit that I havent fully mature and finding it a little uncomfortable with changes. I suppose its just the frame that needs working over. I somehow need to move from quantity to quality but hey I'm having fun at the moment and there's no need to be perfect too soon.

I can admit I'm having newbie issues. But at least I can man up to say that I have rather than boast about "im such a damn pimp". I am being myself but holding back at "capitalising". I have a lot of chick friends and some of them are house mates. To me, that friendship is somewhat important to me but if things get out of hand I would probably regret it. I've had moments when I was good friends with a girl and did a random play with her only for her to become distant and cold and never regained our friendship. I guess that holds true that guys and girls can never be friends if your DJ or so.

ALso my upbringing probably has a lot to do with my hang ups, and I'm just slowly adjusting to change. As you can tell I was an AFC and now improving.

Anyway, thanks for the input.

Pimp, I have a friend who lost his virginity at 13 to a 20yr old woman. One time he slept with 5 different girls in one night at a school camp with out anyone ever knowing.He has slept with over 70 girls before he turned 18. And has he boasted about it......NO. I never believed him at first but then when I first started hanging out with him tons of girls were fully checking him out. He gets first rate girls and always gets the girl on the top of his list. And they are all hot girls too and no 2nd rate ones. He is the most mature and secure person I have ever met. But now he has slowed down and stopped playing around and when I ask him he never tells me.

 

[AngelusPUA]

There is always 100 excuses for not doing what you truly want to do.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Everyone wants validation.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

Is there any situation that you guys would never go such as:

1. Sleeping with a girl from workplace?
2. Fooling with a girl which is against work/career ethics policy
3. Housemate
4. Close friend
5. A friends sister lol
6. Someone significantly younger
7. Have sex with a girl for money lol
8 Make out with any cute girl randomly

 

[d9930380]

If you're a man ***** and you shag plenty of girls the only people your ****ing are those girls latter boyfriends because in a way you've (plus guys like you) sullied them.

Honestly though don't worry about it. Good girls don't mind guys that shag around, infact they like the fact that they've tamed the wild beast and you've settled with them. Girls think differently than guys.

I knew these girls ALONG time ago who where supposedly "good" girls, they would say that they like US (me and my mates) because we wheren't players or sleaze bags. Well as allways, what a girl tells you she likes is complete horse****. The truth is, they saw us as safe boys they could hang out with while they ****ed (unknown to us at the time) all the other guys they supposedly didn't like.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

Also I've held back from gettin with a girl because I thought it would ruin my chances with hotter girls (they are all in my college of 100 people)

There was probably over 10 girls I was interested in and was interested in me as well. I thought gettin with a certain girl that my friends have said that I could do better than her, will "lower" my value in the eyes of hotter girls.

 

[NewMan]

Do what you want but consider the following:

1) Don't fvck a friends girl - even after they are broken up. Bro's before ho's.

2) Always wear protection

3) Don't sh#t in your own backyard. i.e. don't fvck someone your living with - just for fun (it's never just for fun) - and don't fvck anyone you work with - don't want to have to deal with issues in the future (unless your working at some BS job you know your will not be doing for long)

4) If you fvck a girl in your 'friendship' circle - realise that that will change the dynamic of the friendships - not just yours and hers.

5) never tell a woman and convince her you want a relationship - or that you will stick around for the poon. It's not worth the hassle.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

wat about girls who are friends with who i just recently fooled around with?

or girls who are less attracted but I felt like it would be fun to try out things other than to stroke my ego lol

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

I was finishing work the other day...We all went to a 24 hr convenience store to get a feed.

Then the girls started talking about sex n being dirty. At that stage I wanted to sleep with one of them. Tits everywhere heaving waiting to be )(*&(%*

I work with them behind the bar at a nightclub.

I have made out with 3 other workmates before. I couldnt control myself

I recently got a job volunteering at a vacation daycare centre. I made out and played around with one of the day carers there.

I would like to f*ck all of them if no one gets to know and get hurt.